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DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Cocky Comedy, Getting Numbers and More

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By David DeAngelo

Hey David Deangelo!

I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on what you’ve gained from writing and responding to online personal ads. I’m not having a great deal of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:

1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself and/or your ideal catch be? I’ve heard it said that “brevity is the soul of wit”, but you also want to be memorable, right?

2. When writing profiles, should you stick with Cocky Comedy techniques? I’ve noticed that humor often doesn’t translate well in written form, so I wasn’t sure how to go about all that.

3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that you recommend not posting a picture. At the same time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to having one too many blind dates which ended with me throwing a stick and shouting “fetch!” in order to distract her long enough to get away. Don’t you think that by committing a picture on your ad, women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am I mistaken?

An apprentice,
J.

>>>David Deangelo’s COMMENTS:

You’ve asked some questions that really require more of an in-depth treatment… but here are a few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure out:

1) You’ll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (Unless you’re a master of writing profiles).

2) If you’re going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive single women typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal ads, and it’s very easy to get overwhelmed. You’ll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days… this is why.

3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and funny – using my Cocky Comedy techniques) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like “I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself “Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women…” and then I saw your ad and thought to myself “Hey, here’s a poor, desperate, lonely woman that’s actually CUTE…” so I thought I’d write and see if you’re as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture…”

4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I got an email from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins… and that he’s getting tons of responses from that. I’ve never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!

***QUESTION to DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave, love your book. I have learned more about women in the last two months than I knew in my lifetime. The teasing and using COCKY COMEDY really turns them on. I have known this girl for some time and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said to me “I love you R,” Is it ok for me to tell her I love her too or is it better to say nothing and just smile which I did so far.

R.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Take a cue from Han Solo…Say “I know”.

You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her know that you’re having fun after you say it.
As far as your question of “Is it OK to tell her that I love her too?” I can’t answer that. You’re at a stage that is past our topic here.

I think that love and relationships are great, but since this isn’t the area that I choose to talk about, you’re going to have to decide for yourself.  Just don’t turn into a wussy… that’s bad no matter what.

***COMMENT TO DAVID DEANGELO FROM A WOMAN***

I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women out here in single land, for the creation of Double Your Dating. Out of curiosity, I clicked on a link from (another website) to see what all this great advice was about. just from reading about your “kiss test” I knew you had figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it out that I’m not interested. Honestly, I will fall over and spread my legs for any man that does the right things whether he’s extremely attractive or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I guess that’s your job. Anyway, like I said, I just wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit on in the grocery store by someone who has read your book!

Thanks,

K.H.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, thank you for your letter. I truly appreciate your honesty and directness. Most men can’t believe that what you’re saying could actually be true, but as we both know, it quite often is.  The interesting thing you say (which I agree with) is:

“I would never tell him how to do it.”

In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS OF GETTING HER. Translation for guys: If you don’t know what you’re doing when it comes to women, LEARN.

***QUESTION***
Hi Dave:

I have been reading your material for a few months now. One of the best things I learned about your work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone numbers from women. I have great success at this point. This has also helped my business. I need help in two areas that involve taking it to the next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of these girls is the BEST for me in terms of personality and chemistry. My last relationship lasted a year and a half and did not work because we were always busting each others chops. Secondly, I think there is a point when we just need to stop playing games and be nice to these women… What do you think?

B. NYC

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Well, I’m not the relationship expert, so I’m not going to address how you should choose a woman to settle down with…

But I will comment on your question of whether or not there is a point when you should stop “playing games” and “be nice to these women”. The mind set and techniques that I teach are not my idea of a “short term technique to get laid”. Once you start using the methods, you’ll find that women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In other words, if you can keep up the charming, Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman feeling attracted to you FOREVER.

“Nice” is not a word that you want associated with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren’t ATTRACTED to guys who are “nice”.  Be interesting, unpredictable… even thoughtful and original.  But don’t be NICE. Use Cocky Comedy.

Think about it.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Hello,

Your are the man. I have been using your cocky funny method on girls I already know and see the difference in the way they act towards me; they seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma is that I run out of cocky comedy comments and little jokes. For example I went to the coffee shop yesterday with one of my buddies and there were two cute girls in front of us who smiled at us when we where in line and I looked back and smiled but I had no idea what to say to them or what to make fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I simply had no idea what funny comment to make.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Here’s the answer…

List the 10 most common situations that you’d find yourself meeting women… and list 10 cocky and funny things to say in each situation.  Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so you have them ready!  If you are at the stage where Cocky Comedy doesn’t come “naturally”, then you’re going to have to PRACTICE.

Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY dominate all of the other players around them?  Practice, of course.

Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and start practicing. Practice makes magic.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave,

Because of my job, I am on the road a lot, where I love to listen to your interviews with dating gurus, by the way! Lots of times I like to drive with the windows down, music blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I find myself waiting at a stop light with a good- looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these girls, we make eye contact, others just glance over. Sometimes I’ll drive for miles with the same girl to the side of me. The problem is I never really know what to do next. So I guess what I need are some great David Deangelo dating tips on:

1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2. Once she does what should I tell her?

I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know they’re not looking at that, but I’m just uncertain how to get her attention.

Thanks for the help.

R. in So Cal

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.  I have a good friend who can’t drive up next to a woman without flirting. He likes to “waggle his eyebrows” at every woman he sees.  Next time you’re next to a cutie, waggle your brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old fashioned motion of rolling down your window to her, and roll down yours.

Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it, and say “What’s your number?”

I’ve done variations of this myself, and had some great fun success with it.

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Cocky Comedy – Approaching Women

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Here are some fabulous excerpts from David DeAngelo’s newsletters regarding his Cocky Comedy techniques and how to use them to approach women.

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WOW! Yeah, that’s the best word I can describe your techniques with. I’ve been in situations where I can’t help but smile, or even burst out laughing when I see the magic work… keeping a straight face can be hard just because I never thought it would work so well. Anyway, to the point: I’ve been using the ‘Cocky Comedy you can’t get what you want’ on this girl. Well it was working well, but one instance she was discouraged, and I wasn’t sure what to do. I felt bad, like I broke her or something… I was hoping you could help me with a funny line that would give her, or any other girl alike, a good feeling after they turn around and feel bad. I wanted to make sure and not turn into ‘PUSSYMAN’ to make her feel better. Rather, something to encourage her to pursue me, and give her the ‘it’ll be worth your while impression.’ Your advice seems to have covered everything but this, or I just missed something. Help make it clear. I appreciate the time you put into saving our lives. I think I was on the verge of wasting a lifetime before I was introduced to your work.

F. F. Toronto

>>>David DeAngelo’s response in the Double Your Dating – How To Be Successful With Women

One of the things you need to watch for when you’re learning to be cocky & funny and using Cocky Comedy is GOING TOO FAR.

I’ve seen guys get a little too cocky, while forgetting that FUNNY is a key component of the formula… and then winding up turning a woman off instead of making a woman laugh.

I’ve done it myself a few times…

Just remember, if you wind up coming across as arrogant and hurting a woman’s feelings, you need to change the frame of what’s going on.

Try saying:

“Lighten up… what, you don’t have a sense of humor?”

This tells the woman you’re talking to that it was a joke without you turning into a wussy in her eyes.

Then add more humor.

Women are very adaptable, and if you take things too far, just remember to diffuse the situation quickly and learn from it. Once she sees that you were just busting on her, she’ll most likely bounce right back.

Unfortunately, too many guys will turn into insta-wuss and start apologizing. Don’t do that!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You are more than just the man; you’re the man’s man. I don’t know how the hell you did it, but you’ve done what Freud couldn’t–figure out what a woman wants. Buy the BOOK!!!! There’s so much more to learn from it, including BRIDGES and SEX SECRETS. In Sex Secrets, Dave even teaches you how to transition into the position that woman hate, but men love…DOGGY-style!!!! You can’t beat this. You had better believe I’ve got a SUCCESS STORY.

My cousin (he has a long-term girlfriend) and I wanted to work on our Cocky Comedy routines, so we decided to go to Barnes and Noble…like you said normal places.

NOTE: he went to work on his Cocky Funny, but not to meet women. Anyways, I tell you what: its nerve racking as hell approaching a girl, but each time I went and talked to girl I became more and more confident. I RECOMMEND this to anyone: find a friend who has some balls and go with him…it was good having the support, and we had an awesome time. In the end, my cousin got this hot ass model chic’s e-mail, along with the usually “you’re kind of rude.” (He accused her of faking a cell-phone call …LOL) But whatever, it worked. Anyways, later we met this chic…I didn’t have anything to lose, so I went balls to the wall with the Cocky Comedy. She completely dug it, she was hinting at sex and all that.

PROBLEM: I eventually found out she was married, and like you say, there’s too many women out there to ruin relationships. The point is THAT A MARRIED WOMEN WANTED TO RISK HER MARRIAGE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO SHE FOUND ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!!!! My question is this:

We sometimes found that our jokes didn’t always catch. For example, my cousin walked into Ravegirl and accused the waitress of stealing. LOL. She didn’t quite take the joke, and she got all pissy (Don’t worry he didn’t apologize). How do you hint that what your saying is supposed to be a joke? Should you smile (I know you say to avoid this)? Also, what books other than Comedy Writing Secrets do you recommend? Also, we’re both attractive (I’m getting a 9 at HotorNot.com), thus we have to work on the FUNNY part of Cocky and Funny because chicks assume the cocky part.

PS. Don’t forget to keep us posted on the videos or audio tapes of the seminar. I couldn’t make it.

PPS. Even when we failed, we laughed our asses off. It was great. Just make sure that your partner pushes you to go by YOURSELF to talk to the chic.

–Student in NY, 21 years old

>>>David Deangelo’s Comments in the Double Your Dating Newsletter:

You have some great points here… and I think that you’re going to find your balance very soon.  A quick distinction that I’ll point out to you:

When you’re first meeting a woman, I think it’s better to just get the email/number and leave.

Then, when you email, talk on the phone, and meet up later start being more cocky and funny…

This will probably help you out A LOT.

As for married women… I don’t recommend going there.

A final note: If you’re a pretty good looking guy, you might turn down the cocky, and turn up the funny.

Women perceive good looking guys who act cocky as MAJOR PLAYERS, and too much cocky too soon can backfire on you. Learn the art of the “sly smile”… squint a bit and smile just barely. This says “I just teased you but you didn’t get it…”

It’s great…

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Crash Course on Being Funny – Cocky Comedy Tips by David DeAngelo

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Guys wanting dating advice are always asking me how to talk to women and how to keep the attraction going when meeting women or going on a date.  Flat out – one of the best ways to keep a woman interested is to learn how to BE FUNNY.  I always recommend my readers check out David DeAngelo’s Cocky Comedy course, but this article is going to give you seven tips right out of the Double Your Dating eBook on how to be funny.  Trust me, even YOU can do this!

Alright, so what you need to learn is how to use a few things to make quick, witty comments that will amp up her attraction.  I hear you, though, asking me how a smart-assed remark is going to make a woman attracted to you.  Trust me friend – if you want a beautiful woman, you cannot trip all over yourself like a love-sick toady.  You have to show that you are not intimidated by her and that you can take her or leave her.  A great way to do this and to display confidence is through the use of humor – not class clown humor – sharp, witty humor.

Ok, so on to the tips from David DeAngelo….

First –  You remember Joey from Friends?  Remember how Joey made the phrase “Hi – how are you?” into a sexually laden comment?  Well, you need to start doing the same sort of thing by looking for sexual innuendo in every situation and using that to charge her with trying to seduce you before you even really know her. For example, if she says, “Well, it’s getting late, and I think it’s time I head off to bed”, you say, “Bed? Already?  You haven’t even bought me dinner yet!  What would your mother say?”

Second – if someone gives a really emotional response to something, ask them, “How do you REALLY feel about it?” So one thing she could say is “I just HATE it when waiters take too long!” you ask her, “How do you REALLY feel about it?” Your sarcastic comment will bring out the ridiculousness of the heat of the remark compared to the real situation.

Third – and one of my personal favorites -exaggerate. One thing Tyler Durden used to say is “Whatever you are saying you like, say it is the “BEST ____ EVER!!”  Like, “This is the BEST SHIRT EVER!” ina  really emphatic way.  Or you can also really turn it around on a woman when she is fishing for a compliment, and she says something like “This shirt makes my boobs look too big” you can say “Well, I was not going to mention it, but I was thinking about propping a lawn chair under them to keep out of the sun today….”  Beware – you may get a solid punch for that, but its worth it.  (If she hits you, by the way, you ALWAYS smack her ass).  And if she gets violent like that – keep it up!!  You are doing it right!

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The fourth thing you can do is great.  Say, “Anyway” and look away fast after making a wise-ass comment. An example – if someone says, “That guy looks like a total DORK” say, “Oh, I thought he was your twin – anyway” (look away quickly). Looking away is really important, and saying “anyway” let’s you move into another element of the conversation.  Keep your face straight, too, if you can, that always makes it even funnier.

A fifth tip on being funny from David DeAngelo – try to connect things happening around you to current events in a comical way. If a guy with a pale complexion walks by, say, “Check it out – its Edward Cullen!” If a woman starts talking about how she just bought herself a new car, say, “I hope it’s not one of those you can fold up and put in your purse….” (These may be funny now, but in a year or two no one will get them, so be sure to keep up to date on things!)

The sixth tip – always intentionally misinterpret what a woman says.  If you say, “Let’s run over to the pizza shop and grab a bite to eat ” and the girl says, “Let’s do it”, turn to her and say, “Let’s do it? You mean right here? I was hungry, but I can wait if you insist!”

The last tip is – even if you think you are hilarious, TRY not to laugh at your own jokes very often.  If you can maintain a poker face, it will make each of these situations even funnier and increase the tension.

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You Want to Please Her? Then Tease Her!

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If you meet more women, you get more experience, you get more confidence, you get laid more, and more options open up to you. If you date only a few women, you tend to cling on to each as if she was your saving grace.

So let’s start developing some EXERCISES that will get you on the track to understanding how to meet women at any time and any place. All you need to do is open your eyes and set aside a couple minutes to speak with her, if that. This is going to work ANYWHERE you see a woman, and it doesn’t require you to memorize a list if openers, scenarios or anything else.

Teasing a woman, (like using David Deangelo’s Cocky Comedy) works because it short-circuits her usual reserve about talking to or meeting guys she does not know.  Most women have this “wall” and don’t even know it – it seems to be pre-programmed from birth. Then, when a guy approaches her, for any reason, she assumes you’re picking up on her. It’s what she’s gotten used to.

You have 3 seconds from seeing a girl to when you meet her and say something to spike her interest. If you wait – she has time to turn away, move herself, do anything she can to escape from the uncomfortable situation of being hit on again.

In that 3 seconds, you do this:

Look her over, and spot something about her appearance that you can comment on. Start with her shoes, and work your way up. DO NOT choose a physical body trait (like big earlobes, bubble-butt, giant breasts) to comment on. Especially not her overall attractiveness.

You find ONE thing that you can key off of and say something about that will give you and inroad. This is your ANCHOR. Once you’ve found it, you comment on it to her and smile at her, making strong eye contact.

Example: She’s got bright red shoes on. “Wow, those are … interesting shoes. My sister might like a pair like that. Where’d you get them…?”

Example: She’s got a black denim dress on. “My sister likes dresses like that. Where’d you get it…?”

(If you don’t have a sister, use ‘Aunt’ or ‘Cousin.’ You shouldn’t have to lie.)

She’ll say something like, “Oh, I got it at Macy’s” or something like that. You then nod your head and look at it for a second, as if you can’t make up your mind about it. At no time do you ever throw out the usual nauseating male flattery approaches, like “Oh, that dress goes so PERFECTLY with your cheekbones.” (There is a time and a place for flattery, and it’s NOT in an improvised meeting like this.)

Flattery is the scream for approval of the desperate guy. It’s like cotton candy – sweet for a split second, but disappears almost immediately. You want to dangle the PROMISE in front of her first.

You *almost* convey a look of inconvenience, that you went out of your way to comment on her alligator-skin shoes, or her denim skirt. The less she thinks you approached her out of sexual interest, the lower her guard is.

Don’t be insulting! Just be mysterious and ambiguous.

(Her next mental question is: “Gee, I wonder if he likes my dress? He didn’t say.” )

From here, you will bridge into the Tease portion of the conversation, and we’ll cover that in the next post. All there really is left to do is to keep her engaged in the conversation for just a minute or two, show some confidence, and walk away with her phone number.

Now, the typical question I get is “What if there’s nothing out of the ordinary about her?”

Simple: You make something up. There is ALWAYS something you can find when you look, and if it’s not readily apparent, you make it up. If she’s got clothes on you can find something to pick out. I recommend looking for jewelry, because every woman takes a lot of thought in selecting her jewelry.

For especially attractive women, you need to come on a bit differently, and it pays to use a combination of the negative-hit with this. I even recommend that when you get used to this technique, you use it exclusively on the hotties. When you’re comfortable with it, it makes more impact.

You say just one thing, and it’s so easy you’ll have a tough time forgetting it:

“Your dress/shoes/blouse/jacket/purse (whatever) caught my eye. I like the style, but I think you should try it in black, instead. You’d look better with it in black instead of gray.” (Choose the color accordingly.) You nod your head, again meeting her eyes full-on.

Her head will suddenly spin … “But… but… all the other guys said I looked like a fashion model with this on… What do you mean?”

By using these approaches, you’ve just flipped her trust switch in her head. You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU – or she quickly categorizes you as a friend (FRIEND = non-lover, a woman you won’t be able to sleep with). If you just start talking to her neutrally, she’s wondering, “Is he safe?” For all she knows, you’re a nut-case looking to pull her into a multi-level marketing scheme. NOW, all of a sudden, she is suddenly told (by your words and actions) that you might not be so interested. You’re different – i.e., INTERESTING to her.

For the first week or so, if you’re feeling a bit nervous about approaching women, work your way into this slowly. Just use the intro line I gave you, and take it wherever you need. Hell, I’d even recommend you ONLY ask her the first part (“Where’d you get xxxx, my sister might like that …”), then say “thanks” and walk away. Get used to just chatting up anyone and everyone you meet. Take the pressure off for the first week or two, until you get used to the fact that WOMEN AREN’T GOING TO REJECT YOU LIKE YOU THINK THEY WILL.

You don’t need anything fancy or clever. You don’t need anything special to comment on. You just take WHATEVER she is wearing or holding and comment on it AS IF IT WERE different or interesting. Then, by virtue of following it up with a quick tease, you get her mind off her initial defense (IS HE SAFE?) and on to validating herself a little to you. This is the primary psychological underpinning of the whole “TEASE TO PLEASE” method. And I just gave it to you in a simple, workable format.

What most guys will do is to spend all their energy trying to climb over her initial trust hurdle, when they really need to focus on getting her to flip that switch in her head by making HER the one to present herself to you. (This will be more apparent when I explain the Tease portion in our next installment.)

Most guys will take any approach and shoot it down and find everything they can about what’s WRONG with it before they will go out and use it and make it work. My advice to you is to prove it won’t before you even think about coming back to me with a rebuttal. I know that I’ll get scads of letters asking me what to do in X situation or Y situation, because they’re ‘different’ somehow, but it makes NO difference. You only have to spot one anchor on her to comment about. I use it all the time, and it is very effective.

Just remember to keep things light and humorous, and never to insult.

ANYTHING can work, if you just use it in the right way. I just gave you the first half of a technique that works ANYWHERE, ANYTIME. On ANY woman. The best part about it is that it is simple, universal, and effective. All you have to do is to find your target, find an anchor, and start your Tease … (but only to please…)

In the next post, I will cover more tips for approaching women by Carlos Xuma.  I will cover many other focused approaches that you can use as well, from meeting her online, or at a dance class, or at a bookstore, or even Wal-Mart. You’ll also get the complete breakdown of the psychology to the close for the phone number. I’ll tell you where and when to use flattery, and how to mine the rich ore of women you see every day. There’s nothing you won’t know about meeting ANY woman ANYtime, ANYwhere. (I’ll even tell you what the single underlying reason is for a woman’s defense for all men that approach her, and how to bypass it.)

Now, get out there and start getting in the game. You play it from the comfort of the stands.

Stay tuned! It’s going to get good…
I’ll have the last half of this method to you soon.

Are YOU Man Enough to Take a Chance?

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Gambling can be fun at times – playing Poker, betting on horses or football games or even in physical situations like skiing.  Most men, however, don’t particularly like to gamble when it comes to approaching women.  I mean, it’s easier to lose a few bucks to a pal than to lose face when a woman rejects you, right?

Naturally, this leads to guys wanting to figure out a way to meet women that involves no risk.  Well, you can always have your buddies pre-screen every woman you want to walk up to and say hi.  They could interview her!  “Hey – my friend over there wants to know if you are interested in him.”  OR – you could do like I did the first time I ever wanted to ask a girl out.  I sent her a note that said, “Will you be my girlfriend?  Check one.  Yes   No”.

Give me a break, it was 6th grade!

Ok, so maybe those ideas aren’t so great.  In fact, they are downright wussie.  It’s easy to see that, though, when you are reading it in black and white.

My point is, there is no way to meet a woman without taking some risks.  Trying to do so creates a mentality of “average-ness”.  Being average is NOT attractive to women.  Women want a guy who can create attraction for them, and that means being a strong, confident, powerful man comfortable in your own skin.

There are two things you can do to minimize the impact of rejection.  One thing is to use a little Cocky Comedy.  The other thing is to not take rejection so seriously.

Cocky Comedy is a technique for meeting women developed by David Deangelo.   What is it?  Cocky Comedy is technique for meeting women that uses humor that not only elevates attraction but establishes you as the alpha male.  What you do is you start busting on her from the minute you meet.  Joke with her, bust on her, keep her on her toes – and this will create attraction for her.

For example, tell her that you noticed she is nursing that drink like a 2 day old baby.  Or tell her she is going to have to work harder than that to get your attention.  Bust on her clothes, her height (NEVER HER WEIGHT!!!) her shoes, her laugh – whatever comes to mind.  Make it witty.  And after that, you give her a sign using body language that shows her you are interested in her.

So you get it?  You bust on her verbally – then with your body language tell her you are attracted to her.  It works like a charm.

Now – there is always risk involved.  What if you go too far and piss her off?  It’s the end of the world!!  Or not.  I, personally, choose the “not” option.  Remember – YOU are TOTALLY in charge of how things affect you.  Does it bruise my ego when a hot woman rejects me?  No – because I CHOOSE to move on and not even think about it again, because it does not matter.  She was probably a freak anyway!