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Do you ever wish someone could just tell you exactly what photos
work BEST in your profile?
...you're in luck because I'm going to reveal the single MOST IMPORTANT thing
you need to know about what photos you should NEVER put in your profile...
From the moment I started experimenting with my profile, one of the biggest
tests I conducted was figuring out WHICH photos work best (and I quickly learned
which ones were the worst as well).
This is a pretty CONTROVERSIAL topic when it comes to meeting women online.
Some guys say one thing, other guys say the exact opposite, but almost every guy
who writes me has the same question:
WHAT PHOTOS DO WORK BEST IN YOUR PROFILE?
Let me dispel some common myths about photos in your profile...
I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that there ARE specific photos which
WILL increase the responses you get to both your personals ad, and your
emails...
... and there are specific photos which will beyond a shadow of a doubt DECREASE
the response to both your personals ad and your emails.
Today I'm going to talk about the photo you NEVER want in your online dating
profile.
This was one of the many lessons I learned over the course of the 4 years I was
experimenting with online dating.
Now before you go say 'But Dave, Does it matter that I'm NOT really great
looking?'
No. It doesn't.
In fact, average looking guys tend to do even BETTER than the really good
looking guys.
Before you shake your head, hear me out...
The reason good looking guys are at a
disadvantage is because women can see these guys coming A MILE AWAY!
Their defenses go up.
Women automatically think
Good looking = Player
This may or may not be the case, but this is what women tell me they
automatically think.
The average looking guy on the other-hand doesn't raise any 'alarms' so he's got
the element of surprise. Her guard is down.
One thing to keep in mind...
I've had as many as 40 something profiles up at any one time, spread out all
over the country.
I used other guys photos, other guys profiles, mixed them up and posted them in
another state. (I later took this same concept and invented 'the recon profile'
idea you heard me talk about on the DYD programs)
To top it off, I was sending over 100 emails PER MONTH/per account.
When you're able to send out close to 5,000 emails a month, you start to see
PATTERNS.
What's working and whats not working... from a broad range of ages, locations,
and looks.
By doing this I was able to collect a lot of DATA.
Something everyone else *doesn't* have.
(Who's going to send out 5,000 emails a month for years?)
What I teach you comes based on collecting and analyzing that data.
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Want to learn how an average guy like me got
398 dates with attractive women, ALL met online in 4 years?
Copy my exact formula HERE
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It's one thing to talk about something that SHOULD work, however its another
thing entirely to say, here..
'I tried it, these are the results, and this is EXACTLY how to make it work.'
... And that's where I come up with the concepts contained in Insider Internet
Dating.
Back to the photos.
One of the experiments I did was testing what photos worked best and which ones
didn't.
I tested this out for months, and the results were quite interesting...
One night I was sitting at Starbucks staring at my laptop. I look up and see
some 20 yr old kid looking at some bodybuilding magazine.
I think it was Muscle & Fitness.
Bingo. The lightblub goes off.
I'm thinking: 'Chicks usually like guys who are in shape and are good looking.'
I searched for a bit, and uploaded a few photos on the profiles... but these
were photos of dudes without any shirts on.
As I'm uploading these photos, I'm thinking 'Dave, the women on this website are
going to go NUTS when they see these photos, my inbox is going to get flooded.'
I sat there waiting for my inbox to explode with new emails.
And I sat there...
And sat there...
And nothing happened.
So I started sending emails out. This was the same template I was sending before
from other accounts and I was getting replies from it.
I figured, hey, if it worked good before, then with these photos I should be
getting EVEN MORE replies.
Unfortunately, I got even LESS than I'd normally get. (Which had me stumped, or
I just had a pretty interesting discovery.)
Anyways, I looked at the numbers, did a little bit of math (i.e. calculator),
and sure enough all the emails I sent out from the profiles with guys who had no
shirt on ALL got a lower response.
But something interesting happened.
The profile views were higher than normal, but the emails I got were
significantly less than normal.
SO WHAT CAN YOU LEARN FROM THIS?
Simple. If you've got any photos with no shirt on, get rid of them.
Not tomorrow, not next week -- NOW.
They're partly the reason why you're not getting the results you'd like meeting
women online.
There's more.
I could go on and on about all the little things you can do to make your profile
work better for you...
For even more tips, and how an average guy like me got 398 dates with attractive
women, ALL met online, in 4 years...
Want to learn exactly how I did it and how you can copy my exact formula?
Read the full article HERE.
To your dating success,
Dave M.
Author, Insider Internet Dating
P.S. You should take a few minutes and look at the program I've created to help
you learn how to meet and attract women online. You can see it, plus watch video
clips of it... right HERE.
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