It’s that time of year again that every man dreads. Granted, some guys foolishly have it coming but that’s ok. I’m here to help guide you through some bad ideas for gifts, and instead make sure you get a satisfied sweetheart something she will love and you both can reap the rewards…it’s Valentines Day!
First things first, don’t make the number one mistake of getting something last minute! This seems to be the number one culprit that leads to bad gifts. Think about it; when the majority of us do anything at the last second it usually isn’t the best representation of our capabilities, right? Don’t do it, trust me. Another thing, if you think you’re off the hook because your girlfriend or wife told you she couldn’t care less for such a ridiculous “holiday”, think again. Let’s not forget, women sometimes say things they don’t mean but occasionally mean it (confusing I know). Play it safe and invest a little time and money on Valentines Day to at least show your appreciation (even if she told you not to get her anything). Trust me, you will both be happier.
Now, lets talk about some of the worst romantic gift ideas that some men thought were great but majorly backfired.
T-Shirt
One rule to rule them all; do not (I repeat), do not try to buy women’s clothes on your own (the majority of the time you will fail). Being perfectly blunt, a t-shirt is a pretty lame gift and doesn’t really capture what you are trying to say (unless the t-shirt literally says it) or how you feel so best to move on. It shows that there was little thought and effort in finding a symbolic gift.
A Mug
A mug is one of the most clichéd gifts in any scenario. It’s a boring and thoughtless gift, and signifies that you don’t really care (even if you do). You are better off not getting her anything rather than presenting a mug you self-wrapped after running to the corner gift shop. This is not your dad or your football buddy, so don’t think just buying a mug with a bear holding a heart will set you free.
Fake Jewellery
I know what you are thinking: she won’t be able to tell the difference and you save a chunk of change. This could all be true but if she somehow ever found out (if not from the start) then it could seriously damage her respect/trust for you. Let’s face it, women don’t like cheapskates and like to be spoiled, hence the term a diamond’s a girl’s best friend.
Second Hand Jewellery
Again, like previously mentioned, this is not the greatest idea. It’s a sleazy way of making her think you care more then you do and not a great way to build a relationship. Also, don’t buy second hand engagement rings that’s just plain ridiculous. Think about it for a second, you are buying her an object to show your lifelong devotion/commitment and you decided the most important item and symbol of your relationship should be categorized as second hand. It’s a mean gift that also reflects badly on you.
Small Appliances
You are just shooting yourself in the foot. There is nothing romantic about a toaster or blender, and odds are if she needed it she would of probably bought it for herself. A resourceful gift is not romantic and is not necessarily appropriate for the holiday.
Hopefully this little excerpt help shed some light on the do’s and don’t’s for this years Valentines. Trust me, women have a hard time shopping for their men as well, so it’s not just you. If you want to go all out and make it a day she will never forget, get down on one knee and unveil a beautiful engagement ring to share your lives together. Valentine’s Day is a great day to unveil the most romantic gift of all. Engagement rings can be tricky; take your time finding the perfect one. Good luck.
About The Author
Ross Davies is a married man and has over twenty years experience of buying terrible gifts for his wife and the consequences of such actions.