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5 Romantic Weekend Getaways to Impress Her

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Soaring off for a long romantic weekend can be just what you and her need to keep the excitement going.

True love is not easy to come by and when it does, be ready to cherish it.  One challenge in any relationship is keeping it passionate and exciting.  Routine can be a form of security, but also a source of boredom.   A long weekend getaway can take the relationship out of the routine and provide that extra bit of romance and excitement.

The value goes well beyond just the time you spend together for the long weekend.  You will have the memories and pictures that you can talk about literally for years to come.

The next step is deciding where to go.  Here are 5 ideas that will work great or get you thinking on your own.

 

Hawaii

Hawaii is made up of 6-islands and each of them offers its own charm.

Kauai Island-It is ideal place for the adventurous and offers magnificent rugged terrain and perfect coastlines. It is home to Poipu Beach Park. It offers helicopter and boat rides.

Oahu Island- It features in most movies and is good place to go shopping. It is home to the famous Waikiki Beach and Honolulu Beach. It boasts of owning the legendary Pearl Harbor.

Maui Island-It has the best beaches in the continent. It is the least crowded and has luxurious hotels, shopping boutique, and world class golf. It offers whale watching.

Hawaii Island- It is the largest island and less populated. It is home to sandy beaches, waterfalls, rain forests and snow capped mountains.

 Paris, France

Paris is the city of France. Since times in the ancient, it has been a world icon for love. Many couples travel here for weddings, romantic weekend getaways, memorials and anniversaries. While in Paris visit the famous Eiffel Tower and see engineering at its best. For a special walk, visit Tuileries Garden and enjoy natures’ beauty in the middle of the city. Catch a movie at Opera Bastile and enjoy the culture of France. Visit The Louvre Museum to enjoy the best artifacts in the world preserved for you.

Venice, Italy

Venice is a renowned city for being home to the legendary William Shakespeare. The city structures are intertwined with canals making it one of the most unique cities in the world.

While in Venice, you can go shopping from luxury boutiques and shops along Rialto Bridge. For play lovers, visit La Fenice Opera house and enjoy great plays. Iconic places to visit for photos include the Grand Canal, Piazza San Marco, and Dandolo Palace. Also visit islands like Pellestrina and Lido islands by a ferry from the mainland. Venice City is magnificently beautiful and I love it. 

Copenhagen

Lovebirds visit Copenhagen to visit the Bryggebroen Bridge. It is believed that if you buy a pad lock and lock it on one of the bridge cords, and throw the keys in the water, your love will never break. It is a strong belief and locals say it works.

Also, visit Oresund Bridge for photo shooting or just for a walk. It is the bridge that connects Denmark to Sweden. The city is the cleanest in Europe and home to Michelin Star Restaurants. For nature lovers, the city was voted to be the greenest city in the world. Visit Copenhagen for a memorable weekend getaway.

London, Britain

It is one of the vibrant cities in Britain. While in London, visit Buckingham Palace and enjoy the rich culture of the Britons. Visit the iconic Tower Bridge and enjoy beautiful scenery. Take photos at the Tower of London and create memories of a lifetime. Enjoy visiting museums like the British Museums and the Victoria & Albert Museum. If you enjoy modern art compared to the museums, visit Tate Gallery of Modern Art to enjoy the creativity and innovations of Britain. A London tour cannot be complete without a visit to the National Gallery, the Houses of Parliament, London eye and Trafalgar Square.

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How Phone Cards Can Save a Long Distance Relationship

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cartoon of long distance relationshipI have a good friend who met someone from another country.  It was a completely by chance meeting, but within moments they hit it off.  One of the biggest things they had in common upon their initial meeting was they were both learning English.  Now, both of them already had a strong grasp of the language, but they were far from perfect, however, it was the only language between them they could use to successfully (well, mostly) communicated.  For the sake of their privacy I won’t reveal exactly where they’re from, but I can tell you they lived worlds apart, one from Western Europe, the other East Asia.

Over the course of the few days after they hit it off, they ended up spending a considerable amount of time together.  I’ll admit, I was a little jealous.  I really wanted to spend time with one of my best friends before she headed home.  We were all international students and we were all from “somewhere else.”  But, I absolutely did not want to get in the way of a blossoming relationship.  So, I didn’t and over the next two weeks their relationship grew.

Then, as these things happen, they had to go their separate ways.  It was devastating to see both of them scrambling to come up with a way to delay the departure, to come up with a quick scheme to avoid the separation, but there was too little time and the inevitable arrived.  My friend nearly missed her flight on the day of her departure, but through a few tears, they vowed to stay in touch, and they tried.

Today, most people are easily connected through the internet, they communicate by email or through social media and for many it’s very convenient.  Unfortunately, there were circumstances at play that prevented this convenience many of has have grown accustomed to and now take for granted.  So, they had to keep in touch the old fashioned way.  By phone (but not the old, old fashioned way, letter writing).  My friend quickly learned and complained to me she could no longer afford to continue to stay in communication with the person she’d seemingly completely fallen for.

It wasn’t surprising.  Making phone calls over such great distances can be one of the most ridiculously expensive ways to communicate.  I had to navigate it and figure it out during my first year as an international student, and to the uninitiated it was nothing short of a nightmare in terms of the bill I was racking up simply talking to my mother in the mornings.  This was my friend’s first experience with what you might call “international love.”  She’d no doubt blush and tell me to hush out of embarrassment, but she isn’t’ here at the moment, so it’s ok.  Anyway, I imparted the knowledge I had learned over the course of my first year abroad.  Because of the internet, many people don’t think to look into calling cards as a way to stay in touch and keep costs low.  They assume that because international calling is so expensive, they should be avoided.

old operator

Calling cards have brought telephone communication around the world a simple process.

In the past, this was generally true, but due to the highly competitive nature of the industry, as I’ve learned, costs have dropped enough to make it practical.  My friend was out of touch with her burgeoning love interest for nearly a month before she was able to get back in touch thanks to phone cards and let me tell you, she had panic attacks, afraid she’d assume the lack of communication meant she was no longer interested.  Luckily, they were able to develop their relationship further, and unlike many long distance relationships, they stayed together, yet apart.  Eventually, these two were brought back together and I’ve watched, not as jealous as I once was, as they spend every waking moment and many a-sleeping moment together.  They’ll have to go their separate ways again soon, however, but I know, just as much as they know, they’ll be able to keep in touch (and still afford to go to school!), and have a very bright, love-filed future.

Post Script: While they’ve had success using phone cards, there are a few things to keep in mind.  First, not all calling cards are created equal.  Since it’s such a competitive industry, many unsavory individuals and companies have sprung up to take advantage.  If you can, do research on a calling card or service before purchasing it.  This is where the internet can be your best friend, since you can search for the card and find user experiences and reviews.  Luckily, my friend had me in the place of the internet to do the research for her and make a recommendation, so if you know someone who communicates internationally and makes phone calls, hit them up for information!

Andrei Milosevic is an international student, traveler, and writer.  Over the past few years, he has been studying international business and providing advice and insight into international calling.  In his free time he kayaks and Skypes with his best friend back home in Serbia.

Warm Weather Date Ideas

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Summer Date Ideas- How to Take Advantage of the Warm WeatherSpring may be the season of love, but summer can be just as special for romance. Take advantage of the warm weather and check out these fun date ideas to share with your significant other during the sizzling summer months.

1. Go to a ballpark to watch a game

Baseball is the perfect spectator sport for both men and women of any age, even those who are not big sports fans. It is not the kind of sport that requires constant attention, so you and your date will be able to keep a relaxing conversation going. Tickets for a game are affordable and the cuisine is relatively inexpensive. The ballpark allows for a lazy summer afternoon full of fun.

2. Visit a winery

Sitting among the vineyards and sampling the finest of wines is perhaps the most romantic way to spend a summer day. Tour the winery, learn about how wine is made, taste some of the winery’s latest, and maybe even purchase a bottle to bring back home. Wine tastings at wineries are not as costly as you would think; they typically cost under $10 and some are free. Even if you are unfamiliar with fine wines, chances are you will become a fan after the visit.

3. Go to a food festival or fair

Instead of being limited by a menu in a restaurant, go to a festival where the sky is the limit and you can try all the foods! You and your partner will enjoy hopping to each booth and sampling what the diverse styles the local vendors offer. From barbecue food to the best frozen yogurt around, everyone is guaranteed to find an item to suit their tastes. Nothing is more fun than feeding each other tasty bites!

4. Get out on the open water

If you live anywhere near a body of water, chances are you know someone with a boat or have one yourself. Bring along a couple fishing rods and bait, and spend a lazy day bobbing along in the waves. If things steam up, just hop off the back for a quick dip to cool off. Tubing and water skiing are great options too, if you are feeling adventurous. So gas it up and head out into the summer breeze!

5. Plan a picnic in the park

Dining at a restaurant can be expensive and cliche. For something a little outside of the box, grab a basket, cooler, and blanket for a romantic picnic. You could prepare something in advance, or simply toss in the makings for a sandwich and fresh fruit. Curl up together and enjoy the sunshine while relaxing in your favorite park.

The season is quickly fleeting, so grab your sweetie and try out these ideas to heat up your summer!

Brionna KennedyBrionna Kennedy is native to the Pacific Northwest, growing up in Washington, then moving down to Oregon for college. She enjoys writing on fashion and business, but any subject will do, she loves to learn about new topics. When she isn’t writing, she lives for the outdoors. Oregon has been the perfect setting to indulge her love of kayaking, rock climbing, and hiking.

The Art of Surprising Your Significant Other

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Confused manAlright gentlemen, here’s the deal. We love being with you, we love spending time with you, and we love when you take us out for our weekly date night. We know that your intentions are good, and your heart is in the right place even with the monotonous “whatever you want to do honey” in deciding what to do on our night out. Pay attention because here is the secret to date night. As much as you think you’re making us happy by leaving it up to us, the truth is we don’t want to be asked what we want to do, we want you to already know!

I know what you’re thinking, and the answer is yes, we are crazy. For someone in a relationship, that should have already been accepted as a scientific fact, and is proven by the given formula below.

[2(X Chromosome)-Y Chromosome=Utterly Insane!]

In all honesty, there are many men out there that will never fully understand the female creature, however it doesn’t hurt to try. The point being is that at the end of the day we want to feel special – and no guys, making us decide week after week is not making us feel special. Same goes for eating at our favorite restaurant over and over again (don’t spoil a good thing).

blonde wearing big red glasses

Yes, we’re all a little crazy!

Contrary to popular belief, keeping your significant other happy is not that hard of task, however nor is it an easy one. For many couples, between work, family, friends, etc., the idea of going the extra mile to please their partner is quite a daunting burden. Consequently, couples everywhere find themselves stuck in a repetitive mundane rut, in a relationship lacking the fire and passion that originally brought them together. Rekindling that fire is not rocket science, and it isn’t painstakingly difficult either – but it must be something that is desired, rather than feeling like an obligation!

As I mentioned earlier, as women, all we truly want from our man is to feel special. Making us feel special doesn’t mean buying expensive gifts or going on extravagant dates. All it takes is a little bit of effort and thoughtfulness to show us just how much we mean to you.

So guys, time to debunk the old dating routine and sweep her off her feet with a surprise night out like she’s never experienced before! The art of executing a surprise date should not be taken halfheartedly, it takes preparation and planning. Additionally, there are two primary rules to carrying out a surprise night out:

Rule #1: Make it special

Isn’t this the point of the whole idea? Basically, what I am saying here is don’t surprise your woman with dinner at the restaurant you went to last week. Change things up and make it a night she will never forget.

Rule #2: Make it a secret

Duh right? I mean it is a surprise date! The confidentiality only adds to the allure of the night and is sure to impress her.
When it comes to planning a special surprise for your significant other, there are three main elements to a memorable night out that every guy should know: Creative, Cute, Romantic. Here are some examples of ways in which you can accomplish these three goals and plan a successful surprise.

Creative

MapTurn the date into a scavenger hunt. Leave a list of items on her car at work and a note telling her to show up to a designated location and time. Each item on the hunt can be something that is either relevant to the date or items that carry sentimental value. By leading her on a wild goose chase around town her curiosity will be sparked and add an exciting element to the night.

Similar to a scavenger hunt, make a treasure map. Leave her clues at different locations around town, ultimately leading her straight to you. Maybe make the final clue a note with a hotel room number. What she doesn’t know is while she was off searching for clues, you’ve been busy adorning the hotel room with rose petals and her favorite scented candles. Hook, line, and sinker, need I say more?

The trick with creative dates is that execution is everything. Sometimes a plan may be too elaborate for one man to carry out. If that is the case, recruit your friends to help you out, the last thing you want is for something to go wrong and ruin your hard work.

Cute

Girls absolutely love to see their man act like a total cheese ball and there are numerous ways in which you can accomplish this feat. The easiest way to kill her with cuteness is to simply dress the part. This is a special night for both of you, dress like it. A nice shirt and tie will usually do the job, maybe even a sport jacket to look extra dapper. Trim the scruff and lose the torn jeans to show her you’re willing to clean up just for her. Don’t go overboard though! More often than not wearing a tuxedo to the local Olive Garden is frowned upon.

flowers behind back

Flowers are always a welcomed surprise!

Flowers! Flowers! Flowers! It is a fact of life that women love flowers. What do they love more than flowers? Being given flowers of course. The simple act of giving flowers is pretty darn cute in itself, however that’s not how we’re doing things right now, we’re being creative remember? There are endless amounts of ways that one could creatively give someone a bouquet of flowers. Remember the scavenger hunt/treasure map idea? Try having the list/map delivered with a big bouquet of roses.

My personal favorite was when my boyfriend took me out to a very classy restaurant and – unbeknownst to me – he had earlier given them a bouquet to bring out with champagne when we arrived that evening. Needless to say, he had me in tears.

Romantic

Wouldn’t be much of a date if it wasn’t romantic right? This is where you can really show her how much she means to you. When most guys think of romance they think of flowers, candles, hugs, kisses, blah blah blah. Not to say those things aren’t romantic, however lots of girls have a completely different idea of romance than their male counterpart.

For instance, one of the most romantic things you can do for your woman is something you hate. Wait what did she just say? Let me explain. Say she is a big fan of Justin Bieber, a real die hard “Belieber”, and you, like most men, can’t stand his music. Nothing will impress her more than tickets for the two of you to see the Biebs when he comes to town, pretty romantic right? I know that this is a very extreme example, but you get the point. Man up, bite the bullet, and make your woman happy!

Alright gentlemen, what have we learned here? That women are crazy? No. They’re crazy about you. They just want you to show them you are too. So whether it’s as simple as dressing up, flowers and/or as elaborate as a full blown scavenger hunt across town- do something special for your lady. Show her you genuinely care about her. Show her you are willing to go to whatever ends to make her happy. Next time it’s date night and your girl asks what’s on the agenda, she will be ecstatic when the repetitive “whatever you want to do honey” is replaced by, “I have something special planned!”

5 Gifts to Make Her Happy

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man gets kiss for giftWe all love giving and receiving gifts, but some of you guys aren’t great at the giving part. A thoughtful gift done the right way will give your girlfriend and your relationship a boost of happiness. Good gift giving shouldn’t be limited to the times when it is expected of you, like her birthday. You should consider giving something extraordinary if you screw up and need to make up for your mistake, or just when you want to show her how much you care. These ideas will make her glow with happiness and score you major points.

Personalize anything and you’ll have a happy lady in your midst.

This works particularly well if there is a special occasion coming up, like your anniversary. Remember to get her something special that highlights what the two of you share. There are many places where you can get your girl a gift that has been personalized for her.

Even if it’s not your anniversary, give her a pretty paper card just because she deserves it. Make best use of your card’s ability to bring happiness by getting personal. This is true for any card you ever want to give, but for your girlfriend try explaining why you love her, why you are excited about sharing a future together or just that you are thinking about her. It will make her day.

Write her a song.

Man playing guitar to girl

Writing a girl a poem or a song is one of the oldest tricks in the book – and it works!

Make this song only for her and about your love for her. This one is a little bit tricky. Not to brag or anything, but I’ve actually had a lot of songs written about me (so they said). For an example of what not to do, consider the time I was at a party and a guy I just met attempted to plug my name into a song he said he “just made up about me”. I could tell it was a tool he’d used many times before. Whatever you do, be creative and original.

Get her a book you think she will like.

Has she mentioned any interests that remind you of books you like? Chances are she will appreciate that you pay attention and probably like the book as well. This also applies to anything that she has mentioned in passing. Did she say that she would love to try a product or service while window shopping or watching TV together? Make it happen for her!

Make a photo collage.

Women love these. Trust me, I know. It’s nice to have pictures around of myself smiling with my loved ones. Make sure there is at least one picture of the two of you together that you can include. Do you have any pets together? If so, get some pictures of those little creatures and put them in there too. Print it out and frame it so that she can always look at the joyful photos.

Take her out on a fancy date.

Couple out on fancy date

Get a table out of the main flow of traffic.

Tell her to wear something dressy and give her the romantic evening she’s been waiting for. I love being taken on dates. The chance to dress up and enjoy each other’s company is often times just what a relationship needs. I cannot get enough flowers given to me or compliments on how I look in a dress, so chances are neither can she. Yes it counts as a gift, a good gift at that.

Take it from me, giving love and happiness in the form of gifts is fun and easy to do. Start with these ideas and you’ll be master gift giver in no time.

Sally Barker has been happily married to her husband a little over a year now. When she isn’t writing about relationships, she loves to read Stephen King novels, go camping and relax in the great outdoors.