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This is a fantastic review of American Singles written by by Joe
Tracy, Publisher of Online Dating Magazine (Link to article at end)
Dating Site: American Singles
Slogan: "For love and romance"
Updated Review Date: July 13, 2008
Online Dating Magazine Rating: 7/10
Browse for Free? Yes
Cost Structure
1 Month = $29.99
3 Months = $59.97
6 Months = $79.99
Best Feature:
More ways than any other online dating service to express an interest in
someone. Our favorite is the "Think You'd Click?" feature.
Most Annoying Feature:
When you close down your profile and/or leave the service, anyone who you've
ever emailed via the service can still see your profile. A close second annoying
feature is that when you do a "Who's Online" search, it shows you both males and
females (with profiles/pictures) instead of honoring your preferences. Because
I'm a male looking for a female, I should only be able to see females online and
should only be able to view female profiles. But yet males can view my profile
if desired and I can view theirs even if they are only looking for someone of
the opposite gender.
Review
American Singles is a nice and well executed dating service that seems to keep
up with modern technology while giving you a lot of freedom in your online
dating experience. But before delving too far into this review, you should first
be forewarned that American Singles is a misleading name. The name implies that
it is a site for just American singles to communicate with each other, but
you'll find that a number of users are from other countries.
I really like the freedom the American Singles site gives you. You are given the
ability to see who you've viewed in the past, who has viewed you, who you have
hot listed, who has hot listed you, who you have "teased", who has "teased" you,
and so on.
Another thing I like about American Singles is the number of ways it gives you
to express an interest and communicate with other members. For example, if I
want a girl to know I'm interested in her I can Hot List her (and she'll be able
to see I've done so) or I can send her a tease (cute one-liners to express an
interest) or an eCard. If I want to communicate with her, I can Instant Message
her, email her, or even connect with her in the chat room. There's also a "Think
You'd Click?" feature, which is my personal favorite. On every profile there's a
"Think You'd Click?" question. If you click Yes, the person is sent an email
with several profiles on it, including yours. They "don't know" who said they
might click, so they have to view each profile and answer the question
themselves. If you both click Yes, you are notified via email.
Like with other online dating services, you get a fair amount of scam spam in
your Inbox. Just remember, anytime someone emails you a generic message and puts
their email address in that message asking you to email them there... it's
likely scam span. Ignore it. By responding, you may find yourself soon inundated
with spam (and money-making schemes) in your email account. Or the person will
build a fake relationship with you then after gaining your trust invent an
emergency causing them to need money.
The chat room is a nice concept, although it doesn't seem to be used by a lot of
people and there are only generic categories (Lobby, 20's, 30's, etc.) to select
from. Whether you're a paying member or not, you can go to the chat room and
chat it up with others. And if you are so inclined, you can start your own chat
room. My one qualm with the chat room system is that it is very cluttered and
not moderated. People can highlight text, change color, etc. which makes the
board hard to read. One person may write a message in white text with a black
highlight and the next person has blue text with a yellow highlight. This makes
the chat room seem rather juvenile at times.
Your American Singles Message Center is where you manage your email and teases.
From here you can block/ignore users and organize your messages. You can also
download the American Singles Toolbar (interesting concept) which allows you to
get instant message alerts and gives you the ability to respond to any new
emails from your desktop.
Nearly everything about American Singles is well executed. When you view
someone's profile, it opens a new window. If they are online, a button appears
allowing you to chat one on one, if desired. You also have options to email,
tease, hot list, or send the person's profile to a friend. American Singles even
has an advice section, giving quality advice on what photos work best to get
responses, etc.
American Singles pricing structure is a bit complicated. You can choose between
one month, three month, or a six month plan. But you can also choose for higher
cost plans that include having your profile highlighted (Premium Plan). Here's
the difference between the Premium, Standard, and Free services:
My Experience
While I haven't met anyone in person from American Singles, I have communicated
with some very nice and intelligent women. The email character limit has been a
frustration to no end, but the rest of my experience on American Singles has
been extremely pleasant. American Singles is definitely one of the best dating
sites out there. However, be aware that you'll likely receive more emails from
overseas people than from Americans!
Recommendations to American Singles
American Singles can improve its service by doing the following:
1) Find a way to improve the speed in which you approve photos for new members.
It's very frustrating to sign up for a great service then have to wait 48-72
hours for one of the most important aspects of your profile - your pictures - to
be approved.
2) Clean up the chat room program. By allowing users to chose different
colors/highlights/styles for text, the chat becomes cluttered, hard to read, and
at times downright annoying. Let everyone use black text on a white background
to keep things clean, simple, and easy to read.
3) Respond quicker to spammers. I've received messages from scam spammers that
still have their profiles up weeks later.
4) When a person closes out their profile, they can still receive email from
people they sent messages to in the past. And those people can still view the
person's profile. This is a major issue that needs correcting. When shutting
down a profile, a person should be able to select that the process includes
communications too and that no one should be able to see their profile. I fist
joined American Singles in 2003. And I can still view the profile of any member
I ever communicated with even if they closed down their profile and haven't been
a member in years. This has got to stop.
5) When a person does a quick who's online search, the integrity of their
preferences should be honored. For example, I'm a male looking for a female. But
when I click to do an online search, it shows me all the males too. This has
been an issue with American Singles for many years.
In our 2003 review, another issue we had with American Singles was that they
only allowed 1,500 characters per email message. That was highly annoying. To
its credit, it fixed it even though many other issues from our 2003 review
remain unresolved.
Conclusion
If I was to create a quick slogan for American Singles based on my experience,
it would be "the freedom to date online the way you want to". I just love how
nicely organized, intuitive, and executed the whole site is. I also like that
they keep up with technology (i.e. not using HTML-based older chat services like
some other sites). However, we first reviewed American Singles in 2003. The new
review was done in 2008. Since that time, American Singles has only corrected
one issue we originally brought up five years ago. Because there haven't been
more improvements, we've docked them half a point from their original review.
But we've also added .2 (point two) points for new features.
Copywrite Joe Tracey,
Online Dating Magazine,
(http://www.onlinedatingmagazine.com/datingservicereviews/americansinglesreview.html)
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