David
Deangelo recently interviewed famous dating coach
David Wygant.
David W,
a divorced man, in his thirties, had no desire to once again start hitting the
bars and clubs to find a date. Therefore David Wygant started honing other pick up
skills, and soon discovered he had a knack for meeting women in other places and
later, discovered he could teach other men his dating tips and pick up
techniques - in other words - how to do what he did.
David Wygant
tells the listeners a story about what he does to flirt with women. On a whim,
David took a couple of his friends into the local grocery. His friends picked
out a (hopefully) single woman in the store, and told him to go get her number.
And he did! He walked up to her and started talking about cereal, and David
Wygant managed to turn the conversation to sex (from CEREAL) and picked up the girl,
just like that.
“So where do you start when you are
coaching a man?” David
Deangelo wants to know. First, David Wygant
will actually travel to his customer’s home to learn how that person acts in
their own familiar setting. He wants to understand how they present themselves
so that he can give them great conversational dating tips and advice directed
specifically at them. Next, he has the man approach a woman and observes body
language, the conversation, how the man reacts to the woman, observation what
cues he gives her, how he closes, how they dress and so much more.
David Deangelo
asks next, “How does someone take their own personal inventory to do this kind
of thing at home?” David Wygant recommends figuring out your greatest assets, first.
This creates what he calls a “home field advantage”. What are you passionate
about? What do you love to do? The examples he gives are someone who loves
photography, loves food and wine, cars, etc. You can eliminate cars, because
most women are not going to care about cars. But let’s take the food and wine -
start going to cooking seminars, wine tasting and breweries. Use food and wine
to meet women, if you see a woman drinking a glass of wine, go up to her and
talk to her about it, use it to get your foot in the door. Women are looking
for a confident, passionate, secure man. Communicating your passion to a woman
communicates these things to her directly.
Another great dating tip David W. gives David Deangelo
is to spend a minute every day, like 5 to 10 times a day, flirting with women
even if you are not attracted to them.
Here are some great pick up lines:
At the gym: “May I work with you?”
“Working out can be a little monotonous, let’s have some fun! You do my weights
and I’ll do yours”. So make fun of the 10 pounds she is doing on the bench
press machine, struggle and make a face like you can’t do it. Then when it’s
her turn, only put like 20 pounds on the machine and when she does, tell her she
won a personal training session with you.
On the street: “Excuse me, do you know
where a coffee shop is?” (Even if you are standing in front of it.) Ask if
it’s her favorite, why is that her favorite, etc, listening to her responses and
asking questions accordingly.
In a bar: David Wygant says Strike fast and early! Ask
them out before 10pm so that every guy that hits on them later gets compared to
you. Walk over to her. “Are your friends doing the same things my friends are
doing? Making you wait?” Then the conversation starts…ask her questions,
listen and respond. Then look at your phone like you got a text message. “Oh!
My friend’s in the dining room, I have to go. I would love to have dinner with
you some night, what’s your number?”
Book Store: Friday and Saturday nights
are great for meeting women in book stores. This is where the great women go to
hide from the dorks at the bar. Walk the aisles, pick the woman you want to
approach and observe her. See what books she is looking at to see her
interests. David Wygant says to walk over to her and “break her space” by saying “Excuse me” and
reaching across her to get a book right in front of her. The look at her book
and say, “Oh, (read the title) - great - is that a (whatever type of section you
are in) book?” and then she will start talking about the book. Then ask her,
“Oh cool, are you into (whatever it is)?” Get her talking and you listening and
ask questions based on what she has to say.
In a clothing store: “Excuse me, can I
help you?....Let me give you my opinion on those jeans/that dress/etc.” Then
when you tell them you don’t work there, they think it’s hysterical.
Yoga Class: A great place to meet
women! Get there early. Pick the one you are attracted to and put your mat
down next to her. Tell her, “Look, I am really not good at this, so please
don’t laugh at me”. So then, you leave her alone. Go through the class. When
it is over, tell her, “That was a great class, I really enjoyed it.” Then she
will more than likely tell you how great you were, and you can take the
conversation from there, telling her how hard you try, etc.
These are just a few of the great dating
tips that David Deangelo
gets from his interview series guest,
David Wygant.
There are so many more dating tips out there, but the best thing that any man
can do to increase his pick up rate with women is to listen when they talk and
ask questions. Don’t ask “Do you like to do this?” Ask her “Why do you like to
do this?” Project your passions, which will in turn, create attraction, and
build upon them and appear, over all, confident and sure of yourself when
approaching any woman.
P.S. Since the interview that DW did with David DeAngelo
- he has developed this AMAZING program that you have just GOT to hear. He
has gone into the mind of WOMEN - interviewing women on every topic from sex to
flirting, pick up lines and everything in between - to get them to tell us what
REALLY WORKS. Its amazing. Check it out here
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