Dating Tips For Men – Flirting With Women by Carlos Xuma

Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable doing. I’ve had many guys write to me to tell me that they were afraid they’d get arrested if they were seen flirting with women in a store or other establishment during the day.

(I think this fear is very common, and it holds a lot of guys back from approaching women during the day…)

I want to give you some of my favorite strategies for flirting with women that you can put to work right away.

First of all, I want you to know that the term “flirting” is really just chick-speak for “pickup.” Guys talk about “picking up” on girls, and women talk about “flirting” with guys.

It’s a subtle difference in language and terminology that you need to understand so that you don’t risk turning off a woman. Women love to flirt, but hate the thought of being picked up on – which connotes fun and playfulness.

Pickup, on the other hand, is serious and sex-oriented, which turns women off.

The next thing you need to be aware of is that we are all born natural flirts. Just watch kids when they’re playing. Watch their body language and their facial expressions. Watch how they roll their eyes, and how they use the tone of their voice to get their way with adults, as well as other kids.

They are EXPERTS!

You were once, too, and all you need to do is tap back into it.

Now, the rules of flirting with women:

RULE #1) Flirting is always acceptable in a humorous tone. If you get serious, a woman is going to turn off and tune you out.

RULE #2) Flirt to GIVE, not to get.

Outcome thinking sabotages your results. When you create a situation where you have to get a result from something you do, you no longer feel fun.

All conversations where someone wants something from the other person inevitably become uncomfortable.

RULE #3) Flirt for your own FUN.

If it’s not fun, you won’t keep doing it. Self-reinforcing habit. You must have a positive motivational reason to flirt, or you’ll feel like it’s just another chore and you’ll stop doing it.

I was at the best buy the other day buying a movie, and the cute cashier asked me: “Can I see your credit card real fast?”

So I literally pulled it out of my wallet and slid it back in about a split second.

She laughed and her body language changed instantly. Now our interaction was no longer just business. And I did that because I’m Italian, and we just LOVE to bust people’s balls like that.

Flirting with women and teasing are practically the exact same thing.

RULE #4) Flirt with EVERY woman, child, and small furry mammal you encounter.

Flirting is an attitude that comes through in your vibe. If you only approach attractive women, you’ll just create a mental barrier for yourself, and more anxiety when you find a woman you “really” want to meet.

Flirting is about creating an abundance mindset. The more abundant you feel, the less you appear needy to a woman.

Now, HOW do you get started?

Here’s my 4 step formula for flirting with women:

Step 1) Indirect Question – Ask her something about wherever you are, and keep it situationally relevant. In other words, if you’re in a coffee shop, you need to ask a question that relates to fact that you’re both in this coffee shop.

Step 2) Use a sassy comment – Sometimes called “Cocky & Funny”, or teasing.

Here’s what I like to use. I call it the “Duh” question:

“Do you think they serve the drinks really HOT here?”

Then she usually answers me with, “Uhm, yeah…” And after she looks at me like I’m from another planet, I smile, wink at her, and say, “You didn’t really think I was serious, did you?”

And the teasing has begun…

Then you have a playful conversation.

And finally, the last step in flirting with women is this:

Step 3) YOU leave the conversation first.

When you’re the one to control the ending of the conversation, your confidence will go up ten times more than if she tells you, “I’ve got to get going.”

So don’t let her get the drop on you.

Create what I call the Sacrificial 20: Leave with nothing for the first 20 women you flirt with.

No phone number, no nothing.

After you leave behind your old scarcity mindset, and when you feel like women are abundant, you can start to go further.

And she will thank you for it!
– Carlos Xuma

By David DeAngelo

Answers To Two Common Questions…

I get different variations of two questions so often, that I’m going to address them both quickly.

1) What if she has a boyfriend?

MY COMMENTS:

Say “Next” and find yourself a woman that doesn’t have a boyfriend. I personally don’t think it’s worth the hassle, energy, or effort. Plus, I don’t like to be the guy that ruins relationships. And I personally don’t like to date women who have no integrity (think about it). So just find a girl that’s single… and chances are that someday soon the one you like will be single… and you’ll be more attractive because you’re dating other women.

2) I have this girl that’s been a friend for 47 years, and how do I get her to feel attracted to me?

MY COMMENTS:

Start making fun of her more, tease her about things, and let her know the details about the women that you’re dating. Call her less often, and MOST IMPORTANTLY… if you’re planning on getting together with a friend, be ready to risk the relationship forever, as involvement often leads to problems which damage relationships for life. Much better in most cases to find someone new…

***QUESTION***

I have a question. There’s this girl that I really like, and she tells me that she just wants to be friends, and I was just wondering, what can I do to make her change her mind?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question, and I get it a lot. I think of this as a much different question than the above, as it’s usually something that can be fixed. Here’s how: If most of the women that you meet are telling you that they want to be “just friends”, then it means that YOU’RE DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE THEM ALL FEEL THAT WAY. The good news is that if you’re doing something to make them feel that way, then you can start doing something different to make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead.

You’re probably not going to be able to do much for the ones that are already telling you that they want to just “be friends”, but here’s what to do in the future:

STOP ACTING LIKE A “FRIEND” WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM!

If you act like a “nice, friendly guy” then a woman is NOT going to feel attracted to you. What do I mean by “nice” and “friendly”?

I mean don’t give her too many compliments, don’t act shy and don’t smother her with attention. Don’t call her every five minutes. Don’t talk with a tentative, weak voice. Don’t go far out of your way to be accommodating too early. Don’t tell her that you have feelings for her before you’ve gotten intimate with her. DO tease her.

DO act Cocky & Funny around her. DO end phone conversations and meetings first. DO act a little bit too confident. DO use The Kiss Test early on in the relationship. DO speak with strength and confidence.

Are you with me?

If you’re getting a common response from most of the women you meet, then the common denominator is YOU and the way you’re acting. So keep working on it until you get the results you want.

***QUESTION***

I am a good looking athletic guy. When single I have never had trouble getting dates. I use the cocky, funny and mysterious rap. I have been in and out of a relationship with the same wonderful and challenging woman for nine (I know its ridiculous) years. I know that I want to spend my life with this woman, but she has lost her interest and me and says she thinks of me as a brother. She complains that I am not touchy feely enough, but then rejects me when I try to be so. I am so confused by what she says and what she means. I know that I lost my edge and she knows that I love her unconditionally. I know that she fell for the cocky guy and said that she wanted to turn me into a teddy bear. I tried unsuccessfully to do that for a while and now that I want to really do it and think that I actually could, she does not want it from me now.

My neediness and smothering have become a burden to her. But it seems unnatural and insincere to play games “hard to get” or try and make her jealous. Obviously, over nine years a lot has happened and there has been pain and growth on both sides. What can I do to both excite her and bring back the spark, but also love her honestly for myself and for her? I know she loves me, but how can I help her to fall in love with me. Please help me. I do not want to lose her.

Confused Reader

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, remember that relationships are not logical, cause-and-effect situations that adhere to the laws of physics. Most often, there seems to be no rhyme or reason for what is happening (My goal is to help men to understand what’s going on…).

If you’ve read my book and other newsletters, then you know that I believe that women usually SAY that they want one thing (a nice, stable, considerate guy) but that they are ATTRACTED to something else (a challenging, confident, funny, hard-to-get, unpredictable buy).

If you want her to be interested in you, then you should probably do a few things:

1) Stop calling her.

2) Start dating other women, and let her know about it.

3) Act Cocky & Funny when she calls you.

4) Play hard to get… end conversations first, don’t call her back, etc.

5) Stop acting so nice and sensitive. I know that some of this stuff might sound like mind games, but you have a couple of choices: Be more interesting and become more attractive to her, or keep doing what you’re doing, and keep making her run. I hope this helps.

***Question***

How do you find out if a girl is available? You seem to talk to women that you just met. How and when do you find out if they have a boyfriend or a husband. If I knew how to get past this part I know I would buy your book.”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Would you believe that one of my all-time very favorite questions is “Are you single?” If I’m interested in a girl, I’ll just stop, look her in the eyes, and in a casual tone say “Are you single?” If she is, she says “yes”, and if not, she says “no.” Sure, a woman will sometimes lie, but it’s such an unusual question, they usually answer honestly. If I get a yes, then I just say “Great, do you have email…” and go into the “3 Minute” technique you’ve read about in my book or other newsletters.

The key here is not to ask like you’re afraid, nervous, etc. It has to come across like you’re asking what time it is. Imagine that you’re asking your best friend what time it is… what tone of voice would you use? It would be cool, casual, and straightforward. Try this one, you’ll like it. Now go buy my book and learn what to do after you get the numbers!

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

Dear David D.,

You are right on (regarding how to completely turn a woman OFF). So tell me… if someone is smothering me, how can I turn HIM off?

I can’t stand it. He’s calling me pumpkin. He got to tell me he loves me, every five minutes (I don’t respond). He’s constantly in my face. He thinks I like it when he grabs me every five seconds (I’m disgusted!! And I say so!!!!!!!). He thinks he’s moving to my new town with me (not invited – not even close). It somehow escapes him when I tell him, no.

He even insists on carrying my cell phone from car to door! He knows I hate it but he takes it right out of my hand because he believes he “should” do that for me.

I think he’s intelligent enough, but a psycho when it comes to me. I have only known him six weeks and by the third day, he was asking me to move in (NOT).

My friends have told me to run. I would but he’s perfectly fine except for the attention he pours on me. If there’s something I could do to curb this, I would. He’s not listening. I’m constantly plotting to avoid him because of this. He’s driving me completely insane. I can’t stand it. PLEASE HELP!!!

L.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, have him go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com and get a copy of my book. No, really.

I’ve included this because I want to make an important point: THIS GUY THINKS THAT HE’S BEING A PERFECT GENTLEMAN, AND THAT WHAT HE’S DOING SHOULD BE MAKING HER FEEL ATTRACTED TO HIM.

But because he’s doing what makes logical sense instead of WHAT WORKS, he’s causing this woman to feel repelled to the point where she’s “constantly plotting to avoid him…”

Here’s the recipe for success:

9 parts teasing, playing hard-to-get, acting Cocky & Funny, and 1 part being nice. If that doesn’t work, decrease niceness to 1 part in 20.

In the beginning of a relationship, a woman is FAR more likely to feel ATTRACTED to you if you are NOT smothering her with attention.

As far as your situation is concerned, I would seriously tell this guy to get my book, and to stop acting like a wuss. Good luck.

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

I read your ebook and it’s truly helped me very much. I’ve become more cocky and funny and from time to time I’ll pattern or tell stories to add more dimensions. And it’s worked very well.

But I have a question for you. I’ve observed that most, if not all, of my successes come unplanned or unexpected. The ones I’ve told myself to consciously work on all in some way ended in some disappointment. What’s your take on this? And a more general question for you. What do you think to you are the key factors to success (meaning achieving a goal)? much thankx.

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

As far as success in general is concerned, read “Think And Grow Rich” by Hill. It’s all in there.

As far as your successes coming “unplanned”, I have some thoughts…

You mentioned that you’re acting more Cocky & Funny in general. If you embody the qualities that are naturally attractive to women, then THE CONTENT DOESN’T MATTER. You can talk about anything, and it will work. I’ve found that I can make women feel attracted to me now just by teasing them and busting on them. I have women ask me out without them knowing ANYTHING about me…

You see, if you have an agenda, other people can usually sense it. They pick it up in your subtle body language.

When you’re teasing and acting Cocky & Funny, a woman says to herself “This guy obviously isn’t just trying to pick up on me, because he’d never say some of these things if he were…”

And the more you do it, the more fun it becomes, and the more you don’t have an agenda… and the more attractive you become. Keep up the good work.

And remember: Be ATTRACTIVE, NOT JUST INTERESTING.

***COMEDY EMAIL OF THE WEEK,
The longest sentence I’ve personally ever read (and it was longer before I edited it!***

hey David I love what you do to help all of us guys out there your the best and I would like to share a success story well see I have a girlfriend who I am going out with and I admit I am a player and I can get a lot of girls but its mostly from your help that I am so successful see this girlfriend of mine I have broken up with her three times and she keeps coming back to me and I like her and I don’t want to break up with her but by doing so she gets scared and realizes what she has lost and I take her back but one time when I broke up with her and I got this thing where I can kinda read chicks minds and I know what they want and I knew she wanted to kiss me so I did the kiss test, after awhile she said you know that’s a turn on then I said really I kept looking into her eyes and saw her looking at my lips so I grabbed and I kissed her thanks for your help but I also need your help with something else there is a girl at my school who is really hot but she is like two years older then me… I notice that she glances at me a lot… but I don’t know what to do and how to talk to her cause… she’s always talking to her friends or she’s with them and I cant go up then cause she’s busy and she is the only one girl I cant get, what do I need to do my friend said I should look deep into her eyes and give her a little smile while I walk past her but I need to know if that’s a good Idea cause I don’t want to mess up and not get her so please help me out thanks man your the best…

>MY COMMENTS:

Go to English class more… I had to stop reading and take nine breaths while editing your question! lol…

OK, if I were you, I’d walk up to her and say:

“Hey, I don’t have time to talk, but do you have email?”

If she says yes, then get it, and email her this:

“Hey, what up? I’ve heard that you’re cool, and I think that we should be friends. Write back.”

Then tease her a lot… she’ll love it.

If that doesn’t work, then write me another 25 line sentence and I’ll see what I can do.

***QUESTION***

I am not tall and I am not short. I’m 5′ 7″ with an athletic build. Sometimes I see women whom I consider very attractive that are taller than me. From my past history I have noticed that MOST women do not want to date men shorter than themselves. In many cases women want to date men considerably taller than themselves, taller than I am.

Is there some strategy to getting past the height thing. I know confidence can conquer almost all but I have been turned away so many times by a taller woman that I don’t even try anymore. I am not attracted only to taller women, I just come across some, just like any other woman, I would like to get to know and possibly ask for a date.

J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question! Here are my thoughts…

I have a friend that is about 5’5, and he is ALWAYS surrounded by hot women… he even has a reputation as being the guy that always has ten hot women with him every time he’s out.

I am currently dating a woman that is taller than me (she’s the single most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in my life, and yes, she usually prefers taller men).

I also have another friend who’s about 5’6 or so that only dates models and women who look like models (and yes, they are often taller than him).

What’s the deal?

Here’s what I think you should do: Make it her problem instead of yours.

If I meet a tall woman that I think is attractive, I will immediately take the mindset “I don’t usually like women that are taller than me, but I’ll make an exception for this one.”

Then I figure out how to communicate this to her…

I might start talking to her, then say “Well, at first I wasn’t going to come over and talk to you because I don’t usually date women who are taller than me… but I’m glad that I talked to you, because you’re fun…”

YOU HAVE TO COMMUNICATE THAT YOU’RE THE ONE WHO’S MAKING THE EXCEPTION! Or, if you want to really give her a hard time, you could make her laugh and have fun with her, then say “Well, it’s really too bad you’re so tall…” then give her a hard time and mention how if she were only a few inches shorter you’d ask her out…

Are you with me? Don’t imagine limitations for yourself, and don’t let her limitations be yours.

And if you’re reading this and saying “Well, this isn’t my problem”, realize that this can be used in ANY situation where you think that a woman has a certain “type” that she’s attracted to….

And by the way… if you’re reading this right now and you REALLY get a world-class, complete education in how to attract women, then I’d recommend you invest in my eBook, Double Your Dating, and sign up for my free Dating Tips Newsletter. In them, I explain the most advanced concepts available anywhere in the world on meeting and dating women.

David DeAngelo is the author of “Double Your Dating – What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women”, and has taught thousands of men how to be more successful with women and dating.
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· The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a girl that leaves her eagerly waiting for more… and… gets HER to make the next call – Double Your Dating pg. 56

· How to give a woman that same feeling of “I have to have him” that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself – Double Your Dating pg. 12

· The thing almost all men do to try to keep a chick interested that actually repels her twice as fast… and often drives her into the arms of another man – Double Your Dating pg. 14

· A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach a chick in any situation without getting nervous and without fear of rejection – Double Your Dating pg. 26

· A psychological tactic “regular” guys can use to make a girl ALWAYS choose them over a guy who is better looking or makes more money – Double Your Dating pg. 15

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· The “mixed signal” women give in the bedroom that throws off 99% of all men… leaving her unsatisfied. Here’s what to do instead. (Hint: It’s not what she says, but what she DOES that matters) – pg. 61

· How to finally rid yourself FOREVER of those negative “inner demons” that have been sabotaging your success with women your entire life – Double Your Dating pg. 28

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· I read all the books, went to the seminars, and tried everything. It wasn’t until I did THIS ONE THING that it all started to happen for me. On page 29 I’ll share the single most powerful thing you can do to become more successful at attracting women, and why almost no men do it.

· How to find and meet the guys who are the true masters with women and dating and get them to share their closely guarded secrets with you – Double Your Dating pg. 30

· How to pinpoint and strengthen the parts of your personality that make a woman feel attraction for you so you make a lasting impression with every woman you meet – pg. 32

· 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a girl that instantly let her know you’re “in her league” (When she realizes you’re a “rare catch” she’ll do whatever she can to impress you) – Double your Dating pg. 45

· The deadly mistake too many men make when trying to sleep with a chick that all but guarantees they end up in “the friend zone” (If you only read one thing in this book, make sure it’s this) – pg. 34

· What you must do if you want to keep a woman interested in you FOREVER (This is THE KEY to having a long-term relationship with a girl… miss just this one thing and she’ll be on to the next guy before you know it) – pg. 89

· The 19 personality traits that draw a woman to a man like a magnet. Master just 3 or 4 and you’ll have an advantage over most men. Master them all and no chick will be able to say no to you. Here’s how to do it quickly and easily – Double Your Dating pgs. 37-40

· “The Flake Test” – A simple tactic to use when setting up a date that cuts the chances of a girl “standing you up” down to ZERO – pg. 83

· How and why women TEST men… plus… a fantastic way to effortlessly pass every test she throws at you… even if you have NO IDEA that you are being tested! (The best part is she’ll become MORE attracted to you each time, because you’ll be earning her respect instead of losing it) – pg. 43

· The 4 laws of “unpredictability” and “excitement” – What “bad boys” do to give a woman that addictive rush of adrenaline that keeps her coming back for more (Follow these 4 simple rules and you’ll never have to worry about her losing interest in you… or losing her to another man) – Double Your Dating pg. 43

· You can use the internet to meet women just like you’ve used the internet to find this site. In chapter seven, I’ll show you the EASY way to meet more women—right from the comfort of your home.

· The right way to respond when a woman complains about something (Handle this awkward situation wrong and you’re dust. Here’s how to calm her down and increase her attraction for you at the same time! I love this one…) – Double Your Dating pg. 44

· Why the so-called dating “experts” are dead wrong in their ridiculous theories of “rapport” – Here’s how you can create a powerful, instant connection with a girl by doing the exact opposite of what these “wannabe gurus” tell you – Double Your Dating pgs. 45 & 46

· The 9 words that make a chick feel totally comfortable coming back to your place… even if it’s the very first time you are together – pg. 87

· What to do when a chick tries to play “head games” with you that quickly makes her stop and instead focus on impressing you (One of my favorites!) – pg. 46

· My secret hand holding technique you can use to give a girl “mixed signals” that make her curious and excited about you – Double Your Dating pg. 49

· 3 ways to “tease” a woman that—when used together—build up a powerful “sexual tension” that gives her no choice but to make an aggressive sexual advance towards you – pgs. 49-51

· The 4 things you absolutely MUST do before having a woman over to your house (Most guys miss this entirely… and end up paying for it when she turns and walks out the door) – pg. 70

· A fantastic way to strike up a conversation with a chick in a bar or a nightclub that works EVERY TIME – Double Your Dating pg. 53

· The REAL reason why many women are addicted to drama (soap operas, romance novels, and of course, playing games with men) and how you can use this to make her positively addicted to YOU from the moment you meet – pg. 11

· A simple, 7-part mini course that takes you by the hand and shows you step-by-step how to develop an amazing sense of humor FAST… even if you’ve always been the last guy to get a joke – Double Your Dating pgs. 53-55

· Most men are not very good at reading female body language. In chapter four I’ll show you how to read body language that most men DON’T EVEN KNOW EXISTS.

· How to turn the tables on a girl who is playing “head games” with you and use those same games to make HER want you more! (And the best part is that women LOVE when you do this) – pg. 56

· How to get a woman incredibly turned on in the first 15 minutes she spends at your place… without ever touching her! (This will drive her THROUGH THE ROOF with anticipation… don’t be surprised if SHE makes the first move) – pgs. 87-88

· Why most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot when they compliment a woman… Here’s the crucial thing you need to do differently if you want to get results – Double Your Dating pg. 58

· How to use your body language to project unshakable confidence and MASCULINE POWER that makes you appear more desirable than any other man in the room (Your friends will never figure out why the women keep coming up to YOU instead of them) – pg. 64

· An eye contact secret of the “players” you can use to captivate a girl from across the room… even if she catches you by surprise – pg. 65

· The “big secret” no relationship book will ever tell you about chick’s body language (This will help you advance things with a woman TWICE as fast) – Double Your Dating pg. 66

· Here’s one of my favorites! – How to make a girl believe that it’s her that’s ‘picking up’ on you (I know, this one sounds pretty out there, but I do it ALL THE TIME—and women love it!) and I’ll tell you exactly how I do it on page 71.

· My special secret to turning any phone conversation with a chick into a steamy erotic encounter that makes her want to hang up the receiver… and run straight over to your house! – pg. 67

· A simple phrase you can say to a woman that makes her see you as a “psychic powerhouse” who knows every little thing about her… and more importantly… how to please her – pg. 11

· How to use chivalry to sweep a girl off her feet (This is the one secret women wish all men knew… but unfortunately it can’t be found anywhere else) – pg. 72

· My favorite “never fail” way to start a conversation with a woman that works EVEN BETTER on very attractive women (The best part is it gets HER doing the talking… while you just sit back and listen) – Double Your Dating pg. 77

· My proven 10-step formula for meeting women online that you can learn in 5 minutes and start using right away (Don’t be surprised when your friends interrogate you to find out where they are all coming from) – pg. 79

· A “why didn’t I think of that” way to easily find and meet a chick who is exactly what YOU are looking for – pg. 35

· A simple psychological secret that makes a girl TWICE as likely to give you her phone number and email address –Double Your Dating pg. 81

· What to say to a woman when she’s writing her phone number down that guarantees she gives you THE REAL DIGITS … and… a number she actually answers – pg 81

· My proven step-by-step sequence for turning a woman’s phone number into a date… exactly when to call and what to say to GUARANTEE you see her again – pgs. 82-84

· On page 21 I’ll explain how to dress and groom yourself (inexpensively) to attract the girl or women that you want – I even give you specific clothing and cologne recommendations.

· A psychological secret you can use to guarantee a chick will ALWAYS return your phone calls… and fast – Double Your Dating pg. 83

· The 9-word phrase you can say at the end of a phone conversation that sets you up as the biggest “challenge” she’s had in her entire life! (Don’t be surprised if she tries to seduce you when she sees you in person… seriously) – pg. 84

· Why women turn to certain men for dinners and dates and other men for sex (Here’s how YOU can turn the tables and always be the one who makes the choice) – pg. 82

· A strategic move that sets any date off right by putting HER in the position to try to impress YOU – Double Your Dating pg. 82

· Most guys I know don’t know how to get the confidence to meet women. In chapter two, I’ll teach you how to fix your self-image so you can have the confidence to meet women in any situation.

· What to say when a woman asks you a “loaded” question to smoothly and easily avoid it altogether – Double Your Dating pg. 62

· Everyone knows that women love men who make them laugh. Would you believe that I took the time to study comedy so I could attract women? In chapter four, I’ll tell you exactly how to become funnier— and I even give you a set of exact lines to use during conversation to make women laugh hysterically – pg. 50

· My 10-step first date “formula” that GUARANTEES a great time (Most guys mess this up and never end up seeing the girl again… Use this strategy to build her interest to the point where SHE is the one calling YOU because she can’t wait to see you again) – pgs. 85 & 86

· 10 years of studying psychology and behavior has taught me a lot about people. In chapter one, I’ll give you a specific map of the female mind and how women think, so you can know exactly what you’re dealing with.

· Would you like to know how to attract beautiful women without the benefit of looks or money? I thought so. Starting on page 29, I go into detail and explain exactly how to do it.

· 3 ways “bad boys” use the power of “mixed messages” to drive a girl wild with curiosity and excitement – Double Your Dating pg. 58

· I’ll also teach you all of the basics of how to deal with women, from the first conversation to the bedroom (This is important, as most men have at least ONE area that they’re weak in… I explain it all in the Double Your Dating ebook.)

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