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Interviews With Dating Gurus

March 15, 2012 By GetTheGirl

by David DeAngelo

Many men out there are looking for dating tips from many different sources, not just David Deangelo of Double Your Dating. Well, David DeAngelo has an INCREDIBLE solution to this problem. Instead of searching the internet day in and day out for dating tips from different dating gurus, he has a one click way for you to get the information you are looking for when it comes to meeting and approaching any woman.

The Interviews With Dating Gurus series by David Deangelo is the answer to your dating dilemma. In his amazing monthly interview series, David D interviews a different dating guru each and every month, including guys (and some female gurus as well!) who are viewed by the general public as his key competitors. David Deangelo’s interviews with Dating Gurus include one on one interviews for you to listen to with people like the famed Grant Adams, David Shade, FJ Shark, Steve Piccus, Neil Strauss (Style), Joseph Matthews (Mystery), Cliff from Cliff’s List, David X, David Wygant and many, many more. In these interviews, there is no evading questions or pussyfooting around, they get into intense, in depth conversations. I have, on the left, a list of the interviews I have listened to and info from them, this list will be constantly growing so check back!

This is what Double Your Dating has to say about the interview series…

The Double Your Dating Interview Series With David DeAngelo…

“How To Secretly Eavesdrop, Listen In On, And Get Advice From Guys Who Are Masters With Women—
And Literally Listen To Me Pick Their Brains To Learn Their Secrets— All From The Comfort Of Your Own Home…”

Now You Can Hear Guys Who Are Masters With Women And Dating Teach You Exactly How They Do It…

Dear Friend,

We’ve ALL seen it, and we’ve all been curious about it…

I know that you’ve been out at a bar, or at a bookstore, or even on the street, and watched a guy walk up to an attractive woman, start talking to her, and then walk away a few minutes later with her number (or walk away a few minutes later with HER).

In fact, you’ve probably seen this happen MANY times in your life.

And the amazing thing about seeing something like this happen is that the guys who do things like this are usually just “regular guys”. It’s obviously not their looks or money that makes it easy for them.

IT’S SOMETHING ELSE.

Wouldn’t it be great to know what these guys are DOING?

Wouldn’t it be great to be able to get inside the heads of a BUNCH of these guys, and listen to exactly what they do and how they talk to women?

Wouldn’t it be great to hear these guys describe exactly what they’re thinking, saying and doing in detail?

Learning From Other Guys Is Vitally Important

In my book “Double Your Dating” and my other advanced programs, I advise guys who want to learn how to be successful with women and dating to MEET OTHER GUYS who are already good at attracting women, and learn from them DIRECTLY.

This is how I personally learned what REALLY works with women, and I think it’s a CRITICAL part of learning how to meet women and get more dates.

Why is it so important to learn from other guys? Why can’t you just read a book and “get it”?

Well, there are a lot of reasons.

Reading a book is a LOT better than nothing at all. You can get a good understanding of principles, concepts, and even some techniques by reading a book. In fact, books are probably the best education value in the world.

But let me ask you a question:

How do you learn things FAST?

Of course…

You either watch or listen to someone else who knows how to do it, and then IMITATE what they do…OR you can surround yourself with these masters (e.g. make them your friends) and learn their secrets first hand.

In fact, in the most famous success book of all time “Think And Grow Rich”, Napoleon Hill devotes an entire chapter to a KEY principle that almost every MASSIVELY successful person uses. It’s called the “Mastermind” principle.

In short, if you surround yourself with a group of successful people, and learn from them directly, you will tend to improve and reach success far faster than if you try to do it all “on your own”.

In his best-selling audio program “The Psychology of Achievement”, Brian Tracy talks about a little-known principle in psychology and human behavior called the “Reference Group”.

In a nutshell, this principle says that you become like those people with whom you surround yourself.

If you surround yourself with negative, unsuccessful people you’ll begin thinking, talking, and even ACTING more like them WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING THAT IT’S HAPPENING.

On the other hand, if you surround yourself with POSITIVE, SUCCESSFUL people, you’ll begin to think, talk, and act more and more like them WITHOUT EVEN REALIZING THAT IT’S HAPPENING.

Other people influence us on an subconscious level, because we as humans are programmed to LEARN this way. And all the great success coaches know this.

Guys Who Are Successful With Women Aren’t Always Easy To Find

Well, as you probably know, it’s not always easy to FIND guys who are successful with women. And it’s not always easy to make friends with them once you DO find them.

They usually have better things to do… like go out with all of the beautiful women that they can meet.

I mean, if you could meet women left and right, would you be trying to find all the millions of guys out there that weren’t successful with women to teach them how to improve?

No way.

You’d be out enjoying yourself with one or more of the women that were in you life!

So how can a regular guy find and learn from these “masters”?

And what should we ask them once we do meet them?

How To Get Inside Of The Minds Of Masters—And Learn From Them Directly

What if I told you that I knew a way for you to learn from MANY different guys who were successful with women?

And what if I told you that I would be there to PERSONALLY interview them and get them to share their TOP SECRETS with us?

And what if I even told you that we could RECORD the interviews that I do with them so you could listen to and review them over and over?

Well, as it turns out, I’ve made arrangements so you can do just that.

Let me Introduce You To My Double Your Dating Monthly Interview Series

It’s taken me literally YEARS to make friends with a group of guys who are arguably the BEST in the world when it comes to women and dating.

I’ve learned so much from these guys personally, and I wanted to figure out how to bring their secrets to others… so I’ve started INTERVIEWING these guys individually, and getting them to share how they do it… in their own words.

And let me tell you, I DIG FOR THE GOLD!

I want to know everything.

I want to know what they do, how they act, and what they say… WORD FOR WORD.

And most importantly, I want to know HOW THESE GUYS THINK.

And because I have gone from knowing literally NOTHING about how to be successful with women to being able to meet women anywhere, anytime, in any situation, I KNOW WHAT TO ASK.

And NO, I don’t ask questions like “What kind of wine should you order?” and “What is the best gift to buy a woman?”.

I ask questions like “How do you start a conversation with a woman you don’t know?” and “Tell me your secrets for taking things to a physical level with a woman”.

In short, I ask GOOD QUESTIONS. And I get AMAZING answers.

One of the most surprising things that I’ve discovered while doing these interviews is that I LEARN THINGS THAT I’VE NEVER HEARD BEFORE. And I’m often talking to guys who I’ve known for YEARS.

Every interview I do is a surprise, and I always learn something great.

Here’s How It All Works…

Every month I do one live audio interview with a guy who is VERY successful with women in my Interviews With Dating Gurus Series.

And I’d like you to be one of the select few that listen to these interviews.

Right now you’re probably thinking “This sounds too good. I’m sure it is going to cost a lot of money”.

WRONG.

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Even better, I’m going to make you an offer that you will actually not be able to refuse.

If you subscribe right now online, I’d like to send you THREE GREAT FREE BONUSES.

Bonus #1: A Double-Length Two CD Interview With A Master Of Approaching Women And Creating Attraction

Listen as I do this “double length” interview with one of my friends who is a MASTER of approaching women in every possible situation.

This interview went so long that it takes up two full CDs. Originally this was going to be a “single” interview, but the conversation was so fantastic that I literally lost track of time. I just couldn’t bring myself to edit it down to an hour, and cut out all the great material inside.

So I decided to offer it as a free bonus for signing up for this program, and keep it “full length”. And when you hear it, you’ll be glad I did.

This program contains some of the most profound insights I’ve ever heard on approaching women, starting conversations, using body language, making women feel ATTRACTION you will ever hear in your life. He’s amazing and you’ll hear it all in this interview.

Bonus #2: A SECOND Double-Length Two CD Interview With One Of The Most Insightful Women On The Planet

This is yet another interview that went WAY too long… and wound up revealing some of the most interesting and unique secrets I’ve ever heard.

Listen in as I interview a good friend of mine… one of the only women that I’ve EVER met who has a VERY accurate understanding of how men should behave in order to attract women… and even BETTER, can EXPLAIN IT ALL from a FEMALE perspective.

I learned so much doing this interview, it’s amazing.

Listen in as we talk about everything from how to make women find you “mysterious” to how to dress… and everything in between.

Bonus #3: A Handy Case To Keep All Your Future Interviews

Along with your first two free bonus interviews you’ll also receive a handy case to keep your future interviews safe and organized in one place.

These three bonuses, including the two DOUBLE interviews are worth at LEAST $100.00 alone.

But you’ll get all three for FREE, just for TRYING this program (all you pay is shipping and handling for the bonus kit itself).

My Absolute Iron-Clad 100% Guarantee

I know that you probably want to “try before you buy”, and that only makes sense.

Here’s my offer to you:

Buy the Double Your Dating eBook for only $19.97. Let me send you the first two DOUBLE bonus interviews FREE as your bonus for subscribing to the Monthly Interview Series. Listen to both of them all the way through… and then listen to the first monthly interview that you get. Take up to 30 days to thoroughly go over the materials.

If you’re not THRILLED with the program, just ask for a refund, and you can KEEP THE BONUSES AND your first interview. That’s right, I said that if you’re not thrilled with the program you can KEEP THE TWO DOUBLE BONUS INTERVIEWS… AND get a full refund. No questions, and no hassles.

I can’t offer you something “more fair” than that.

Of course, I’m betting that you’ll want to keep your subscription active forever… and not miss a single interview. From there on out, you can cancel anytime with 30 days notice.

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Your Friend,

David DeAngelo

Read What Others Have To Say…

(These have been edited/ names changed to initials for privacy):

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– F.S. – NH

“God bless you for your interview series. I feel as if I am approaching guru status myself these days. I’ve been averaging somewhere between four to seven dates per week. After learning what I have, it is apparent that a lot of the other dating teachers don’t seem to get it.”
– M.G. – Miami, FL

“Your dating guru’s cd’s ROCK. I love listening to them. I would like to personally thank you for making these products. You have changed my life around and how I look at myself. I know your stuff has been around for a few years, but I’m thankful for it, it has helped me get rid of my insecurities / shyness. I tried some of the things you mentioned, and BAM I’m getting women to look at me. PROPS DOG!”
– T.W.

“I have been receiving the interviews for close to a year. Last night I went out to a new local bar and it seemed like all the stuff you taught me is starting to become woo woo way (its all coming natural). I was dancing with a girl, and had no attachment to the outcome and boy was she testing me. But thanks to you, later we were doing things on the dance floor that I can’t mention in the letter. ”
– J.S. – MD

“Most people write about Double Your Dating and the ebook, and talk about the newsletters… I’m here to talk about the monthly interview series. I listened to Patty, who specializes in sexy ballroom dancing, talk about improving your walk. I don’t have the greatest of walks. It’s genetic. My mom made fun of me, my dad, and my grandfather when we walked the way we did together at one such family get together. Today, I was just walking and this girl almost ran into me, and she said “I’m sorry”. I wasn’t really paying attention… and then she said “You have a cute walk…” Needless to say, using information from the ebook, and advanced series, I got her e-mail in 3 minutes… I said “I think you’ll make a nice friend, do you have e-mail?” She said yes, and I got her e-mail address, and said that this way, we could keep in touch and I can show her my other cute walks in future, I’ll walk on some fashion show catwalk and show them off… She then said “I’ll do some modeling for you… Then she finished writing her e-mail down, and I asked her “Are you single” She said “Yes, are you…” Which was surprise… But I maintained my cool by saying “We’ll have to wait and see”… It wasn’t so much the words, as it was the maintaining of my vocal tone, and my body composure. I didn’t freak out physically, I went with it. And then we went our ways. Oh yeah… Some big tall guy was with her. But it didn’t matter, he soon became the third wheel. It’s all about inner game, and if you have no inner game, no one can help you.

Of course, I didn’t do any of this overnight, so thank you Dave. Not for helping with the DYD program, but getting other views, like those from the monthly Dating Guru series.”
– G.I.

“I listen religiously to the monthly interview series. I can hardly wait from month to month for a new one to come out. I am HOOKED. My life has changed fundamentally. You have opened a whole new world for me. Meeting women for me now is like child’s play. ”
– A.J.

“Yo, Dave
Just got the monthly interview series. 2 words for you: HOLY CRAP! the interview with the chick was AMAZING! I wish I had that interview years ago. The insights that she shared were *SO* powerful, I have pages of notes from them. I wished you could have had ANOTHER 2 more cds with her. This has to be one of the best products out there of its kind. A lot of the questions I had on various topics were discussed and I heard the answers from a WOMAN! You can’t get any better than that. Genius work.”
– D. – Miami

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Dating Tips Q&A: How To Act When A Woman Likes You

March 15, 2012 By GetTheGirl

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

Dave,

I’ve become a very generous guy lately.  To all my male friends, I’m giving them the gift of your newsletter.  To all my females, I’m giving the gift of missing me.

I’m a recovering wuss.  I took a few months off of women and worked on my inner game, with great results.  I’ve started talking to new women again, along with old girlfriends.  I find that when the c/f (Cocky & Funny) starts rolling, or even just my newfound confidence, I often get a lot of compliments.  What’s the best way to deal with a girl coming out and saying “oh, you’re so cute/funny/etc…”? Should I ignore it and keep the c/f going?  Should I address it in a cocky way?  I’m assuming that graciously accepting the compliment is never the right answer…

What would you say to a girl who compliments you directly? (other than “Do you do third input?”)  What would your tone/body language/eye contact be like?

-J.M.
>From new hampshire, where men are men, women are few, and sheep are nervous.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, this really is a great question.

One of the most important things to understand as a man is what to do when things are WORKING… so you don’t SCREW IT UP!

If you use the materials that you’re learning from me, you will start to have a magical thing happen more and more often… women will start to do and say things that clearly indicate that they LIKE you.

Sometimes it will be a touch, sometimes a compliment, and sometimes a smile. But these things WILL happen more and more as you get better and better.

I always laugh to myself when I bust a woman’s chops really hard, and she laughs and says “You’re so funny!” or “You really are good!” etc.

I still shake my head and wonder why the hell it took me so long to figure this stuff out.

But I digress… you know, while I’m digressing, what’s with you ending your email with:

“>From new hampshire, where men are men, women are few, and sheep are nervous.”

…?!

This is probably the third or fourth time that I’ve seen this at the end of an email.

Tell me the truth… do chicks dig this?

You’re making me nervous, man. Keep the sheep talk on the DL, OK?

Uncool.

Now, when a woman does something that signals “I like you”, it is VITALLY important that you:

1) Know how to recognize it

2) DON’T do what MOST guys do

3) DO the right thing, and AMPLIFY it

So how can you tell if a woman is doing something that says “I like you”?

Well, it’s VERY important to remember that women are far more “subtle” than men (most of the time, that is).

If a man is interested in a woman, you can see it all over his face. It’s usually very obvious.

But women are different.

Women do SMALL things.

A little touch. A sly smile. Sometimes a comment like “You’re so cute” (as in your example above).

But then IT’S GONE.

Women always seem to act like they’re not quite sure.

They don’t send consistent signals that most men can “read”.

And when they DO send signals that are easy to see, most guys respond in a way that makes those signals stop…which makes things even MORE confusing.

Again, women aren’t as CONSISTENT as men.

A woman can seem like she’s interested one minute, then stand-offish the next.

So rule #1 is:

JUST BECAUSE SHE’S DOING SOMETHING THAT SAYS “I LIKE YOU”, DON’T THINK THAT IT MEANS “I LIKE YOU NO MATTER WHAT”.

Much better to interpret subtle “I like you” cues as “I like you for a second, but if you start acting like a Wuss Bag or Dumb Ass, it will all be over in an instant”.

Unfortunately for most guys, they take “I like you” signals to mean “You’ve won my approval, now you can do whatever you want”.

And what do they do? Of course…

They turn into dorks, say or do a few stupid things, and destroy it all.

Oh, how many times I’ve watched guys (myself included) screw up perfectly good situations because they just didn’t get this concept.

Let me give you an example.

Let’s say that you’re out with a woman, and you’ve been teasing her, and she smiles and says “I like you”.

A typical “male” response is for a guy to think to himself “OK, I’m in… she digs me” and to get that rush in the head and chest.

Next thing you know, he’s acting different.

He’s talking about different things.

He’s giving compliments.

He’s being “nicer”.

And what’s the woman thinking while this is all going on? Of course… she’s thinking “Uh oh, his cool, calm, interesting personality was just a cover for the secret inner-Wuss that was hiding out, waiting for a little bit of approval from me… AHHHHHH!”

Women KNOW that they’re in control of the situation. Or at least MOST of the time they are… and they THINK that they are even during the times when they’re not.

They’re constantly using different kinds of communication to test and “feel out” the situation.

Remember, MOST of the time when you’re saying something that you think is nice, charming, and original, it’s something that a woman has heard about 47 times that week from other guys.

Us guys act VERY predictably most of the time.

And women know how to tell if you’re just another loser who’s pretending to be cool… who will turn into an average Wuss at the first sign of attraction from a cute woman.

Think about what I just said.

This is hard for a lot of guys to swallow… but it’s the reality of the situation.

There’s something that women call “Sexual Tension”. It’s also known as “Chemistry” or “Attraction” as well. But only WOMEN know it this way.

When you tease a woman, make her laugh, play hard to get with her, act unpredictably, etc. in the right way, you will create this tension. This is what usually leads to a woman saying something like “You’re cute” or “I like you”.

It’s the TENSION that makes her FEEL it and SAY it.

THE TENSION!

In these very special moments, you need to turn the tension UP. Dial it up. AMPLIFY it.

Don’t diffuse it all by saying “You’re cute yourself” or “I like you, too”. Or by smiling like a jackass wussy dork who has just seen his first rainbow.

This kind of thing RELEASES the tension, and it usually takes that wonderful electric attraction feeling that the woman is feeling and INSTANTLY kills it.

Does this make logical sense?

Hell no.

But it’s what happens.

OK, so let’s talk about the RIGHT way to handle this type of situation.

Remember when I said that it’s the TENSION that makes a woman feel the feelings and make the comments?

And that you need to AMPLIFY it when you’re getting a positive response?

Nice.

Once upon a time, there was a scene in a movie that illustrated this concept PERFECTLY.

In fact, it might be the all-time greatest example of this principle that has ever been recorded on film.

Remember the end of “The Empire Strikes Back” when they were about to put Han Solo into the deep freeze?

Remember when Leia said “I love you”…?

Remember what Han said?

Right, he said… “I know”.

Perfect.

All of the sexual tension that built up in Star Wars and Empire culminated in Leia confessing her love.

And Han says “I know”.

Awesome!

Imagine being Leia. What could be going through her mind at this point?

An answer like this isn’t easy to understand. It has all kinds of implications.

It’s confusing.

It says “I know you love me, because it’s been obvious for a long time…”. But it doesn’t let HER know how he feels exactly. It requires consideration. It dials up the tension. It’s amazing.

By the way, I read that when they were filming that scene Han was supposed to answer “I love you too”, but the director didn’t like it. They tried all kinds of things, and in the end Harrison Ford made up that line on the spot in one of the takes… and they kept it. Nice.

By the way, one of the BIG reasons why the newer movies in the Star Wars series suck is because there is no character like Han… think about it. It’s all boring, predictable stuff. There’s no sexy, arrogant, funny, wildcard personality messing things up.

Like I pointed out after I saw “Attack Of The Clones”, Anakin had to kill an ENTIRE VILLAGE of Sand People just to convince Princess A. that he wasn’t a complete and total Wuss. Would have been so much easier and more entertaining if he would have just had a PERSONALITY.

Whatever.

Now where was I…?

Oh, yea… amplifying the sexual tension…

If you’re out with a woman, and you tease her because she’s wearing four inch heels by saying “What’s the deal, are you four feet tall without those one?”, and she opens her mouth with the classic “Oh no you didn’t” look (smiling of course, with that surprised smile)… and you dial it up to the next level with “Oh, I’m sorry…Four foot three?”… and she hits you on the arm…

…and then she stops, puts her hand on your arm, and says “You know, you’re funny”…

…what do you do?

YOU SAY “YEA, I KNOW” – in a serious tone.

Or “Don’t try to use compliments to make me like you. It won’t work. Go buy me a drink or something… I prefer gifts and money.”

Or look down at her hand on your arm, lean back slightly, turn your head, and put your eyebrows together as if to say “Just WHAT do you think you’re doing touching me?!”.

TURN IT UP, my friend!

You TURN UP the tension.

AMPLIFY it.

Keep it going.

If you keep amplifying the tension and attraction at each of these wonderful moments, good things will happen.

Good stuff.

OK, I have a question.

Want more killer ideas like this one?

What if I told you that there was a place you could go and download an eBook that contained literally DOZENS and DOZENS of great ideas like this one?

Well, there is. Of course, it’s my eBook “Double Your Dating”. Inside, you’ll learn about all of my personal favorite techniques for dealing with all kinds of situations with women.

This might sound a little strange, but I actually read my own book to brush up on concepts, and remind myself of how to handle different situations. It took me a few years to learn, test, refine, and organize all of the awesome techniques that are included, and you’ll understand why I speak so highly of it when you go and get a copy.

It’s here… you can download it and be reading it in a few minutes. And while your at it, be sure to sign up for my free newsletter for more great tips:

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David DeAngelo is the author of “Double Your Dating –  What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.
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Online Dating Around the Holidays – Tips from David DeAngelo

March 15, 2012 By GetTheGirl


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You don’t need David DeAngelo of Double Your Dating to tell you that dating can be expensive, especially around the holidays.  If you are going to bars or clubs to meet women, you can spend a TON of money – on drinks, cover charges, food, clothes and more.  That can really add up in a night, let alone several nights a month!  Well, the good news is, you can really save a chunk of change if you change your tactics a little bit – and instead of trying to meet women in bars, try meeting them online.  Keep in mind, too, that the holidays are a great time to meet women – despite what you may think about the holidays being busy.  In fact, no one wants to be alone for Christmas and New Year’s eve, so, get out there and get yourself a date!

Online dating is a great way to meet women during the holidays for a few reasons.  First of all, its less expensive, and secondly, depending on where you live, you don’t have to worry about the weather being a factor.

If you go to an online dating site, even one of the higher priced ones, they may run you $25 a month if you pay month by month, or less if you pay for more months at a time.   So that’s $25 a month and lots more chances with women than $100 a weekend for clubs – and maybe you get a number maybe you don’t.

And there are certainly things you can do to make your chances in online dating a lot better than your chances at a bar or club.  Here are a few things you can do to get your online dating profile noticed, and your emails responded to by women….

First – always place a great profile picture.  Have a picture of your face, in an engaging pose like smiling or laughing, women love this.  Do not put a picture of you in your deer hunting gear with a rifle in your hand, or a picture of your abs to impress the ladies.  Make sure it is clear and a quality picture.   Always smile – women will respond much better to a smiling photo that your Marine thousand yard stare.

Use an engaging headline.  This is one of the things that David DeAngelo teaches in Meeting Women Online.  Read through the headlines in the dating site you select – don’t put something cheesy like “Prince Charming Looking for His Princess”.  Write something challenging like “Catch Me If You Can!” or Freakishly Intelligent Genius Looking For Wit and Personality” – make your headline something that women have to QUALIFY for, because this will up your value in their eyes.

Next, when you are replying to a woman’s profile, don’t just wink, actually email her.  When you email her, be unique and challenge her, don’t just tell her how pretty you think she is and how you liked her profile.  Pick on her a little bit – engage her.  You can email her and saying something about her profile picture, tell her “Hey, I saw your profile picture and you are cute, but what is with your dog?  It looks like you gave it a crack pipe for a treat!”  Razz her, make her laugh, and challenge her to banter with you and engage in a conversation with her.  That will also make you much more memorable to her, especially if she is a hottie.

Want to check out more dating tips for guys from David Deangelo?  Check out his eBook risk free here, and read all you can get your eyes on!

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DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Cocky Comedy, Getting Numbers and More

March 15, 2012 By GetTheGirl

By David DeAngelo

Hey David Deangelo!

I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on what you’ve gained from writing and responding to online personal ads. I’m not having a great deal of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:

1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself and/or your ideal catch be? I’ve heard it said that “brevity is the soul of wit”, but you also want to be memorable, right?

2. When writing profiles, should you stick with Cocky Comedy techniques? I’ve noticed that humor often doesn’t translate well in written form, so I wasn’t sure how to go about all that.

3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that you recommend not posting a picture. At the same time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to having one too many blind dates which ended with me throwing a stick and shouting “fetch!” in order to distract her long enough to get away. Don’t you think that by committing a picture on your ad, women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am I mistaken?

An apprentice,
J.

>>>David Deangelo’s COMMENTS:

You’ve asked some questions that really require more of an in-depth treatment… but here are a few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure out:

1) You’ll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (Unless you’re a master of writing profiles).

2) If you’re going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive single women typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal ads, and it’s very easy to get overwhelmed. You’ll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days… this is why.

3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and funny – using my Cocky Comedy techniques) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like “I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself “Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women…” and then I saw your ad and thought to myself “Hey, here’s a poor, desperate, lonely woman that’s actually CUTE…” so I thought I’d write and see if you’re as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture…”

4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I got an email from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins… and that he’s getting tons of responses from that. I’ve never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!

***QUESTION to DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave, love your book. I have learned more about women in the last two months than I knew in my lifetime. The teasing and using COCKY COMEDY really turns them on. I have known this girl for some time and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said to me “I love you R,” Is it ok for me to tell her I love her too or is it better to say nothing and just smile which I did so far.

R.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Take a cue from Han Solo…Say “I know”.

You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her know that you’re having fun after you say it.
As far as your question of “Is it OK to tell her that I love her too?” I can’t answer that. You’re at a stage that is past our topic here.

I think that love and relationships are great, but since this isn’t the area that I choose to talk about, you’re going to have to decide for yourself.  Just don’t turn into a wussy… that’s bad no matter what.

***COMMENT TO DAVID DEANGELO FROM A WOMAN***

I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women out here in single land, for the creation of Double Your Dating. Out of curiosity, I clicked on a link from (another website) to see what all this great advice was about. just from reading about your “kiss test” I knew you had figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it out that I’m not interested. Honestly, I will fall over and spread my legs for any man that does the right things whether he’s extremely attractive or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I guess that’s your job. Anyway, like I said, I just wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit on in the grocery store by someone who has read your book!

Thanks,

K.H.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, thank you for your letter. I truly appreciate your honesty and directness. Most men can’t believe that what you’re saying could actually be true, but as we both know, it quite often is.  The interesting thing you say (which I agree with) is:

“I would never tell him how to do it.”

In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS OF GETTING HER. Translation for guys: If you don’t know what you’re doing when it comes to women, LEARN.

***QUESTION***
Hi Dave:

I have been reading your material for a few months now. One of the best things I learned about your work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone numbers from women. I have great success at this point. This has also helped my business. I need help in two areas that involve taking it to the next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of these girls is the BEST for me in terms of personality and chemistry. My last relationship lasted a year and a half and did not work because we were always busting each others chops. Secondly, I think there is a point when we just need to stop playing games and be nice to these women… What do you think?

B. NYC

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Well, I’m not the relationship expert, so I’m not going to address how you should choose a woman to settle down with…

But I will comment on your question of whether or not there is a point when you should stop “playing games” and “be nice to these women”. The mind set and techniques that I teach are not my idea of a “short term technique to get laid”. Once you start using the methods, you’ll find that women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In other words, if you can keep up the charming, Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman feeling attracted to you FOREVER.

“Nice” is not a word that you want associated with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren’t ATTRACTED to guys who are “nice”.  Be interesting, unpredictable… even thoughtful and original.  But don’t be NICE. Use Cocky Comedy.

Think about it.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Hello,

Your are the man. I have been using your cocky funny method on girls I already know and see the difference in the way they act towards me; they seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma is that I run out of cocky comedy comments and little jokes. For example I went to the coffee shop yesterday with one of my buddies and there were two cute girls in front of us who smiled at us when we where in line and I looked back and smiled but I had no idea what to say to them or what to make fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I simply had no idea what funny comment to make.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Here’s the answer…

List the 10 most common situations that you’d find yourself meeting women… and list 10 cocky and funny things to say in each situation.  Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so you have them ready!  If you are at the stage where Cocky Comedy doesn’t come “naturally”, then you’re going to have to PRACTICE.

Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY dominate all of the other players around them?  Practice, of course.

Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and start practicing. Practice makes magic.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave,

Because of my job, I am on the road a lot, where I love to listen to your interviews with dating gurus, by the way! Lots of times I like to drive with the windows down, music blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I find myself waiting at a stop light with a good- looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these girls, we make eye contact, others just glance over. Sometimes I’ll drive for miles with the same girl to the side of me. The problem is I never really know what to do next. So I guess what I need are some great David Deangelo dating tips on:

1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2. Once she does what should I tell her?

I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know they’re not looking at that, but I’m just uncertain how to get her attention.

Thanks for the help.

R. in So Cal

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.  I have a good friend who can’t drive up next to a woman without flirting. He likes to “waggle his eyebrows” at every woman he sees.  Next time you’re next to a cutie, waggle your brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old fashioned motion of rolling down your window to her, and roll down yours.

Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it, and say “What’s your number?”

I’ve done variations of this myself, and had some great fun success with it.

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Understand How Women Think

March 15, 2012 By GetTheGirl

I firmly believe that some dating advice that carries the disclaimer “for entertainment purposes only” REALLY IS “for entertainment purposes only”. What’s more, some guys are perfectly okay with that. It’s enough for them.

After all, SAYING that one is acting on a desire to get better with women and going through the motions in a way that FEELS LIKE getting better with women is often A LOT safer than ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING.

It’s potentially WAY less painful, also.

But lately it has occurred to me that there’s an EVEN MORE fascinating phenomenon out there that is potentially lulling guys into a “false sense of security” of sorts when it comes to improving our skills with women.

Here it is: I think that a shockingly high percentage of men’s dating advice is built around the premise that men and women THINK ALIKE about dating and seduction.

Moreover, we as guys tend to assume women think like WE DO rather than vice versa.

I mean, come on. It’s the easy road, after all. Understanding women is complicated if not altogether enigmatic to us.

Therefore, when someone comes along and gives us advice on how to handle women, and does so in a way that MAKES SENSE to a man, what happens?

You guessed it…we assume that if it MAKES SENSE to us, it must be accurate and effective.

There’s only one problem. Women aren’t wired the way we are after all.

Sure, our basic emotional fabric, wants and needs are more similar than we often give credit for.

But nonetheless, what drives that which is feminine is VERY different than what motivates us as masculine men.

And for better at worse, it’s the DIFFERENCES between men and women that spark attraction. Therefore, the DIFFERENCES are indeed at the heart of dating advice in general.

I’ll give you a primo example…one that could transform how you look at dating/seduction advice from this moment forward if you let it sink in.

Here goes… One of THE most repeated themes in the Seduction Community is the concept of how attractive women can select their partners at will while “rejecting” all others.

Meanwhile, so the story goes, we as guys are left to compete against the herd for the right to “mate” with a desirable female.

Elaborate comparisons are often made with what goes on elsewhere in the animal kingdom.

Bighorn sheep butting heads. Alpha wolves slaughtering the young of competing males. Big bad Black Widow spiders of the female persuasion gobbling up their puny male mates right after intercourse.

Sheesh.

Basically, the message is, “Women are the lucky ones. They can have sex whenever they want, and casually reject guys right and left until they get to the one they want.”

Us guys? We either become “more alpha”, or we die virgins or something.

Guess what? That’s how WE AS GUYS THINK, because it’s WE who are motivated by sexual conquest.

Now sure, SOME women do indeed wield tremendous sexual power. And yes, they really do “reject” countless guys who want to “mate” with them.

At least that’s how WE perceive the universe.

But here’s the thing. You should see the e-mails Emily and I get from women.

They’ve got dating challenges of their own. And they think all the GUYS are in control when it comes to dating.

Perhaps you’re thinking that we must be getting e-mails from all the less-than-attractive women out there who lack in the “sexual power” department.

Au contraire.

Sometime when you’re bored at work, hit up our Facebook group and surf through some of the hotties who have accepted Emily’s invitation and are ALL ABOUT going from “good” to “great” with guys.

Their challenges? They read like this: “I date a bunch of guys and they only want one thing…sex. When will I find a guy who will love me and want to commit to me?”

We have NEVER (as in NEVER, EVER) received a single e-mail from a woman who was concerned about “getting l***” enough.

And it’s not because every woman has ultimate “choosing” power over guys in that area.

And for the record, it’s also not because women don’t like sex.

It’s because they DON’T THINK LIKE A MAN DOES.

So the best dating advice to guys who want to get better with women is NOT to try to figure out how to get a woman to “select” you as her sex partner.

Instead, if you THINK IN TERMS OF WHAT WOMEN WANT, you’ll realize that the man who represents who a woman wants to fall in love with and commit to is the guy who will TRULY succeed.

Does all this still seem a bit cryptic to you? Looking for a clearer indication that I’m on to something here?

Look no further than the WOMEN’S dating advice market. Because they do the EXACT SAME THING…in reverse.

Women “dating gurus” tend to talk to women as if we as men think like they do.

And it SELLS LIKE HOTCAKES.

Why?

Because it makes sense to women, of course.

Women want a man to commit to them instead of “using them and leaving them”.

So what’s the best advice? Simple: follow “The Rules” designed to cajole a man into committing before you give him anything he wants.

The reality? Any self-respecting guy, such as yourself, isn’t going to fall for it.

Show me a woman who UNDERSTANDS that men want a woman who actually LIKES MEN, follows a worthy man’s lead, basks in her own femininity and heaps unsolicited approval on the deserving man in her life…and I’ll show you the woman who has guys FALLING ALL OVER THEMSELVES to put a ring on her finger.

Why is that? Simple…SHE KNOWS HOW MEN THINK, and represents what they want.

Can you make the extra effort to discover more about how women think?

If so, can you believe that it will pay off?

Can you trust that women REALLY DO follow a man’s lead, therefore when you represent what THEY want they GLADLY reciprocate by giving you what YOU want?

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