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David Deangelo just finished up a
fascinating interview with a gentleman named
David Shade,
a sexual "guru" who teaches men and women how to have better sex. He has written
a phenomenal eBook called
Masterful Lover that is a must read for any man who is looking to give a
woman the ride of her life. In his words... his specialty is “teaching guys how
to take a woman's pleasure beyond anything she's ever imagined possible... and
open up her up to things she is too inhibited to do... but KNOWS she would LOVE
to do”...
1. Be The Man She Is Looking For
David Deangelo’s friend David Shade has
a tremendous amount of experience with women… and he KNOWS what they want. He
explained to me that many women are sexually frustrated… not because they don’t
have a man… but because their guy just doesn’t know how to please a woman. Deep
down, a woman wants a man who has the ability to “sweep her away”.
David Shade tells David DeAngelo that she wants to surrender to a man who is
PASSIONATE and knows what he’s doing… so she can explore her sexuality in new
and exciting ways that she would be too timid to explore otherwise. If you can
become the type of guy who has real a passion for pleasing women, and you learn
how to please them in ways that other guys don’t, a woman will stay with you
forever… because she knows unusual it is to find a guy like this.
2. Be Passionate, Not Obsessive
There’s a big difference, David Shade
says, between being
passionate and obsessive, and luckily for you most guys have no idea what that
is… If you look at a woman and think, “I must have sex with her” you are
actually GIVING UP YOUR POWER before you even meet!
This “adolescent” attitude actually
scares women away… and I recommend you make a conscious effort to avoid it.
David Shade recommends a far different—and far more effective—approach. When you see an attractive
woman you’d like to meet, instead of thinking about what she can do for you,
start thinking about the fact that you know how to make her feel incredibly
good… and how CRAZY she would be to pass up this opportunity.
David Shade tells David DeAngelo that
you must KNOW that YOU can give her more pleasure
that any other man can… and probably more than she could even handle. When you
believe that YOU have the power, you can help a woman explore her own sexuality in ways
she didn’t even know existed.
Women will instantly pick up on this
powerful attitude, and it will come across in everything you do.
3. Know What She Wants
David Shade shared some fantastic information
on the 4 things a woman needs to feel in a relationship in order to be
satisfied.
1. She needs to feel appreciated for the
unique individual she is… and that her man supports her in all she does
2. She needs to feel a deep, emotional,
intimate connection
3. She needs to feel like a sexy,
beautiful, feminine woman
4. She needs hot, passionate sex… which
includes being seduced, teased and satisfied over and over again… and exploring
new roles and fantasies.
Give her these four things and she’ll be
yours for as long as you like.
4. Be Supportive Without Being Needy
It’s ok to let a woman know how much you
appreciate her, so long as you don’t come from a position of NEEDINESS. Needy
guys (David Deangelo calls them Wussies) pour it on too thick. They put women on pedestals. And, as you know…
nothing drives a woman away faster. A woman wants to be with a man who is
strong, has his own life, and doesn’t NEED her.
If you come from a position of STRENGTH,
compliments and appreciation will light up a woman’s life… because you will be
giving them in a way that makes her feel MORE attracted to you. So remember…
she wants to be APPRECIATED… but not NEEDED.
5. Get Her Aroused Over The Phone
Listen up - David Shade shared an amazing
strategy he uses to drive women wild OVER THE PHONE. Here’s how he does it:
1. He gets into a deep conversation
about relationships and emotions, which gets a woman in a highly emotional state
2. He then asks her about what she wants
to feel in a relationship… which gets her even more involved
3. He then talks about being alone… he
asks he if she feels alone and explains to her how he feels the same way
4. He then asks her to think about how
it would feel to be the OPPOSITE of alone… and tells her how he wishes he was
holding her close right then and there
5. He then describes in intimate detail
exactly what he would do if they were together…
And the rest is history. The best thing
about getting a woman turned on over the phone is that it gets her to imagine
the two of you being intimate before it actually happens…
This paves the way for the REAL intimacy
later on, according to David Shade. When she sees you in person afterwards, there’s only ONE thing she’ll
be able to think about… don’t be surprised if she wants to skip the “date” part
of your date and head straight to the bedroom. I’m serious here… this will be
the case more often than not.
Listen to this section of the interview
a few times until you have it down… then give it a shot next time you are
talking with a woman who is receptive towards you. Take it slow and easy… and
you just might be surprised at how well it works.
6. Try New Ways Of Giving Her Pleasure
David Shade says women love VARIETY in the bedroom. And
one of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they do the “same
old” every time. Most men have a sexual “routine” they are used to. They are
comfortable using a certain set of moves and steps because it’s the same thing
they have always done and it seems to work for them.
If you’re REALLY looking to please a
woman over and over again, the “same old routine” has got to go. Repeating the
same moves in the same order night after night might work fine for YOU, but
remember… women are “wired” differently… and they need different kinds of
experiences to continue to be turned on and excited.
Fortunately for us women prefer to have
these different kinds of experiences with THE SAME GUY… but if you don’t give
them to her, she very well may look elsewhere. On the other hand, if you do
keep things exciting in the bedroom by mixing it up so she never knows what to
expect, chances are she’ll NEVER leave… because you’ll be EXACTLY what she’s
looking for.
So be sure to ALWAYS be unpredictable in
the bedroom. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try out new things. I’m sure you
can think of a few…
7. Learn Some New Moves
An easy way to give a woman the sexual
variety she wants is to learn some great techniques… especially some that she
has never seen before. In our interview David Shade shared some VERY interesting
physical techniques he uses to drive a woman wild, and I highly recommend you
try them out.
Make sure you listen to the later part
of our interview a few times, and take some notes. There’s some great stuff in
there that isn’t published anywhere else. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t
get your hands on other material that out there and study it for all it’s worth.
Walk into any bookstore and you’ll find a TON of great books on how to please women… many with their own unique
spin. The small time investment you make will have HUGE rewards… of the best
kind! Fortunately for us, not many men take the time to actually do this… so
those who DO have a massive advantage.
Women love it when you pull a new trick
out… and when you have an ARSENAL of moves at your disposal… that you can pull
out night after night to give her a brand new exciting experience.
8. Guide Her Through The Experience
Women want a leader INSIDE of the
bedroom just as much as they want one outside of the bedroom. Simply put: If
you’re letting her do all of the work—or even a quarter of it—you’re doing
something wrong. As a man, you need to take charge when you’re between the
sheets.
Don’t be afraid to put her into
different positions, stand her up to kiss her then lay her back down, or start
and stop the action (remember… 2 steps forward, 1 step back!). David Shade made the
important point that you also need to guide her through the experience with your
VOICE.
Accfording to David Shade, men must remember… women like to be stimulated
differently than us men… and when you talk to her in a soothing and sexual way
it increases her pleasure more than you could ever imagine. Here are a few
great examples David Shade shared that you can start using right away:
• Encourage Her To RELAX – Telling a
woman to relax and feel totally comfortable while you are giving her pleasure
will cause her to enjoy her experience with you a whole lot more. This tells
her that you are in control and you care about her needs… and lets her know that
she can just kick back and enjoy the ride.
• Talk About What She’s Feeling – Say
things like, “That feels good, doesn’t it?”, and “I know you like that right
there” to bring the experience alive in her mind and add the powerful element of
verbal stimulation to your physical actions. David Shade stresses that
this is a HUGE turn on to women.
• Encourage Her Orgasms – When you feel
she’s close to having an orgasm, encourage her along. This will often be the
thing that puts her over the edge.
David Shade was something else, wasn’t he?
There’s no denying he knows his stuff.
He’s spent a long time figuring all of these things out… and if you take his
techniques and run with them you’ll be LIGHT YEARS ahead of any man your woman
has ever experienced before… or will again. Go check out
Masterful Lover,
or sign up for David Shade’s
free newsletter!
Your Friend,
David D.
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