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Here is a GREAT comment from one of You Can Get The Girls’ readers!
Hello David,
I recently read your e-article titled What Women Hate Most About Single Guys, and I would like to offer you another view point on the subject matter.
In the article, and in other similar articles that you've published on various sites, you stated that women complain about what nice guys do wrong in dating situations.
While I agree that women do complain about what men do wrong on dates, it's the bad boys and jerks that the women are complaining about!
Let me explain further.
I'm sure you're familiar with the expression: Men marry women hoping she'll never change. Women marry men hoping he does change.
You see David, women are social workers by nature (you're probably aware of this already). Women usually try to find some shortcoming in a man to "correct" and take credit for doing so.
The faults of bad boys are obvious, because he is naturally showing them. Nice guys, on the other hand try to hide their shortcomings, and then come off as if their life is absolutely perfect, and nothing ever goes wrong in it, as he tries to provide her with the happily-ever-after lifestyle.
In other words, the bad boys give women something to complain about simply by their behavior, while nice guys don't even provide anything that would make any woman tell a friend she even went out on a date. It's much easier for a woman to tell a bad boy to "back off" than for her to tell a nice guy to "step up". Women spend more time complaining about the guys they're romantically interested in, because they're worth talking about!
I would like to thank you for reading my e-mail, and if you are able to forward this to Carlos Xuma, it would be greatly appreciated.
Link Seabrooks (Skapone guitarist)
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Here is what Nick Shane of PlayBoySkool has to say about creating attraction and being a “Nice Guy”.
To recap quickly, a woman needs to feel "attraction" towards you if she is going to kiss, date or sleep with you.
There are ways and techniques where you can CREATE attraction, and certain behavior that will KILL it within an instant.
About 90% of men do not know how to do make a woman feel attracted. And I will make sure you aren’t going to be one of them.
So first let's talk about what you should - under any circumstances - NOT do when you're dealing with women because they will reject you cold and run.
Here are the most COMMON mistakes men make:
1. Asking women out: "Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to have a drink sometime". Ouch! Bad call, you never ASK women out.
2. Being NICE. This has got to be the worst of the worst. Why do guys think that by being nice to a woman, she will be nice to you later? Look, you can suck up to your teacher to get a good grade or to your boss to get promoted but it won't work with women. It just doesn't create any attraction so please quit it, NOW!
3. Being CLINGY. Don't call women 3 times a day, don't send her 8 text-messages a day and please don't act like you desperately want to hump her brains out ... even if you do. Be cool!
4. Most guys out there try to complement a good-looking woman, BUY her all sorts of gifts on the first dates like flowers, invite her to dinner or take her out to the movies. Women DO NOT feel attracted to men who behave that way! No flowers, no cuddly- toys, no chocolate, no cinema-tickets and no gifts whatsoever until you had sex with her at least once.
5. If you're dating, never ever say "You know, I really like you" ... or even worse "I love you". Remember that, or she WILL run and not text/call you back.
Those are the biggest No-No's that you could possibly do to put padlocks on a woman's panties. Now if you keep doing those mistakes above you deserve some of my he-bitch man slap dude.
But you have to realize one thing Maureen:
If you do what everyone else does, why the hell would a woman be interested in you in the first place? You'd be just like every other boring loser who's trying the same stuff for the 27th time in the same week.
If you want women feel ATTRACTED to you, you will need to be DIFFERENT.
Again, this does NOT matter if you're ugly, short, fat, bald whatever because they don't care if you've got the personality going.
I know Hollywood, TV and the rest of the Media have been telling you all that nicey-nice stuff like paying for dinner, bringing flowers and chocolate and so on.
But this is REAL life, not a Disney-movie or a chick flick with a happy ending. It's time to wake up man, really.
Forget all that junk that people have been trying to drill into your head for years.
Learn how to play this dating game in a way that will actually GET you the girl!
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