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Love SMS – Text Appeal for Valentine’s Day

January 16, 2014 By GetTheGirl

For a long time, Valentine’s Day has marked a two-way exchange of love notes in the form of Valentines. However, time has changed and so has the mode of expressing love on this day. The era of romantic greeting cards and love letters is dwindling, being replaced by electronic media, especially easy to use love SMS. If you don’t know yet, an SMS is a short message service normally done through your cell phone. It’s a new way of expressing love. Read on and know how to make your Valentine’s Day rock.

First note that there are many types of SMS but not all of them are romantic. With Valentine’s Day approaching, you may want to consider planning a Love SMS that will make the heart of your loved one beat faster.

But Why an SMS for Valentine’s Day

The beauty of a Valentine’s Day SMS is that it hides and covers us from having to face a person, and yet, tell them how we feel about them. In fact, it is possible to buy an SMS or search for one online that says exactly how you feel about a person. It’s even whole lot easier than picking out a Hallmark greeting card. So, if you are the shy type or the one who freaks out at the sight of the girl or man of your dreams, you will definitely find love SMS hardy, easy and smart to use.

What’s more, you get to send your Valentine love SMS instantaneously and your lover receives it within just a matter of seconds-no inconvenience at all. You can send a love SMS while in a meeting, while eating, while working, on the plane, on the bus and virtually from anywhere in the world. All you need is a phone and good network reception and you will be good to go.

Another area where Valentines love SMS comes in handy is to those individuals who are in distance relationship. You no longer have to feel the gap and distance between your lover and your heart. All you need is to get online and find your lover a cute love message. And when I say “online”, I mean just get to Google, and enter the term love SMS in the search box. Then just like always, press enter and you will be good to go: Flip through the search result page and you will surely get what you are looking for.

In addition, Amazon has a lot of resources about valentine love message. Just go to the site and read online consumer reviews on the various resources and buy the best.

You will get a lot of lovely SMS and even if you are dating someone from another country, you will still get great love SMS that will make your lover feel special and cared for. If you still can’t find what you want, you can always call a friend and ask for recommendations. These will normally be people who have used love SMS in the past and as such, they will be able to point you to some sources that add a lot of value to your love life.

So, now you know how to get the ball rolling your way this Valentine, it all about great convenience, low-cost and staying close to your soul mate with cute love SMS. However, stay safe. Don’t text while driving; you may cause accidents, hurt yourself and other people on the road and your lover may just be among them.

Beware of Being a “Work Husband”

December 31, 2013 By GetTheGirl

The concept of ‘work husband’ has become quite popular these days. The term refers to a special relationship a man and woman share at the work place. Both are actually comfortable with each other on personal and professional terms. In essence, a very special relationship outside marriage or dating. Sometimes such a relationship can pose a serious problem if one of the partners is already married or engaged with someone else.

In order to make this relationship work, it is necessary that you make it clear, and precise. It is always recommended keeping it within the friendship zone, or else it might create a problem for both of you. Sharing ideas and viewpoints is not a bad idea, but it is equally important to set a boundary for the same. This will save you from lots of hassles, which otherwise are faced by couples who indulge into such a relationship. This rule is exclusive for that spouse who is already married or into another relationship.

Keep away from private life:

It takes two to have an affair at work. It only takes one to stop it.

This is one of the biggest mistakes that such “couples” commit. If the relationship is just a friendship, then, it is suggested that you can be open about the relationship and she can talk about it with her boyfriend or spouse. You can do so with your colleagues so that they would take your relationship in the right manner. If either of you are hiding anything serious about your work relationship, that is a definite signal something is a miss and you have exceeded far off in a relationship. In this case, you need to be aware and prepared of the consequences.

Limit your friendship:

If she is married, it is necessary to set in some boundary, as it will save you from any unwanted hassle and issues. It’s always recommended that you don’t share all or private information with her because you will be inviting her into your personal life. Your girlfriend or other “girlfriend” type relationships will be hindered. Editor’s note: We feel it is our job not only to help you get the girl of your dreams, but keep her! Things like how happy and unhappy you are with your girlfriend is something that you need to keep to yourself – discuss it with her, not your “work buddy.”

Author:

The author is an experienced writer and is working with Love Wale. In this article, he has clearly stated the points that have to be thought about while developing a relationship at the workplace.

Watch out for Her Unspoken Pet Peeves

December 28, 2013 By GetTheGirl

Many men may not be aware of what it is that women look for and how to present the best appearance when seeking to connect with a woman in today’s dating scene. Just as important as what to do, how to look, etc., however, can be what not to do and how not to look. For instance, you might have had a relationship go sour early on and have no idea why, especially when everything seemed to “click”. The point is that many things may have been clicking with her too, but something got in her craw, and drove her a way. It may be too late this time, although if you really liked this girl, try it again with some modifications – leave out these “unspoken” pet peeves. Here are a few tips on what women consider their worst pet peeves will provide an insight into what works and what doesn’t work in today’s dating world.

Looking at other Women

Number One on a women’s worst pet peeve list is looking at other women when you’re on a date with them. Although men are visual creatures whose eyes follow attractive people instinctively, you should learn to curb this automatic response carefully if you want to make a favorable impression with the women you’re dating. So get your head on straight and look forward at her. If you happen to look away, as men tend to do in normal conversation, and catch a glimpse of an attractive woman, keep that head moving – and don’t stare. Go to the thinking mode and look up. The thinking mode is “thinking about the one you’re with!”

Forgetting Your Manners

Good manners are important in every area of life, but men sometimes suffer lapses in manners when they are nervous or in casual situations such as sports events or especially in social groups with other men around. Simple gestures such as please and thank you, holding the door for, listening attentively to her conversation, keeping your voice volume in check, avoiding rough language and generally being low-key can assure your date that you can go anywhere and be socially acceptable. If she wants to be a little loud and boisterous, let her, this is not a competition.

Personal Grooming Lapses

We’ve said it before, and it needs to sink in: Not tending personal grooming is one of the biggest pet peeves most women hate. If you don’t look well-groomed and personal, she will have a difficult time looking past it to the shining person within. Clean skin, well-cut hair and stylish clothing are some of the physical characteristics women notice. Clean and tidy facial hair is critical to creating a good impression.

Relationship Histories

Women find stories of bad behavior and heartache a real turnoff, and it may have them beginning to wonder about your part in the breakup. Keep any tales of woe for a time when the relationship has grown deeper, and you can be assured of getting a fair hearing. She may talk about her recent heart-break or a cheating boyfriend, but don’t try chiming in with your sob stories. Instead, give her sympathy and understanding, and move the conversation towards positive things and interests you both have in common.

Overconfidence and Self-Absorption

A date is not the place to show your bold self-confidence or sales technique. You may be a fascinating human being with many tales to tell, but dating is about exchanging information on both sides. Remember to stop and listen, ask questions and respond appropriately. As just mentioned, talk about positive topics, and interests you both have in common. Usually, talking about what you both like will carry the conversation perfectly. This will help expose just how compatible you really are.

Getting Too Close, Too Fast

Every relationship is a dance, and it’s important for men to be able to judge the pace of their partner. Avoid asking overly personal questions unless the women seems open to it. Be careful what you “read” into things—you may be wrong. And whatever you do, don’t “step on her toes!”

April Labarron is a native of Southern California. She has her BA in English/Literature from MSJC in Menifee, Ca. She views her freelance writing, not only as a career, but as her passion. Other areas of interest include; movies, food, singing, soccer, traveling, shopping and a continuous desire for learning. She lives on her own and is accompanied by her Pomeranian named, Elvis. She currently resides in Temecula, CA.

Nine Things You’ll Need For a Romantic Night In

December 22, 2013 By GetTheGirl

While most people think of going out when they think of a romantic date, some of the most romantic evenings happen when you stay home instead. Whether you are working with a small budget or you simply want some privacy, here are eight things you need for a romantic night in.

1. Dinner

If your date is hungry, the night is not going to go well. Luckily, your dinner options are endless and can be from no fuss to a gourmet extravaganza. Ok, you may not be a gourmet chef, so keep it simple with what you do best – even if that is a frozen dinner. It doesn’t have to be super fancy, but if you do choose to cook a frozen meal be sure you arrange it nicely on a plate with your side dishes so that it looks like you put some effort in.

Cooking together will get you working together, close and touching each other.

2. Wine

A nice glass of wine sets the mood for romance and helps calm you both down if you are nervous. Ask for suggestions if you are unsure which kind to get. If one of you doesn’t drink, you can still set the mood with a nice glass of sparkling cider presenting in fancy glasses.

3. Music

Nothing creates a date night atmosphere like the right music. Play either classical music or jazz, both of which are sure to make her feel like a sophisticated lady. Pay attention to the volume. You don’t want the music to be so loud that you can’t hold a normal conversation. Music also provides a good subject for conversation.

4. Candles

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Strategically place the candles to flicker on what you want her to see.

Overhead light can be harsh and unflattering. The soft glow of candlelight will encourage you to sit close so you can see each other. There is an alluring and calming feeling with candles flickering. Romantic!

5. Lighter or Matches

While lighters and matches are not particularly sexy themselves, you will feel really silly if you forget them and have to set out unlit candles.

6. A Movie

Give your date a chance to relax while the two of you snuggle in for a movie. A romantic comedy will get her in the mood for love, while a scary movie will have her clinging close to you for protection.

7. Attractive Clothing

If she is silently checking out your holey socks and ratty shirt, she will not be thinking about romance so make sure you wear something nice. This also includes the clothes that should not be lying around. If you are unsure about how to dress, this page has lots of nice looking shirts for impressing the ladies.

8. Chocolate

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Don’t miss this one! Buy a small variety of the most popular fancy chocolates and give her one or two. If you later find out she has a favorite that is one of the others – surprise her with it!

You will want to get your date something nice, but be careful not to go over the top. A box of chocolates is a sweet gift she will savor. Buy her favorite kind if you know what it is or buy a box of mixed chocolates if you are unsure.

9. Essential Oils

When you have a date coming over. You’ll want to make sure your home is clean and fresh. A great way to keep your home smelling fresh is essential oils. Some people have allergies or reactions to certain store-bought air fresheners so you won’t want to use those and have your date sneezing all night. An all natural way to keep your home fresh is to heat up some water in a bowl and add a few drops of your favorite essential oil. The scent will spread quickly through your home leaving a delightful aroma.

While romantic nights in tend to be more informal in nature, this does not mean that you can do whatever you want and still have another date in the future. While some creativity is always welcomed and encouraged, these eight items are classic date night in standbys that are sure to be a hit and to get you many more dates in the future.

Don’t Get Catfished Online

December 14, 2013 By GetTheGirl

In modern society we have all become very much centered around technology. This technology includes the rapid growth of the internet which has become a great method for finding that girl of your dreams. However without proper investigation, that dream princess you are pursuing on a social media site or dating website, might just be fishing for! Ah Catfished!

The act of making a false, or very exaggerated profile (ok, some slight exaggerations are socially acceptable – and probably anticipated), to “reel” people in for either personal reasons or out and out fraud, is now known as Catfishing. The “bait” people Catfish with can be with all subjects including religion, education, and even things like what entertainment they are interested in.

Why would people want to catfish someone?

Many times it is just so they can grab someone’s attention, but also many times it is what they like to call dating scams. If they have an eagerness to establish a relationship, or their grammar is rather poor, then those are good signs they are trying to catfish you. Also an important factor is if they wish to meet up with you on a different site than where you originally met them.

There are many people out there on dating websites who are trying to scam you. It is important that you know the facts and information, highlighted in the Have You Ever Been Catfished InfoGraphic from Instant Checkmate to keep from being dangled at the end of a “line”.