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 Being
a man, I am sure that you have experienced
the "friend zone". The friend zone is that
dreaded place nice guys get to with a girl when
you are being just too damn nice. Picture
it: she is beautiful, smart, funny and all
the things you want in a date or a
girlfriend, but she is just "not interested"
in you in "that" way. PUKE.
Ok, so have you ever
noticed this? The most attractive and
interesting women seem to be attracted to
men who don't treat them very well? And the
"nicer" you are to a woman the more she
often seems to just want to be "friends"?
So what is happening
here? I don’t know about you, but my Mom
always told me to be NICE. Well, I think
Mom meant well, but the truth is that girls
aren't generally romantically attracted to
"nice" guys. Women are attracted to men who
are funny, confident, and mysterious. Good
looks don't hurt, but if you're not 6'4"
tall and look like Brad Pitt, then you have
to learn how to attract women with your
personality.
So how do I come more
successful with women and dating by NOT
being a nice guy, you ask? Well, first of
all, I am not talking about going out and
starting to slap the women around or yell
crude things to them out the window of your
car as you cruise the boulevard. Women are
attracted to men who are funny, mysterious
and confident.
This is what I am
talking about (you can read it in the first
chapter of David Deangelo's dating tips for
guys eBook "Double Your Dating" called
"Women Don’t Make Sense").
1) Women make decisions
very, very quickly about whether a man is
going to be "just a friend" or if he has
romantic potential, and once her decision is
made, it's probably going to stay made.
2) These decisions are
made "subconsciously", meaning that women
make all of them quickly and at a "gut
level".
3) If you know how,
you make her feel attraction feelings rather
than "friend" feelings.
4) The way to do it is
to stop acting "nice" and start acting,
well... something else... and I don't mean
"not nice".
So what DOES attract
women? And how do you do it exactly?
Good questions...
At the beginning, I
mentioned three qualities: Funny,
Confident, and Mysterious. Before I
talk about each, I first have to remind you
that WOMEN DON'T USUALLY MAKE SENSE.
Remember that.
Here's a good metaphor:
Remember when you learned to drive? It all
made sense... turn the wheel left and go
left, turn it right and go right...But do
you remember when you learned to back up?
Backing up was a whole new game. Everything
that used to work now works in a different
way. At first you feel disoriented. Turn
the wheel left and go right... and you have
to learn how to maneuver with the back
wheels staying straight while the front
wheels turn... all with your head turned
around.
For most people, this
takes some time and practice. But once you
"get it" then you can do it anytime you
want. Well, women are very similar. At
first it's very confusing. You have to try
things that don't seem to make sense. But
once you get the hang of it, then you see
how it works and can make it work... just
like backing up a car.
As much as many women
would hate to admit it, there's something
very attractive about a man who is just a
little more confident than he should be.
And if you combine this with the right
amount of humor (like Cocky Comedy), you
have a magic combination that will charm
almost any woman.
Here are a few dating
tips for you so you can
use this idea:
1) When you first meet
a single girl, tease her about something.
It doesn't matter what it is, as long as you
do it early on. For instance, you might
say: "So what's with the big purse? Are you
carrying a gun in there?" or maybe "Those
are some pretty tall shoes, what are you
like 4' tall without them?" If you tease a
woman, it shows that you're not intimidated
by her, and that you have a fun sense of
humor. KEY: Make sure you say something
FUNNY. If you don't know how to be funny,
get a book on it. The test: If she's not
laughing, then it wasn't funny!
2) Look around at other
things and seem kind of pre-occupied when
you first start talking to her. Make your
funny remarks with a carefree, detached
tone. You want to sound like you're talking
to your best friend. Attractive women are
approached all the time. It's not
attractive to a woman when you look like
you've just met Madonna. This "just a
little too confident" attitude is very
attractive to women... especially when it's
combined with humor.
3) Don't answer her
questions directly. Women love to ask
questions like: "What do you do?" and "Where
do you live?" and "Tell me about your
family". Answer with funny answers, and
don't give her what she wants. Most guys
say, "Oh, I'm an engineer" or "I'm a stock
broker". BORING, BORING.
If she asks what you
do... say, "Oh, funny you should ask. I'm
a Calvin Klein Underwear Model... What do
you do?" (This is especially funny if it's
OBVIOUS that you are NOT a model) Do you
get it? Keep it up and keep her laughing.
It's important to remember that I'm not
telling you to be mean, or to be a jerk to
women. I'm telling you to start being
confident, funny, and mysterious.
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