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What Your Image Tells Your Date

March 9, 2014 By GetTheGirl

Whether it is the car you drive, the way you eat your food, drink your drink, or the way you dress, women are always observing and making judgments on you and who you. In this particular article we will discuss what your clothes could be telling the women that you’re going out with.

Keep is somewhat Casual

Unless you’re going to a symphony, or an opera, you’ll probably want to leave your suit in the closet. If you wear a suit within the first couple dates that you go on, and you’re not going to Phantom of the Opera on Broadway, you’ll put off the image that you are uptight and hard to get to know. Women want someone who can make them feel comfortable and allows them to be themselves. If you’re wearing a suit, most likely they’ll feel under dressed and uncomfortable, which can lead to lack of conversation etc..

That being said, keep “casual” within reason. You generally don’t want to show up in gym shorts and a tank top unless you made plans to do something active outside. Whether you’re going for the skateboarder look and you wear something like Jack & jones coloured chinos rock that look, but make sure you’re clean and put together.

Footwear Choice

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You check out what a girl’s wearing – she does the same. So check out what you’re wearing before she does…

Are you socks in sandals guy? Don’t be, women really do notice what is on a man’s foot. You don’t have to have the cleanest, newest, most expensive shoes out there, but if you’re wearing your gym shoes from high school that have duct tape on the sole, or mud from the construction site on your boots, you’re not putting off the best image. Shoes can show women your true sense of style and identity, so choose your footwear carefully.

Grooming Tips

It’s not just your clothing that women notice. Do you have long dirty fingernails? Do you have a neck beard blends into the finely knitted sweater? These things may seem like common sense, but you’d be surprised at how many woman complain about going out with someone who smells, or has dirt under their fingernails. These things can tell a woman a lot about how other aspects of your life are. If your facial hair is not well-kept or you stink, they might assume that you don’t have a good job, or even a job at all! Take a shower, comb your hair, clip your nails, and show women that you care about them enough to care about your own appearance.

 

Be Yourself

Whether you’re a skateboarder, businessman, gym rat, or a construction worker, women want to get to know who you really are. They understand that every man has his own sense of style and look about him, but they also can tell the difference between someone who cares and who doesn’t. Most of this stuff is common sense, but its these simple little things that sometimes end up going a long way when it comes to winning her over.

Filed Under: Articles, Dating Tips Tagged With: Clothes

How to Flower Her with Flowers

March 8, 2014 By GetTheGirl

flower-her-smallShowing your girlfriend that you believe she’s the “one” without being too obvious or proposing on the spot takes time and energy. Rather than simply telling your girlfriend that you love her, you need to make sure that you are saying “I love you” in a variety of ways. Each of these ways is not a play to make sure your girl knows how awesome you are. These are all ways that you show your girl how awesome she is so that she never forgets.

1. Flowers, Whenever

Every girl loves to get flowers on random occasions. Yes, flowers on birthdays and Valentine’s Day are great, but girls who get flowers at the office on a random Tuesday feel loved and realize that you are thinking about them. Girls should never have to guess if they are “the one,” and having random flowers coming to her door is a good way to let her know easily.

2. Flower Arrangements

Flowers in a bouquet are one thing that is very romantic and nice for girls to experience. However, girls should also feel special when they come over for dinner. Setting up a complete table service with a gorgeous flower arrangement in the middle of the table is a way of telling your girl how amazing she is just by the setup that you have put together. Not all flower arrangements are the same, and many of them are less romantic and simply beautiful. However, the sentiment is romantic, and that is a good thing.

3. Flower Petals

Setting up a romantic evening for your lady is a very important thing. Yes, people want to live their lives and be “normal” most of the time, but the use of flower petals to set the mood on a romantic evening is something a woman will appreciate. When she sees rose-petals-couplerose petals leading to a romantic dinner or up to the bedroom, she knows that a great deal of extra care was put into the setup that she sees.

4. Add Something Extra

Maybe you came by a quality florist like Breen’s Florist, and realized that there were more than just flowers. Getting a girl a teddy bear holding a box of chocolates, of having the teddy bear hold the flowers, is just another way to put a little bit of extra thought into how you present gifts to your girl. It’s always the thought that counts.

5. The Single Rose

single-rose-blondeGuys who come by and pick up one single rose to accompany a card to put on their lady’s dash or nightstand in the morning are going the extra mile. This is one of the best ways to surprise her and remind her how special she is to you.

Regardless of how you use flowers to let your lady know that she’s amazing, it will say “I love you” in deed rather than word.

Filed Under: Articles, Dating Tips, Featured Tagged With: flowers, Roses

How to Date As a Single Parent

March 8, 2014 By GetTheGirl

single-dad-datingDating can be challenging at any time but it is an entirely different game when kids are involved. While it is important to have a great dating life, it is even more important to make sure that your children don’t get hurt in the process. 

Keep Your Dating Life and Family Life Separate

You need to establish yourself in a committed relationship before you involve your children. You don’t need to introduce your kids to every person that you meet. You definitely don’t want to risk having them bond with a person who might only be around for a short time.

You need to get to know your partner well before they become a part of your family life. Make sure that they are the type of person that you want to introduce to your kids. If you haven’t talked about your possible future together yet they shouldn’t be involved with your family.

If you are dating online, don’t get out information about your kids. Of course, you should let potential dates know that you have children but don’t give out personal info about them.

Don’t Bring In a New Parent

When you do introduce your partner to your kids, don’t let them play the parent. It may seem like a natural progression to have them fill in the missing role but it isn’t time for that. Your partner shouldn’t discipline your kids or act as an authority figure.

The first few meetings are a time for bond. Allow your partner and your kids to gradually build a natural relationship. Plan low-key events and activities where no one feels pressured.

Be a Good Role Model

Your children are still learning how to build healthy relationships. In the future, their relationships will be affected by what they see from you. It is important to be a good role model for them. If you wouldn’t want your children to have a relationship like yours, then don’t expose them to it. Better yet, don’t be in a relationship that you have doubts about.

This is the perfect time to show your kids what a solid adult relationship looks like. Of course, all couples argue but you don’t need to do it in front of your kids. Keep things positive and appropriate.

Be Honest with Yourself

If you kids can’t get along with your partner, you need to stop and think about the situation. Talk to your kids. Do they have a problem with your partner or are they just feeling uncomfortable?

If their problem is with your partner, take it seriously. Listen to what they have to say. Children can be good judges of character and sometimes they see things that we don’t. Listen to their concerns. If you partner is doing something that makes them uncomfortable, have a discussion about it.

If your children are worried about having their other parent replaced or they feel like they are being ignored, listen to them. Figure out what you can do to put their minds at east. Of course, you need to continue your relationship if you are happy with it but make sure that you are spending enough quality time with your kids. If they are feeling overwhelmed, introduce your partner into their lives more gradually.

For more tips on writing an online dating profile and tips for online dating please visit www.DatingProfileWriters.com

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Bad Dating Habits That You Need to Break

March 7, 2014 By GetTheGirl

bad-dating-habitsIf your past few relationships haven’t worked out, it might be time for change. We can all get into bad habits sometimes but, if you are aware of yours, they are easy to break. Take a closer look at your dating style to see if you need to make some revamps.

Are You Always Free?

It is great to go with the flow but there should be more to your life than just dating. If you are free every single night, it might send off the wrong message. Your potential date is going to think that you have no social life or that you just drop your friends whenever you get a date. 

Keep yourself busy. You probably have a few interests so get out at pursue them. Go out with your friends after work. Don’t just sit home waiting for the phone to ring. 

Are You Too Busy to Date? 

You should have a couple of free nights per week to get out and date. If your schedule doesn’t allow for that, now isn’t the time to be dating. Everyone has an overbooked week from time to time but if you are going to start a relationship you need to make time for the other person. 

If being in a relationship is important to you, you need to reprioritize your schedule. Spend a little less time at work. You need to have some downtime if you are going to lead a well-rounded life. 

You Are Too Focused 

Attention is great but be careful with giving too much of a good thing. Don’t message your partner all day long. Don’t stalk them online. Even if you are doing something that you think is going undetected, stop it. It isn’t good for you and it might just end up hurting your relationship. 

You are Never Satisfied

There are a lot of deal breakers in dating and you should have a list of your own. If this list spans over a few pages though, you definitely have a problem. Relax your standards a bit. Don’t get rid of them altogether but keep an open mind. Focus just on finding someone who makes you happy and shares your values. 

You Are Stuck in the Past 

It is easy to unconsciously compare your current partner to those that you have had in the past. When you first start dating, you are going to make assessment on the person but try to keep it neutral. Look at your partner as an individual, not a replica of one of your exes.

Check In with Your Friends 

If you really aren’t sure what the problem is, ask an honest friend. Everyone has a few annoying habits but do you have one that goes beyond annoying? Do you drink too much when you go out? Are you complaining all of the time without realizing it? No one needs to pick you apart but sometimes you just need an outside perspective to make you aware of something.

For more tips on writing an online dating profile and tips for online dating   please visit www.DatingProfileWriters.com

Filed Under: Articles, Dating Tips Tagged With: habits

5 Steps to Successful Dating After Divorce

February 24, 2014 By GetTheGirl

dating-after-divorce-smallIf you’re recently divorced, you might be mystified about what comes next on the dating scene. But while dating has changed, people in general remain the same, and mostly want the same things: companionship, trust, and a good time. Here are five simple steps to getting back in the dating world.

1. Make sure you’re ready.

It might be tempting to start dating again just to spite your ex. Maybe you want to “win” the divorce by moving on sooner, and showing off just how desirable you are. Don’t do this. If this is your motivation for starting over, you may be successful at hurting your ex, but you’ll also hurt yourself and your new partner. If you’re not ready, spend some time being alone and nurturing your relationship with yourself.

2. Meet people for friendship.

There are plenty of groups whose focus is to get out and meet people, but not for romance. Single or married, you need friends, so you should be building your relationships with existing friends and making new ones. Join a club or hobby group that interests you with the motivation to make friends only, and you’ll enrich your social circle. Who knows? You might make a love connection by working-outaccident.

3. Work out.

You should be working on your physique all the time, married or not, but getting back to the gym is a great way to boost your confidence post-divorce. You’ll be more attractive to the opposite sex, not just because you’re toned and fit, but also because you’re health-conscious and confident.

4. Get a hobby.

Developing your hobbies is a good way to focus on yourself instead of obsessing over your dating life or lack thereof. It also adds depth to your personality and helps you meet other people with the same hobbies. Whether it’s skydiving or bird house building, sky-diving-datingchoose a hobby you enjoy and spend some time on it.

5. Go slow.

When you meet that special someone, don’t just jump right into a relationship. You’re used to being paired off, so it may seem natural to get serious with the first person you really like. Spend some time developing this relationship and take it slow, especially if you have kids.

Post-divorce dating can be tricky, but with these helpful tips, you’ll be able to develop new friendships and dating relationships without too much stress.

If you’re still in the midst of a divorce, or thinking about it,  professionals like those at the Law Office of Richard Eldridge can help ease the transition.

Filed Under: Dating Tips, Featured Tagged With: Divorce

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