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Ok guys, let’s talk some
straight body language tips here. Women want
a real man, and from the first moment she
sees you, she is sizing you up. She is
looking for a MAN - and the definition of an
attractive Man to a woman is dominant, alpha
male. I don’t mean be a jerk - I mean be
confidant, sure of yourself, display your
“prowess” in other words. Let her know that
you are powerful and able man.
On the flip side of that, there are some
dead giveaways to a woman that you are NOT
these things to her, and it will turn her
off faster than a light switch. These are
sure fire attraction KILLERS. Never, under
any circumstance, project any of these body
language traits when you are trying to pick
up women (or under any circumstance, for
that matter).
A few of them are:
1) Can't maintain eye contact
2) Has slumped, submissive posture
3) Fidgets nervously
4) Gives away his power
5) Looks for attention and approval from
others
Of course, there are so many “little
attraction signals” that women look for
to make that snap decision about what kind
of man you are and INSTANTLY know whether or
not you are worth another thought. ALL of
this in conveyed through your BODY LANGUAGE.
Now, as I said earlier, these "decisions"
that women make about attraction all happen
on a subconscious level. Women don't look at
a guy, then say to a friend, "Well, he held
eye contact when I looked at him, and he was
standing straight with his head up high in a
dominant posture so I'm going to give him a
chance".
It's simply an immediate, instinctive
feeling that women get. They use these
little body language cues to instantly size
you up, then respond without even knowing
it.
Dominance (attraction) can also be confirmed
by your attitude when that initial eye
contact goes a bit farther. You can say
something cocky and funny to her, like "I
just couldn't help noticing you...
[pause]... STARING at me..." or , "Do you
always maintain such strong eye contact? Or
do you only stare at guys like me that you
can't help it with?"
Try anything. You're in the right place... I
mean, you don't even have to expend the
energy to walk over and start a
conversation! At least say Hi! Show her that
you are a) not afraid to talk to her (i.e.
not afraid of rejection/her opinion of you)
b) aware that she is attracted to you (even
if you are not sure, play it like she is and
attraction will follow!) and c) a little out
of her reach (because you are HIGHER STATUS
than she is).
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