Dating Tips For Men on attraction

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Dating Tips for Men - Attraction

Attraction is a mystery that many men just cannot figure out.  Attraction, as David Deangelo says, isn’t a choice.   A woman does not choose to be attracted to a man, she either is or she is not.

One of the most beautiful things about attraction is, however, the fact that there are certain elements to a man that will actually trigger attraction in a woman, and will trigger a primal response within her that she cannot control.

Sexual insecurity is one of the key attraction killers that many men project.  Sexual insecurity is a sign of low status, low self confidence, lack of experience, lack of strength, and on a primal level, a measurement of a man’s UN-desirability – meaning that women will not want to mate, on a primal level, with a man of low status.

Status is an indication to a woman of quite a few things.  Status indications are triggers that call out to a woman on an unconscious, or primal, level, that she may not even be aware of.  Sexual confidence is not a mechanism that is triggered by a man’s intelligence.  Actually, this is one of the reasons that some super intelligent men fail so miserably with women.  “Geek syndrome” happens when a man allows his intellect to dictate his body’s natural response to a situation, and this intellectual dictation leads to the override of the natural projection of sexuality and sexual confidence.

So what is sexual confidence, and how does one project it?  Sexual confidence is knowing, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that you can give a woman the pleasure of a lifetime, if YOU CHOOSE TO DO SO.  Sexual confidence is knowing what to do, from the initiation of the “mating dance” to the final consummation.  It is also the ability to build anticipation – to make the woman want you, to make her chase you and keep her on her toes wondering of she has you or not.

Attraction comes down to the projection of alpha male status.  Alpha males do not chase women, the women chase them.  If an alpha male does choose to go after a woman, the woman is expected to submit to his attention.  This is not, by any means, advocating any forcible contact with women, but instead, advocating the fact that men must BE MEN in order to fan the flames of attraction.  Look simply to the animal kingdom for confirmation of that statement.  Do the lesser males of the pack get to mate with the females?  No.  It’s the alpha male who gets the girl!

Triggering attraction is a powerful mechanism in David Deangelo’s programs.  Did you also know that there is a SECRET that women know (that they WISH men knew) about attraction?  Check it out. 

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