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Is there a such thing as a human mating dance? It is
very clear in nature when two animals are mating, because they use their body
language to display it, with complex rituals, dances, displays or projects.
These rituals are hardwired into the animals, they are completely instinctual,
not something they learn from their parents or from a movie on the discovery
channel.
So, do human beings have a mating dance, a set of ritual courtship steps that we
go through in the process of selecting a mate and proceeding from that selection
into the consummation of that selection? Yes, we do. However, most men do not
KNOW the steps of that dance, and therefore will not be chosen by a woman to be
their mate.
Let us digress for just a moment. How is a solid gold coin different from paper
money? Paper money is actually a representation of money, it is not worth
anything outside the value of what society or the government has placed upon it.
The gold coin has value outside of monetary value, it can be melted down and
made into other objects.
In this same vein, how is body language different than other languages? Body
language is an innate method of communication that is incapable of lying, as
well as has no language barrier. A smile is a universal sign, whereas the word
“hello” is different in languages around the world. According to Dr. Albert
Mehrabian in his Psychology Today article, it is estimated that only 7% of
communication is purveyed by words, 38% by voice tone and the remaining 55% by
facial expression and body language.
Body Language and expression, then, are KEY COMPONENTS in understanding the
complexities and mechanics of attraction. I highly recommend STUDYING Body
Language if the mechanics of attraction interest you at all. By studying Body
language, you can learn the subtle signals and methods of sparking attraction
with a woman that 99% of the population have NO IDEA exist at all. The Naturals?
THEY KNOW. The guys you see at the bars and clubs just picking up woman after
woman? THEY KNOW. The dork-wad making moon eyes at every hottie that walks by
him and getting rejected more times than a dick flavored sucker? HE does NOT
know.
That being said, how about some recommendations? If you want to get in the know,
you have got to check out Carlos Xuma's Approach Program - he can teach you some
AMAZING things about Body Language and how it affects the mating dance in a real
and tangible way.
Here are some of the
things Carlos will teach you:
- What instinct you must trust to enable your long-term
success with women...
- How to interpret and handle open/closed body language so
that you're not tricked again...
- What is the difference between men and women and how they
express interest or disinterest in body language...?
- How to find the single most important indicator of interest
from a woman and how you need to read it to
stay on track when you're building attraction...?
- What are the specific definitions of each
of her body movements and how to read them all...?
- What are the Positive vs. Negative Indicators
from a woman - and which ones you can trust to read her
correctly and not waste your time?
- Proxemics - What they are, and how they
work in different settings...
- My 2 Essential Techniques to use to get a woman to feel
trust and rapport with you so that you can get past the games
and get really connected...
- The Approach Killers - I'll give you ALL the mistakes guys
typically make during the approach - and how you can learn to
avoid them...
- How to use my "Assume the Bond" strategy and have her
feeling like she's known you her whole life...
- The one thing you must communicate with
your words to make your approach succeed, and if you don't
communicate this, she'll just walk away...
There's even more inside this program...
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