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Important Dating Advice For Men

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Blind date 4/365Dating can most definitely be a complex and confusing concept, but generally only if you do things to complicate it. Although everyone is different in their own way and there are no guaranteed methods of success there are still some pieces of advices that are the most likely courses of action to improve your chances. From the point of view of the man, the following tips are amongst the most fundamental.

Find out about her first

It is not always possible to know in detail about the person you are dating but if you have had the opportunity to hear about some of the things she particularly likes and other things that she dislikes then there is no excuse for not having some knowledge. This is obviously very important in the places you will go while you are dating so ask questions to get to know her, but try not to overstep any boundaries.

Make the arrangements

There are certain situations when it comes to dating someone where you can slip up without even realising it. A prime example of this is failing to take the initiative in where and when you will go on a date. Equality is a crucial part of any relationship but there are also times when it is expected of you to take the lead. Leaving things up to her in this scenario is generally a recipe for disaster and extremely unlikely to give her a good impression of you.

Pay attention

Establishing a relationship where you both have the same amount of input is what you should strive to ensure but certain situations call for a different approach. Even though you may be best served taking control sometimes there are separate occasions when it is good to allow her to have more of the focus. If she is telling you all about something (maybe it is what she does for a living or how she feels about a certain issue) then give her your undivided attention but also take the opportunities to give her something back with your responses from time to time. When you are out on a date never get distracted for a sustained period of time because it will make her feel insignificant.

Take care of the bill

If you have had a good time together then make sure that you leave the place you have been to in the right manner. Take it upon yourself to pay for the bill but take care not to be overbearing about it.

About The Author:

Jason Edmonton thought he’s never have the happy, long lasting relationship he was looking for until he met Jennie on singlesolution.com three years ago.

Five Things To NOT Do This Valentine’s Day; Seriously, Don’t Do It

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Happy Valentine's Day!There are almost as many lovers of Valentine’s Day as there are haters. Lovers say it’s a day to remember your loved ones, haters say it’s a day for chocolate and flower companies and fancy restaurants to make a killing. Whichever side of the divide you belong to, this article isn’t about why Valentine’s is great or not. It’s just a chilling warning not to do some dumb stuff during Valentine’s Day. This is of course targeted at those who actually care about the day at all.

Break up with your partner

On the scale of dumb things to do, this is the worst possible. Your partner is expecting some love and TLC and instead they get shown the door. Seriously, this can probably wait for a day, or better yet, happen a day before rather than on the material day. I don’t care how hurt you are or what happened, the easiest way to ruin all your future Valentine’s Days is to break up on the day. Stick it out for a day and then call it, you’ll be saving the both of you bitter memories in the future.

Turn a Valentine’s outing into a venting party

You see the sorry part about many dates that happen on this day is that they are attended by half-convinced people who want to maintain the status quo. Here is someone who has reserved the day for love and intimacy and the moment you arrive at the restaurant, the first thing you start complaining about is all the roses and other lovey-dovey stuff all over the place. Next you start complaining about the prices that have been inflated just for the sake of lovers just like you. Instead of being such a wet blanket, why not just call the day off and stay at home. No one has dragged you to the restaurant (unless you have literally been dragged there) and no one is forcing you to stay either. Put up and shut up and give your date a wonderful experience.

Drink too much a.k.a. get wasted

It’s a Valentine’s date not a frat party. Taking your date out and then over indulging is a sure way of killing the intimacy the event should have. Whether you are a guy or girl, the last thing your date wants is to drag you home when you are drunk beyond coherence. If you must drink, pick another day. A few glasses of wine should suffice for such a day to lift you moods and give you guys a good time. Getting wasted is neither romantic nor intimate. Control the booze and you’ll have a great time.

Take your lover somewhere that bores you/them stiff

Sure, she/he loves postmodern art and can spend hours on end at the museum or art gallery just poring and poring over various artistic minutiae. You, on the other hand, got bored the moment the plan was made and you end up gritting your teeth through it all. No can do.  Dates are about doing things that you both find interesting and entertaining. If you don’t feel that art, voice it beforehand so you can adjust the plan accordingly. There is no prize for playing a martyr in such situations, just an opportunity to become irritable and ruin the entire evening.

Cook up a storm, literally

Guys and girls alike fancy a partner who has some descent cooking skills. Whipping up a tasty meal may just be what will increase the level of intimacy you and your partner have. But with cooking, same as many things in life, good intentions are just that, good intentions. There is no amount of good intentions that can cover for a lousy meal. If you can’t cook, either find someone to cook for you in-house or make a reservation at a fine dining restaurant; your beau will thank you for it later. There is no shame in not being able to cook; there is shame in faking you can cook and then blundering to some disastrous results.

Guest post by Scott Ryan, writing for Call Mum

4 Styles That Women Can’t Get Enough Of

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Chad Buchanan by Ryan AbelWhilst fashion trends come and go, there are some styles that never fail to hit the spot when it comes to impressing women. If you are struggling with what look to go for this year, take inspiration from these tried and tested styles guaranteed to spark interest in you wherever you are.

1)      The Dapper Gent

Being dapper simply means to be neat and trim, a look that never goes out of fashion. Tailored jackets, smart trousers and fitted shirts are always an absolute winner when looking to attract the attention of a beautiful woman, so invest in a few dapper pieces to make a great first impression. Avoid jeans (go for chino style trousers instead) and make sure your hair is styled, finishing with a couple of days’ worth of stubble for that edgy finish to perfect the look.

2)      The Stylish Geek

The term “geek chic” is massively overused, but with good reason as it really is the best way to describe this trend that has women falling at the feet of the alternative. Think dark rimmed glasses, side swept hair and vintage clothing and you have grasped the essentials of the look. Fitted cardigans and a vintage military style coat in unusual colours are a sure-fire way to grab the attention of women whilst out and about.

3)      The Lad

A more laidback look that women can’t seem to resist is the whole cheeky chappy look, which is great news because it means you don’t have to pay a fortune on kitting yourself out for a night in town. The biggest effort to make with this “lad” style is working on your physique. Fitted t-shirts and vests play a big part of this look and therefore your arms, pecks and stomach can be seen so make sure you are proud to show them off!

4)      The Rocker

Not got an Iron Maiden Hoodie and pair of New Rock boots? Don’t worry, you don’t have to suddenly start listening to metal and dressing head to toe in black if that’s not your bag (the days of the greasy pony tail are long behind us). Doc Martin style boots, a leather (or faux leather) jacket and a vintage looking band t-shirt are more than even to give a nod to the style, but if you really want to commit to this look then tattoos are the ultimate way to do so. Unusual and well done tattoos are a women magnet, but remember they are thee for life so think long and hard before you book an appointment!

There are plenty of styles out there to experiment with, so why not make 2013 your year to try something different; you might find that a change of style attracts a different and exciting kind of woman!

About The Author

Sophie works alongside Date Academy, a site with a dedicated Dating Coach in London to help guys gain confidence and find the right style for them with the aim of attracting and dating women.

The Top Practical Skills That A Man Must Have To Impress A Woman

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WomanThere are several traits that a woman looks for in a man whether it’s for a steady relationship or a lifelong commitment. Men’s Health did a survey about what women want and here are the top results.

Earning Potential

Number 5 on the list and with 21% of women voting is the ability of a man to be able to provide for himself and his future family. Being successful in a man’s chosen career is sexy. Talent and goal-achievement are important traits that women look for as they make the woman feel confident that the man they’ve chosen can be a good provider.

Domestic Skills

Women don’t expect men to do all the household chores but they do expect a man to clean up after himself. 23% of women don’t want to be treated like the man’s mother, meaning they do all the cleaning, cooking, etc. for him. It’s important that a man knows how to cook simple things such as rice, breakfast and even one lunch or dinner meal and not survive on takeaways. It’s also a good sign if a man can operate the washing machine and do his own laundry and do the dishes.

Bedroom Action

Number 3 on the list is being good in bed. 35% of the women surveyed look for someone who can take care of them in bed. They said that this is a good sign that a man will also take care of them outside the bedroom.

Romance

Most women are born to be romantics. What woman does not want to be swept off her feet by Prince Charming? Very few men are romantic or show their softer side and that is why a woman gets easily attracted to a man who is very vocal about his feelings for her. They like men who tell them they love them through words and actions. 48% of women agree on this point.

Listening

At the top of the list are your listening skills. Women need attention especially when they are down, they have a problem, are angry or frustrated. They need to vent their emotions either to their girlfriends or their partners. Your job as a man is to be there to listen. You don’t necessarily need to have all the answers or have the solutions to her problems but the simple act of saying that you are there and that you are ready to listen or be a crying shoulder would mean the world to her. Find time to put down your gadgets and be sincere about your willingness to be a friend. 53% of women find this trait irresistible.

About The Author

My name is Sofia S. My website is about love frases.

Enjoy Online Dating Success In 2013

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Catching up on e-mail...Plenty Of Fish

Single and looking for love? There really are plenty of fish in the sea.  Luckily the online dating pool makes it easier than ever to catch one. It’s not easy to meet people if you have a particularly busy lifestyle or don’t have the opportunity to get out as much as you’d like. There’s nothing wrong with that and that’s where online dating sites come in.

Profile Pictures

There are some obvious things that are an absolute must if you are serious about finding a date online. Uploading an image is non-negotiable. Without a picture you’ll struggle to get any responses at all. Studies show that profiles with pictures get up to eight times as many responses. There is still come negativity about online dating though with 69% of people believing that they’re unlikely to find love online.

Tell The Truth

It’s certainly true that users of online dating sites are much savvier than they used to be.  Most users for example can spot lies a mile off. You are far better off being yourself and being honest from the start. Ultimately you’re looking for a relationship so it needs to be built on trust. There really is no reason to lie about your income, job or anything else.

Find The Right Dating Website

Stick to one site. Often you’ll find the same profiles on many of the most popular dating sites so you’re really wasting your time by signing up for several sites. Focus your efforts on one and make sure you create a killer profile. Spend time on the site and interact meaningfully with other users. If eventually you find the sites not for you then delete your profile and sign up for an alternative site that better suits your needs. There are many niche sites about there from standard dating sites to niche dating. There are many comparison sites available to help you right the best dating site for you. Think about what it is you’re looking for and try to find the right site from the outset.

Be Unique

Even online dating sites are a competitive arena. Take a look at other profiles and avoid everything they do. You want to stand out some come up with a unique approach to set you apart from the rest. Everyone talks about their love of pets, travelling or eating out so avoid these topics. There has to me more interesting stuff for you to put on your profile than that right?

Be Upfront

It’s important to be upfront with that you are looking for. If you’re looking for a long term relationship then say so. If you’re looking for something more casual then it’s equally important to be upfront from the start. You’ll save yourself so much time and meet partners who are looking for the same thing as you. It can be disheartening to date people who don’t have the same goals as you and if that’s the case then maybe your profile could be the problem.

Ask For Help

It’s often a good idea to ask your friends to help you build your profile. They know you better than anyone and it can be hard to talk about yourself. You should try to keep your profile updated with new hobbies and interests and be sure that it reflects you accurately. Following these simple guidelines will hopefully get you on track to a successful online dating experience.

About The Author

Written by Sam Chapman owner of Top 10 Dating Reviews providing ratings and reviews of the best online dating sites. Follow Sam Chapman @Top10DatingUK.