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One of the (many) reasons that men often have problems approaching women
revolves around the fact that they are just too damn nervous. I mean, really,
what is going through your head when you are about to approach a woman?
"Does she like me?" "Is she single?" "Does she think I'm
attractive?"
"What is she like?" "Is she going to think I'm an ass?"
If your nervous or scared when you are approaching or meeting women, it is
because of…
UNCERTAINTY.
You don't know how the girl you want to approach is going to respond! So you are
scared because you don’t know what is going to happen, you might be rejected,
humiliated, turned down or whatever. Well, its time to learn a great trick to
get over this.
This little trick is so simple, ANYONE can do it! And it's a 100% fear free
tactic.
Ready for it? Good, because here it comes...
***The Eye Contact Opener***
Everyone knows that eye contact is important, but something strange happens when
we make eye contact with another individual. What happens? We feel obligated to
give them some sort of response. Because of this, you can use eye contact as a
GREAT WAY to MEET WOMEN and find out if she is attracted to you before you ever
walk up to her.
So here's what you do...
The next time you see a beautiful woman you want to approach, LOCK your eyes on
her! Even if she is not looking at you, just literally stare at her eyes. When
most people are out in public, they will generally look about at their
surroundings to remain aware of what is going on around them. This is an
instinctual thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking your eyes onto
will look around to check out the area - and BOOM! When she comes to YOUR sexy
mug, her eyes will automatically lock onto yours and the eye contact will be
jarring.
Then, you simply SMILE at her.
If she smiles back, guess what? She's OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER. If she doesn't
smile back, then move on to someone who is receptive.
Use this moment, if she is receptive, to greet her and move into your opening
lines, and viola! REJECTION FREE APPROACHES.
This approach technique works especially well in normal situations like grocery
stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc. Even though it can work just as well in
bars and clubs (so long as the light is bright enough that she can actually SEE
you!).
So, next time you go out, do this with every attractive woman you see. Lock your
eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you'll be surprised by the
results that a little body language can generate.
And if you're looking for even more tactics and techniques that are proven to
work to help you meet tons of women, check out Carlos Xuma's
Approach Women Now
program!
There is no other program out there that focuses on nothing BUT how to overcome
your fears and meet women. Check it out right now
here!
With the help of this book, you won't have to use the Eye Contact Opener! You'll
simply be able to walk up to any woman you want without the fear of rejection
and have successful approach after successful approach.
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