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There's a mindset you need to have if you are spending any time at all
dating online.
Too many men are too cautious when dating online. That makes you weak,
overly sensitive, too thoughtful, and a pussy. DON'T DO IT.
Think of online dating as a video game. As you learn each step in my system,
you'll see that this approach frees you up to... well... WIN!
At first, you fail. Okay.
So you get up and try again.
And again.
Let's change the context a bit to something else you can probably instantly
relate to: When you get blasted on level 7 of a video game, do you get all
freaked out about it? Do you mope around all day, wishing you had done
something just a LITTLE bit different. Did you question everything you did?
NO!!! Of course not.
Do you know why?
It's because you KNEW you got that far this time, and you KNOW you'll get
that far again, and then do better. As a result, you weren't acting all weak
and self doubting. When guys get into the dating thing, they lose their
strength. I've seen great confident guys turn to mush when faced with a
beautiful girl.
Online, you don't have to suffer face to face rejection. You can be bold,
test new approaches and techniques -- you can perfect your game!
And you can pretty easily get to level 6 all over again. And eventually to
level 10.
Am I right?
I mean, it's no big deal. There are thousands of women on your online dating
site for you to go out with. THOUSANDS!
This state of mind is important when you're meeting women online because if
you get too wrapped up in what happened yesterday, you won't spend enough
time thinking about TODAY!
And TODAY is the time that matters most. TODAY is the day you have an
opportunity for another High Score. The Score. The Best Score Ever!
Learn from your mistakes, but then leave it behind you. Just like a video
game.
Can you see yourself doing that with women? I suppose the issue is that you
can't care too much about hooking up with one particular woman. And before
you start accusing me of being callous, let me just say that you don't know
this person yet!
This woman is anonymous to you. She doesn't now you, and you don't know her.
So, don't invest too much emotional energy, fear and self-doubt into any one
relationship before it even begins. You'll be far more successful if you
treat this stage of the process like a game.
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Grant Adams is author of the wildly effective
"DAO System Manual: How to Stand Out Online So That By The
Time You Meet, She's Already Yours"
Learn more at
http://www.DeepAttractionOnline.com
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