This is a phenomenal video - its under two minutes, and Scot McKay is
telling us about a LIFE CHANGING virtue here.
Ok - you have obviously heard about being an alpha male, right? Of
course you have. If not, no problem, a lot of guys get false
information anyway. Most guys get it
all wrong, because they take the common virtues that women have, such as
kindness, compassion and generosity, and think that in order to be a
masculine man or an alpha male, that a man has to be the OPPOSITE of this.
Simply not true.
If you want to be a man, a real man who is a leader and a go getter, someone
with confidence and appeal to women, you have to learn to master the virtues
of a what a real alpha male is. Real alpha men are not ...
false
cruel
arrogant
mean
spirited
followers
without
thought
Real alpha
men ARE, on the other hand...
honest
confident
caring
compassionate
altruistic
leaders
Men, being
stereotyped as false alpha males, are often thought to be without the virtues
and attributes commonly thought of as womanly or feminine. However,
virtues and characteristics of the alpha male are the characteristics and
attributes that one would want to see in a good, strong, faithful leader.
For instance,
an alpha male, as the leader of his "pack", will look out for the good of his
group. If we consider the group to be his family, he is a thoughtful
father who takes care of and provides for his children. He teaches them
strong and clear virtues such as truthfulness, helpfulness, honesty and caring.
He teaches them to treat people with dignity and respect, but he also teaches
them to treat themselves with dignity and respect, caring for oneself by taking
care of the body, mind and spirit.
Alpha males
do not allow others to push them around and cheat, lie or steal. They
stand up for those who are in need, fight for virtue and honesty, defend the
weak, help the poor and sick and provide for those less able and less fortunate
than themselves.
Put in some
terms, some folks might think to call these womanly or motherly virtues -
however, they can just as easily be applied to the man who has a true and strong
idea of his own characteristics. Vices and virtues are equally applied to
both sexes, and simply because women carry the stereotype for having one set of
virtues does not mean that the men, the REAL men, have to be the opposite.
There is
nothing manly about kicking those who are down, war, rape, pillage and thievery.
There is no honor in making fun of people, capitalizing on the downfalls and
problems of others. Alpha males do not do this - they are upright and
strong, not needing to look for the misfortune of others in order to get ahead
of the game.
