David Deangelo recently interviewed a
gentleman named Grant Adams
in his Interviews With Dating Gurus series. Grant Adams,
who is also known in the dating world as Adam Gilad, as it turns out, knows quite a bit about how to meet and attract women -
especially when it comes to
meeting women online. Grant Adams
tells David DeAngelo that he uses a particular communication style online that
“short-circuits” a woman's defenses… and simultaneously super charges her
attraction.
Not only that, but Adam
has figured out simple changes that ANY guy can make to his pictures, profile,
and emails that dramatically increase the amount of responses you get from women
almost instantly - so YOU can begin meeting women online.
Here are some killer dating tips for
meeting women online
from Grant
Adams:
1. Make your strengths and attributes
really stand out. Most guys described themselves in SELF-CRITICAL ways. They
put themselves down, saying things like, “My name is Eric. You can call me Mr.
Lonely…” This is a downer and will not help with meeting women online. Grant found that if he could convey his strengths in an attractive,
factual, and sensual way… he'd be eons ahead of his “competition” online. And
that's exactly what he did. Take these strengths and show-case them in your
profile or online and then COMBINE them with a vision of romance that paints a
picture of a life that's more exciting than the life she's living. This shows
her that you are not only a man who knows who he is, but that you're a guy who
can bring her a new realization of how great life can be. Communicating to
women on this level drives them absolutely CRAZY… and you need to try it out.
2. Show them your confidence!
Grant Adams
believes that every guy has things about him that are attractive to the average
woman. The only problem is we usually don't know what they are. And even if we
do, we don't know how to communicate them in a way that AMPLIFIES or MAGNIFIES
them… in a cool, not self-involved sort of way.
Grant Adams
suggested when trying to meet women online that when you describe your
confidence and strengths, don't use weak – yet all too common – phrases like
“some people say I am…” or “I'm sort of…” Instead, demonstrate that you're a guy
who knows who you are by describing yourself in bold, clear terms. Don't
exaggerate… but don't be wishy-washy either. And Grant pointed out something
very interesting. He said that when you focus on your strengths instead of your
weaknesses the people around you will ALSO focus on your strengths.
3. Expand Your “Self”. Here’s another
killer dating tip Grant shared with David Deangelo. Never let a woman
online define you. Ever seen a profile with the headline “Skater Guy” or
“Nature Lover” or “Dr. Doolittle”? Most guys love to label themselves with a
characteristic. But the problem is that once a woman can easily label you, much
of the MYSTERY is gone… and she just won’t be as interested. Grant Adams
says that is one of the
basic laws of attraction, whether you are meeting women online
or in person. However, if a woman reads your words and gets a sense that you're
deeper than your words say – that your words suggest more than they describe –
then you're in good shape. Relay that you can't be defined – that you're
unpredictable and dynamic – and she'll become irresistibly curious about all of
the interesting side-streets of your personality waiting to be discovered.
4. Show Her You’re Sensual. And yes,
you can do this when meeting
women online! Every woman wants a man who appreciates
the “senses”… a man so “in touch”, that he can ignite powerful, passionate
feelings inside of her. But if you've ever done any “reconnaissance” online and
read other guys' profiles – I'm sure you’ve seen that most men have NO CLUE
about how to attract women… let alone “ignite feelings” in a woman who they are
trying to meet. Lucky you!
So how do you do this? Well
unfortunately, you can't just TELL a woman directly “Oh, I can make you feel
great.” You must demonstrate your ability to make her feel good through the way
you COMMUNICATE. Grant says that to create feelings in women over the web, you
need to use vivid details. For instance, he suggests that if you talk about the
food you enjoy, don't just say you like fine wine… talk about how you love how a
fine wine changes textures as it rolls around in your mouth. If you talk about
a walk on the beach, don't just say you like walking on the beach, describe in
detail how you love the feeling of warm sand between your toes. Grant Adams suggests
using sensual words like bare, ripe, supple, soft, sway, feline, tender, etc.
When you use words like these, although you're not talking directly about sex…
you send a strong message that you know how to make her feel GREAT. And that's
what every woman wants to hear… in a subtle, mature, sensual way. This
takes meeting women online and makes it more real to them, more immediate.
5. Create An Electrifying Life. Another
point Grant made that seems obvious, but most guys miss is that if you want to
be interesting to a woman, you have to lead an interesting life… and do
interesting things. For example, let's say there's a woman you see online who
you want to meet. She says she's adventurous but you really haven’t done many
adventurous things in your life. If you met her, you wouldn't be able to connect
on the “adventure” level. Grant suggests to step out of your comfort zone and
DO something adventurous… jump out of a plane… go bungee jumping… do something
that's “radical” and BOLD. Now you have a very interesting experience you can
talk about, not only with HER… but with EVERY woman you meet online or in person
for the rest of your life. Another way to expand your horizons and make yourself
more interesting is to take some classes on things you find interesting and that
women might find interesting as well -like cooking, wine, or art. Most men are
so afraid to try something or to take a class of any kind out of fear of
embarrassment. But if you show a woman that you're willing to “step out” there
and expand who you are… it makes a DRAMATIC impact. Even simple things like
mentioning that you looked at a book on cooking, or visited a wine-tasting
website, show that you're the type of guy who is constantly evolving and
improving yourself which ALL women find very attractive.
Just recently, too, Grant Adams has opened a new line in his Tantric Sex series.
You can get a free download of the Tantric Sex 101 by clicking
here.
Seriously - its FREE!! Check out Grant's Net2Bed system as well by
clicking
here!
