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Hey guys! I wanted to share with you this great online newsletter from Nick Shane of PlayBoySkool. Read on and share in the wisdom!
*** TODAY’S QUESTION ***
Nick you are the shit! I am a student and your stuff has helped me put dumbstruck faces on my now jealous friends. Last week in the Laundromat - she was there with her friend. I met this cute little tanned dark haired girl I used to go to school with a few years back. A definite 9. This was one of those chicks... you know, the ones who just saw through you or never even glanced your way. But now I had a weapon to use. I stood facing away from her and looked at her and gave a sly little James Bond smile and simply said:
Me: "Hey! You went to ______ High school" Her: Yea Me: Still living with your Mommy? (James bond smile) Her: (Laughs) Yea just for a while till I get.... Me :( Interrupting) Yea whatever. Her: (Laughs)
So my laundry's done, I pack and go out to my car. Just as I start the engine she runs out with a piece of paper with the digits! Haaaaaa!!! Anyway, my question is: I have huge approach anxiety. Its all in my head but when I go to approach a girl on the street or anywhere my head goes blank and I give myself some lame excuse like " oh I'll keep looking around first" or "I don't want her anyways" you know. What can I tell myself to fix this or how do I just get these feelings to just piss off. I need a good mindset and some good ideas for approaches Dude! It's killing me!!
Help.
Kian Dublin City, Ireland.
>>> MY COMMENTS:
Well done Mr. Bond!
That's what I want to hear...and as a reward you have now earned yourself a license to kiss. Now call her up and set a 'get together' for next week. But NO dinner dates, cinema or flowers! It will KILL all the attraction she now feels for you.
To your question:
There is no EASY or QUICK way to fix your approach anxiety. You will have to build it up.
I know why your head goes BLANK!
Because you don't have a BULLETPROOF Icebreaker that will NOT get you rejected by a woman. You didn't do 10,000s of approaches like I did. You don’t know the pick up lines. You simply don't have the experience yet to be all relaxed. PLUS, you don't have all the GREAT lines I perfected over the years.
There are two ways you can tackle approach anxiety:
1) You do it the hard way - You do 50 approaches per day ... and get rejected 99% of the times. It will hurt, it will start chipping away on your self-esteem but you will grow stronger. Enough time passes, you will get the feel for a GOOD approach and you will have a good stash of ICEBREAKERS that worked for you.
2) Do it the SMART way - Learn from me! Dude, I've already been there and figured out all the traps, tests and answers. I have a HUGE arsenal of ICEBREAKERS, Lines and Conversation Starters already in one single package ... PLUS I will tell you exactly how to get rid of that FEAR that is holding you back, and how you can SHATTER your inner barriers.
If you want to learn EVERYTHING there is to know about a SUCCESSFUL Walk-UP, my Approaching Women With Confidence Guide will BOOST you right over the top.
You can get it by clicking HERE.
*** QUESTION ***
Hi, this is how my story begins: I met this girl at the birthday party. She was sitting with her friends and they where surrounded by about six boys all rushing to win one of them. They've been having a conversation through the whole night but none of those boys got one of the girls. I was dancing the whole night with a couple of friends. I didn't really care much about talking to those girls until it was 5am in the morning. The boys where all gone and the girls where left alone standing there so, I got a chair to them and tell them to sit down and they did. I asked one of the girls to dance with me and she told me that she doesn't know how to dance. I tried to convince her but she said she couldn't and so I took off. It was about 6am when the party was about to finish, she called me over and said, "Can I have your number?" and I replied, "Yes". When the party finish, I hugged her and told her to call me and she did afterwards. After calling me, she asks me of where to take her for a great date. I took her to a fun place called, "Wet n Wild" and it cost me $100 to enter and it's kind of hard for me to afford the money. One day, I told her on our 5Th date that I want to be with her 4 ever, I started talking about things like "we are meant to be" etc.
She seemed to be freaked out about it but she never told me anything good or bad, all I can hear is "I Love you". After some dates, she text me and said: "Honey, do you feel happy about our relationship?" And I replied yes. I ask her "why?" and she said, "Because I don't feel attracted to you and I want us to be friends". She continues, "This usually happens with every boy I met". She told me that she doesn't feel like being in relationship. The question is:
How can she feel that way when she asked me out? When I text her, she always gives me excuses, I don't really know why. Oh, there is one thing, when I was dating her, she always want to contribute money so we can be even but I always tell to be cool. I pay for every thing. I bought her lots of stuff and after a month she changed her mind.
Question: Can u please tell me my weaknesses? How can I make things right? Because I loved her, you know what I'm saying?
Angelo Carson City, NV
>>> MY COMMENTS:
WHAT do I tell you guys day in day out? WHAT???
DONT ACT LIKE A WUSS (!)
DONT ACT LIKE A DOORMAT (!)
DONT BE SO FREAKIN NICE (!)
DONT BE SO NEEDY AND CLINGY (!)
It will just freak a woman out and drive her away because she doesn't feel that GUT LEVEL emotion of attraction anymore towards you. Yeah go on, pay for dinner, flowers, necklaces, rings and invite her to the cinemas and tell her you LOVE her every single day.
DAMN DUDE!
Why haven't you listened to me?
Look its pretty simple; you are that clingy, nicey-nice wussbag women always send up friends with because he doesn’t know how to create attraction.
You shouldn't have taken her to wet-n-wild; you shouldn't have told her to be cool when she agreed to pay half. You should have busted her balls, you should have teased her, be cheeky, cocky, witty and funny.
THATS what creates attraction and makes a woman feel CONNECTED to you...and ultimate makes her WANT you so bad she will miss you every day. But you just made ALL the classic mistakes most guys make. And to answer your question:
She DID feel attracted to you in the beginning, that's why she asked for your number. But you BLEW it by acting all nice, needy and lovey-dovey.
You should have KEPT doing what you did in the beginning, because THAT'S what got her interested and attracted to you in the first place. Why now do something different?
Do yourself a favor and read my original book. But PLEASE do something about this NOW, it makes me bang my head on the keyboard when I read some of my fans are STILL making those AWFUL mistakes.
*** QUESTION ***
Hey Nick,
I've been reading your free newsletters and am getting a real deal out of it. But thing is, I've got a sister, 16 going on 60, (“master” of online dating) right now and she's telling me otherwise. According to her romantic soul, ladies who are smart or high class and all like to date gentlemen. So, is this PlayBoy stuff going to help me get the girl I've been trying to peg? She's smart, has a great smile and a big heart. And nah, she doesn't look like the type who'll go for bad boys. What do I do?
-Jake
California
>>> MY COMMENTS:
So what you're asking me is if everything I teach WORKS on women who are intelligent, classy and beautiful yea?
To tell you the truth, I haven't found anything MORE groundbreaking to attract some very classy women than my teasing and attraction techniques. Every woman loves a single guy with the right wit, humor and charm. And my techniques do exactly that.
You see, once you start creating attraction, she DOESN'T have a choice! She can't say "Hmm, let's see...he's funny, he's confident and makes me laugh out loud all the time...I think it's time to get attracted to him now".
It doesn't work this way. It happens INSTANTLY! You see, there is no choice for a woman whether to get attracted to a man or not. She either does right away, or doesn't and then she will just tell you to "be friends instead".
This goes for ANY woman out there, no matter how pretty, classy or smart. They all get attracted to the same universal male behavior patterns...and I can show you how you can trigger and REPRODUCE those behavior models so you can get ANY woman attracted!
This is the beauty of Playboyskool!
It works on EVERY woman. Its works for all men!
Obviously, not every woman wants a bad boy, but I DON'T teach you guys to all become bad boys. I just tell you to model these guys because they do have certain behavior patterns that ARE attractive to women.
The same goes with humor. If you mix arrogance with cheekiness, cocky humor and wit, you create attraction that will turn women on sexually within seconds. Of course not every technique works equally well on every woman, but they don't have to. As long as ONE works perfectly for you, all you have to do next is KEEP DOING what works.
That's why I have outlined every step, every line, every methods and every technique in my eBook Playboyskool according to what WORKS so you can duplicate them for your own use.
If you haven't gotten it yet then STOP waiting. It's jam-packed with the most powerful dating tips and techniques about approaching and picking up women you've ALWAYS wanted:
Click Here to get it!
You can download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES from right now and start experiencing results within this week, so reserve your copy before you miss out on another hot woman.
*** COMMENTS FROM A READER ***
Nick.
Just read your newsletter with Paul's story and I want to share something with the rest of the Playboyskool fans:
I've used this one a hundred times.
Girl: I've got a boyfriend.
Me: hey slow down girl, I don't want to get all personal I don't even know you. I just wanted to kick it for a minute.
Girl: what's you're name?
Nine times out of ten if they ask my name I'm in. Just want to let the guys know so they do not become one of those marks who become nothing more than a eunuch in a group of women. Hit on this single girl like a true bad-boy would. Smooth as silk and without a goddamn care for what the hell she thinks. Tell her she's got a wicked ass but you'd never know with those nasty ass jeans...girl buy some jeans that fit. I've yet to meet a woman who'll wear those jeans again.
One more thing... your advice about believing you're the shit is right on. Dude your book changed my whole outlook on life and the game. Looking forward to your next book.
Leo Lisle, Ill
>>> MY COMMENTS:
A fellow friend of mine who's a player uses a VERY similar line if he gets the boyfriend objection and it works like a charm all the time. Almost every single time they'd ask for his name and get hooked throughout the conversation with him. And he basically CRAPPED all the way out.
If you can decode the girl-language and get a positive first impression from women in the first 30 seconds, then dating them and taking them to the physical level would be darn simple.
Way to go dude.
Oh, and don't forget to check out the complete Playboyskool eBook if you haven't at
It contains the best lines, techniques, methods tips and tricks probably ever discovered for getting the women you always wanted. Make sure you get yourself a copy BEFORE getting another rejection from a woman you like.
I'll speak to you soon
Your buddy,
Nick
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