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I've been getting a lot of questions from readers about
profiles. Everyone seems to want to know *how* to set up their profile in
the best way to get more success.
Well, I have some SHOCKING news for you.
But before I get to it, I wanted to tell you a quick little story of what
happened to me today. Its about 5 p.m. I go outside to the mailbox... open
it up and I see this nice slick catalog/brochure from apple.
I walk inside and put down all the mail and continue to look it over because it
was just really sweet looking. The photos were stylish, the design was
clean and the brochure just got me in that buying mood.
So what did I do?
I put the magazine down and went to their website to read more but I didn't buy
anything. Now why am I telling you this story?
Because your profile is just like that brochure. Its just there to look good and
give her a point of reference. its NOT going to make her say: "YES, I want this
guy right now."
Believe it or not, the profile isn't one of the most important things. Yes
it is important but lets not overdo it. Girls want to see that you're not
some dumbass, psycho, stalker etc.
The purpose of the profile is to show her that there's a brain behind the face.
To show her that you're actually a cool, relaxed guy. That you're FUNNY. You
have a sense of style.
These are all attributes that your profile should have. And if it doesn't
then take it down and fix it ASAP
I hear it now, someone is going to say:
"But, Dave, exactly what do I put in it?"
Here's a SAMPLE of how I might structure this. Notice I said might. I don't want
to give you absolute specifics because then what happens?
EVERYONE and their mother takes the same stuff and then the girls catch on that
we're all using the same stuff and it ruins it for everyone.
On the Insider Internet Dating CD I actually show you my EXACT profile so you
can learn from watching.
Soooo.....
1. Intro
I'd start with something catchy...mention something about why your profile is
different, or what she must go thru on these sites...
2. Some basic info
Age, eye color, build, what you do...the basics
3. Now go a bit further
Give her some more cool info....fun things you like to do, hobbies, what you
like to do for fun.
***And no, you can't start talking about the vertical slide (Hint Hint)
4. Start to qualify her
Ask a question...like are you a cool fun girl that likes to be active on the
weekends?
If she emails you back then she seems to think she fits in there. But again, the
profile is just there to convey some basic stuff so you don't need to stress out
too much over it.
She's not going to talk to your profile. She's going to talk to you, IF you do
the right things.
If you do, you'll get her number, then you'll charm the living heck out of her
and do ALL the right things.
When you're talking about what you like in a woman, I'd be a bit ambiguous and
not really talk about PHYSICAL features but rather talk about personality traits
that you'd like her to have.
"Someone that's got more going for them than their looks".
"A woman that's got ambitions in life is very appealing to me..."
"A woman that thinks sexy usually is sexy".
Stuff like that.
My style is all about charm. Its about being cocky and funny but in the right
situations... and all the while adding charm so she can't help but dig you.
Remember the profile is there as a reference. Its like a brochure the salesman
gives you. Odds are you'll look thru it and if its got nice pictures and some
interesting words then it helps.
But you're going to buy the product based on the person you're talking to.
You're not going to decide based upon the brochure.
Does that make sense?
If you've got friends that you actually like, then send them a link to the site:
www.insiderinternetdating.com
I'm sure they'll thank you afterwards.
If you're reading these emails and saying to yourself "I really need to improve
what I'm doing" because you're NOT getting the results you want with women
online then I couldn't agree with you more.
Getting success with this part of your life doesn't just "Happen".
Sure you might have some good experiences here and there because you were either
speaking to the right girl at the right time or got a girl that was more needy
than you were...
But consistent success with meeting women online is the result of knowing
EXACTLY what do do each step of the way and then being able to do it.
I have the most amazing education system for meeting women off the internet that
will teach you just that.
It's called: "Insider Internet Dating". This program shows YOU how to copy my
EXACT plan...
From start to finish.
With this program I'm going to show you:
* The SECRET I stumbled upon enabling non members to read AND respond to the
emails you send them...
Doing it any other way causes filters to STRIP your email address!
* My EXACT profile... see exactly what I'm teaching you and how I used it in my
own profile (How many 'Gurus' are willing to do that?)
* The COMPLETE plan... from start to finish. Each step is laid out in step by
step detail!
* 8 fill-in-the-blanks TEMPLATE sequences you can customize.... now you'll never
have to guess what to send out
* DOZENS of simple strategies you can use immediately to increase your responses
* And much, much more...
I take you 'behind the scenes' and teach you my EXACT blueprint... and I show
you how to really use it to amplify your results.
The best part?
This program is available RIGHT NOW and I'd like to send it over to you to take
it for a 'test-drive'. Go ahead and preview Insider internet Dating in its
entirety (that's almost 3 information-packed hours!) without risking a single
dime. If, for any reason, you're not completely satisfied -- I will be happy to
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Get the details here HERE.
All the best,
Dave M.
P.S. You should take a few minutes and look at the program I've created to help
you learn how to meet and attract women online. You can see it, plus watch video
clips of it... right HERE.
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