The men who are the best at picking up women, whether it be by meeting women online, picking girls up in bars and clubs or at the local supermarket – all share 5 key characteristics or a universal mind set that enables them to be so damn good at picking up women.
Here are 5 key dating tips for men that you need in order to elevate your game to the success level that these men have for women.
Dating Tip 1 – Anytime you get shot down, move on immediately – picking up women is a numbers game. Even with the best pick up artists (PUAs) in the world, it’s only a numbers game… if you only play a few rounds, your conversion ratios are going to suck!
Dating Tip 2 – There is no woman who is on a pedestal – No matter how super hot she is, or whether you are meeting her online or in a bar, how much money she has, or what she does, she’s not “beyond” you. Supermodel, topless dancer, famous movie star, or the hottest girl in the bar… it just doesn’t matter. Remove her from that pedestal.
Dating Tip 3 – You are the catch – instead of HER being the catch. Most guys think the other way around when trying to meet women, and it kills your dating game. YOU be the prize. You’re a great guy and she’d be lucky to get to go on a date with you.
Dating Tip 4 – Have a plan, and another plan! Whatever situation you’re in, always have a plan and always know the next step you intend to take. Have your Cocky Comedy lines ready, your pick up lines, and an idea of where you are going to lead the conversation or – where you want to end up tonight.
Dating Tip 5 – Don’t be attached to the outcome – A friend of mine once said that “indifference is the difference that makes the difference.” Don’t get too stuck on any one girl…ESPECIALLY after you’ve just met her. Women will pick up on this, and if you are indifferent, they will start working to get YOU.
Many men, when they first start learning the art of approaching women and meeting women learn dating techniques like a whole box of puzzle pieces… like how to meet a woman, how to get her number, how to kiss her, etc. The dating tips you get need to be fit together, though, in order to be effective in dating and meeting women. It is obvious that you do one and then another and then another, but there are so many of them that it’s easy to screw up.
But if you know how to TRANSITION from one move to the next… if you use a little forethought and plan ahead then everything goes MUCH SMOOTHER.
It can be as simple as this:
If you know that you’re going to get in a car with a woman, decide in advance that you’re going to lead her to the car and insist that you open the door for her. Do it in a casual and nonchalant manner. The fact is, just deciding in your mind that you’re going to open the car door for her (like it’s something you do without thought because you are an ALPHA MALE) prevents an awkward or uncomfortable moment. And by preventing that awkward moment, you prevent projecting that you don’t know what the hell you’re doing.
Instead, you’ll have a SMOOTH interaction with a woman…and that makes it almost “automatic” that you’ll push her attraction buttons. So if you have dating tips, or pieces of this puzzle that you don’t know how to handle, or you don’t know how to transition from one moment to the next, learn how to do it. It will be the oil in the engine of your wicked dating machine!