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***SUCCESS STORY***
Hi Dave,
After reading your
eBook, I put many of your tactics into
action. I work in a casino, so I get to
meet a lot of beautiful young women. Once I
got over the initial reluctance to ask them
for their email/phone number, I started
getting quite a few numbers in a night.
The other night there was a woman who was
so gorgeous, it hurt. I walked over and
chatted with her for a few minutes, then
asked if she had email. She said "Sure, I
do! Let me write it down for you." Without
asking she put down her phone number as
well. The younger guys who work for me now
call me a "God". They have no idea how I
can do it. Better looking guys are
complaining that I get more phone numbers
and emails in one night than they've got
their whole lives. One of the women was
classic.
She looked like Sheryl Crow and Jennifer
Aniston combined. She complained she wasn't
winning on the machine and asked me what the
secret was. I said, "I don't know the
secret today, but if I figure it out, I'll
email it to you. All I need now is your
email address and your phone number in case
email is down." She was taken aback, but
asked for my pen and wrote it down. Now
instead of being alone on my days off, I
have a lot of options which are all great
ones. Thanks for your advice and changing
me out of wuss mode.
DAVID DEANGELO's
COMMENTS:
Options are great, aren't they? And
isn't it amazing how a woman will give out
her email and number if you just talk for a
few minutes and then ask for it? I can
remember when I first started learning this
stuff... it seemed to me that no woman in
her right mind would just give out her phone
number to a complete stranger...
But then I discovered that no woman is
actually IN her right mind! (Or at least
this is my logical deduction, because they
all seem to give out their phone numbers and
email addresses so readily!) But to get
back to the concept of "options"...
When you, as a guy, have options, it changes
EVERYTHING. When you have a great date that
evening plus three women to email or call,
things are TOTALLY DIFFERENT than when you
have nothing going on.
You feel different, you talk different, and
you communicate in a different way. I
believe that one of the reasons that
attractive women come across so powerfully
is because they KNOW that they have
options. And one of the benefits of
learning how to be more successful with
women and dating is that you learn to CREATE
YOUR OWN OPTIONS. When you know that you
can walk out the door anytime you want and
meet women, it frees up a lot of mental
energy that was previously focused on other
things.
Energy you can use to improve other areas of
your life...
***COMMENT***
Dave my man,
I've been reading your advice for a while
now and I have to laugh because I discovered
several years ago cocky and funny really
work. I am naturally cocky and a smartass
to boot, so it usually worked, but not
always. Then, my buddy told me something
that drives 'em wild. The dude is 6'3" and
300 lbs, and he always had a good looking
woman on his arm. His advice: Show a little
interest, then ignore them. Of course I
over simplified it, but you know what I
mean. How many men have said that you can't
pick up women in a topless bar? I did all
the time, and rarely spent any more money
than on drinks for myself. And you can do
this anywhere! It doesn't have to be in a
bar, it can be used in the office, online
dating sites, at the park, whatever!
The other guys are feeding the girls dollar
bills and getting no where. I'm just an
average looking guy, but the honeys went for
it like mad. You are on the mark and anyone
that has problems meeting women should heed
your advice. PS: I love the way you bust on
the chicks that write to you and say how
wrong you are!
D.
lol... thanks!
Yes, women really love it when you show some
interest, but then don't hang on them.
Women, and especially attractive women, LOVE
a good challenge. It's fun for them.
And yes, I do enjoy emails from women...
both positive and negative. I just wish
more women would write me! (And I wish that
when they did write that they'd send
PICTURES! I have gotten a few, but com'mon!)
***QUESTION***
Wasssup!! I just have to tell ya that I
think you're a dating-guide god to all guys
out there who have trouble with women,
dating or relationships! I've been reading
your free me-mails for about two months now
and I gotta tell ya, your a genius!! I
haven't even purchased the book yet but
everything you say makes perfect sense. So
I have decided to purchase Double Your
Dating. I can't wait to see how it works
out. I have the hardest time meeting women
and the bad thing about it is most girls
think I'm good looking. But they think I'm
boring.
Here's my question to you. I'm not sure
about the whole Cocky & Funny thing, how do
I be cocky yet not come across as an
asshole? And I've really never been the
funny type of guy I just don't know how
without saying or doing something that might
make me look like a wussy. Can you help a
bro out PLEASE with some classic Deangelo
Dating Tips?
DW-ks
DAVID DEANGELO'S
COMMENTS:
OK, here's the basic formula for Cocky &
Funny:
Take an arrogant comment, then add humor.
It's a killer combination. The key is that
it HAS TO BE FUNNY. It actually has to make
others laugh. You must make sure that you
are Cocky enough, because if you're only
FUNNY, then you will come across as GOOFY,
which isn't what you want.
So, for instance, you might be at a bar, and
you're having a drink. Let's say your drink
has too much alcohol in it, and you're going
to comment on it. An arrogant comment might
be:
"This bartender sucks. There's too much
booze in my drink."
Add a touch of humor, and it turns into:
"Whoa, this bartender either loves me or is
trying to kill me. This drink is pure
alcohol. Is there an AA meeting nearby?
Cuz I'm gonna need it when I'm done with
this one."
You feel me?
Cocky & Funny = Great Pick Up Lines and
Conversation Starters.
It's the COMBINATION that makes Cocky &
Funny work like magic. Too little or too
much of either and you will come off as an
idiot. And remember, have fun. Practice is
what will help you improve.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
Man, life has changed over the last 4 months
since grabbing your book and applying Cocky
Comedy! My friends are amazed at how many
women I am dating and life is great! One of
the most important points I have followed
from you is breaking down the whole
pickup/dating/score routine and approaching
each part as a skill I must learn. Got past
the email/phone number part, past the first
date and first kiss part, and finally the
step towards intimacy. But alas, I'm down
to the one skill that I have problems with
and that I've never seen you really address:
The graceful exit skill...
Let me explain...OK, I meet a girl, we go
out, maybe we end up in each other's arms,
maybe not, but there comes a point when I
just want to end it and move on to another
girl. I always get nervous with the "Well,
it's been fun, but we this isn't going to
work out so have a good life..." Do I call
and leave a voice mail? Do I phone her? Do
I break it off face-to-face? What's the
confident, C&F way to leave a girl and not
have PLAYER stamped onto my forehead because
of it?
Loving life,
S.R.
DAVID DEANGELO's
COMMENTS:
You're a very, very, very bad man. In the
best way possible, of course. I think
the key to dating more than one woman, or to
not seeing a woman more than once or twice
is to NOT ACT LIKE YOU'RE HER BOYFRIEND FROM
THE BEGINNING.
Women will only resent you if you mislead
them. So don't. It's not necessary. Just
have fun, be straight up, and enjoy
yourself. You don't have to break something
off if it never was "something" to begin
with. Are you with me? The big mistake is
to call twice a day, see her five times a
week, act like her long lost love, and then
drop her without explanation.
I think you get what I'm saying.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave,
I have been subscribing to the newsletter
for about 6 or 8 months and have purchased
your
Double Your Dating eBook a couple after
subscribing. Your information has been
invaluable and well worth the price. It has
completely changed the way I look at women,
I never pine over them anymore and wonder
"what's wrong with me". Now I know what was
wrong with me, I was a wuss! But that's all
changed now and have become the Jedi
Master. I've even come up with some Jedi
Techniques of my own.
At any rate, I met this one girl at a party
one night who I knew came with a few
acquaintances of mine who I told about the
party. I got to talking to her and we
talked for a few minutes and poured on the
Cocky & Funny, but I never got her info. I
know, I know, the 3 minute technique, but I
knew I could obtain it from her friends, and
the way she interacted with me, I knew she
wouldn't have minded at all (Important Note:
this is my success story, I wouldn't
recommend doing things like this unless you
have developed the confidence that your book
helps teach). Well, I never had to even
asked her friends because two days later,
she ended up looking me up in the
University's online student directory and
then she looked up my IM name and IMed me
with a "mysterious person" message. I
immediately figured out it was her and then
accused her of stalking me and told her
that's pretty illegal. She almost thought I
was mad at her! It was great!
Anyways, she is a real quality girl (not to
mention about a 9, not perfect, but gorgeous
nonetheless) and we set something up to go
play pool at a local bar where I again
poured it on thick. Now mind you, I hadn't
made any big advances or anything but as she
dropped me off back home, she came in to use
the bathroom. After she came out, she
wrapped her arms around me and let me have a
little taste. I said goodnight to her and
that was that night. A few nights later, I
told her I was going to be cooking and that
she should come over which leads me to...
***Tip 1*** One of the best techniques is
to invite a girl over for dinner at your
place, especially if you know how to cook.
I find that many women don't know how to
cook or only "cook" stuff like Mac and
Cheese and other junk. The best part about
this is they get to see your skill, which is
pretty attractive to women when you can make
a good meal, and you have the most control
because it is your own place. The other
part, is make sure you don't start making
dinner until she is already at your place,
she's not getting an entirely free meal!
Make her help. If she refuses, use the
Cocky & Funny
techniques and have her do something.
Put her on a task that's not too difficult
so she can't mess it up. For example, if
you're making lasagna, make her grate cheese
or something (making her wash dishes is
rather insulting unless you're doing most of
them and she wants to help, which she just
might). And when you're all done with
dinner, take it to the couch and turn on the
TV or watch a movie or something. Which
brings me to...
***Tip 2*** If you're sitting down next
to a girl that you're talking to in a
private setting and you get a little of that
silence, not the awkward kind, but the kind
where you just kind of look at each other.
If you're thinking to yourself "should I be
kissing her?". The answer is a screaming
"YES". This can be preceded by the "kiss
Test" as well, but I know a lot of single
guys will still have insecurities about this
kind of thing.
Think about it this way. If you don't kiss
her, then she'll probably think you're a
wuss because you don't have the balls to do
something she probably wants you to
anyways. After talking with a number of my
girl-friends, I've found out that if a guy
tries to kiss a girl, unless there is an
obvious lack of attraction, she will most
likely go with the kiss. At any rate, in
this day and age, she's not going to slap
you and walk out the door. It's not like
you grabbed her crotch or something.
***Tip 3*** MC from the Mediterranean
asked a question about calling the next
day. I just wanted to point out you have
already answered this question in some form
and you know what to do! You can generally
sense if a girl is sensitive about something
like that. If not, send her some sort of
message that next day, preferably email, but
if you're on the phone, have something
you're on the way to or busy with. Call,
say "hi" and that you had a great time,
don't ask how she's doing or what she thinks
about what or if she had a good time, but
find some way to use C&F to make a light
conversation that will keep her wondering
and even thinking about you. Don't bring up
the sex unless she does so in a favorable
manner.
***Tip 4*** Not so much a getting single
girls technique, but rather something you
need to do alone. In your spare time or
even when doing mindless tasks, go over your
past failed attempts when you have a clear
head about them and think about what
happened.
You'd be surprised at how easy it is to find
the things that went wrong. You'll also be
surprised to find out that these are
probably mistakes you make all the time!
This is the best way to recognize the
problem and rectify it so that its not
repeated. Your techniques are nearly
priceless and have stroked the confidence of
guys everywhere. I've even recommended it
to friends that have some serious wuss
problems. I have yet to see if they've
taken it to heart or even subscribed, but
I'll help them yet! Things are going great
with that girl and I know it wouldn't have
happened if it weren't for your
eBook. Its now become second nature,
and you get all the credit.
Thanks again Dave
Your once Jedi Apprentice, now Master, D.M.
DAVID DEANGELO'S
COMMENTS:
Great ideas... great.
Nothing else needs to be said...
Except that you stole those ideas from me,
loser.
Nice!
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