Dating and single life in general can be a real pain in the ass sometimes, we all know that. Dating, though (not online dating) – the thought of going out, fighting the crowds at the singles bars, the expense, the pointless conversations and time wasted – pretty soon the thought of meeting women online has had to have occurred to you.
Online dating can be a TRULY great experience. In the online dating world, a guy can put up his profile, cruise through all the profiles of the single women in the personal ads, and get a glimpse into WHO THEY ARE before you ever even give them a virtual nod.
Pretty powerful, if you think about it. The online dating world is a great way to find a serious relationship – or even a casual one – with a woman that matches you and your lifestyle. Online dating is for adults only, and those mature enough to assess a profile or personality without the additional cues given by body language or facial cues.
Now there is a lot to online dating – from finding the right site to crafting your profile, how to answer emails, how to ask the right questions of a woman, how to go about taking it from the net to the real world and more. At You Can Get The Girl you will find all that information (and more being added on a daily basis) to help you in your ongoing quest for meeting women – online!
Don’t End Up In the Recycle Bin With a Bad Profile
Meeting women online should be one of the easiest ways to get a great date. The fact is, though, most men just slap up a ho-hum profile and hope for a response. Or – even worse – they whip out a response to HER personal ad that is about a mile beyond boring.
So let’s imagine for a moment, if you will, that you are a WOMAN who has placed a personal profile up on a dating site. If she is the least bit attractive, she is going to get swarmed like a June-bug at a duck convention. She is going to get DOZENS of emails a day, from one guy after another who is saying the same boring thing to her.
The first one she reads says, “Hi! I am a SWM age 30 looking for a SWF between the ages of 22 and 29 for a possible LTR who likes hiking, long walks and dogs”. DELETE! BORING!!! The next one, “Hey babe – wanna get together for some “no strings attached” fun? I promise you the night of your life!” To the trash can. And so on and so forth.
See my point here? You have GOT to do something ORIGINAL in order to get her attention. You need to come across in your email as someone DIFFERENT than the other 900 losers that emailed her and then, you have to get her OFFLINE and on the phone as quickly as possible.
One of the great ways to really get her attention online is to use the Cocky Comedy fundamentals to get her goat. Ask her what the hell was going on with her hair in that photo, or if that was 10 years ago and she has grown warts since then, or anything that would make her sputter, defend herself or generally smack you if you were beside her.
Now, before you go out and start signing up for twenty different email accounts and 30 different online dating sites, take in some sage advice. (And by the way – to keep yourself from looking like a troller – GET the different email accounts. If you are on more than one site – chances are – so is she!).
Additionally, when you are responding to her – be sure to respond to something that she actually SAID in her profile. Don’t send out form letters. She will know whether or not you actually READ it, so take the time to do that.
Next, keep on top of the ads! There are a LOT of people using online dating forums. Be one of the first people to grab her and then – take her OFFLINE. Got that? Be the first in line, and then get her OFF the website as soon as possible and into a real world interaction with you. Call her, meet her for coffee, take her to lunch – whatever it takes to get you implanted into her life AS YOU ARE.
One more key piece of dating advice – when you arrange for your first meeting – she is GOING to be nervous. Her friends are telling her “You are meeting someone you met ONLINE??” So ease her fears. Meet for coffee at Starbucks in the middle of the day or for lunch somewhere. That will be much more “secure” feeling to her than a dinner date or a club.
So remember – online dating services are a GREAT place to meet women, and meeting women online can be a blast if you know how to do it right. So fire up your fingers and get to work. Remember – you CAN get the girl!