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Giving Women Intense Sexual Pleasure

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David Shade

David Deangelo just finished up a fascinating interview with a gentleman named David Shade, a sexual “guru” who teaches men and women how to have better sex. He has written a phenomenal eBook called Masterful Lover that is a must read for any man who is looking to give a woman the ride of her life.  In his words… his specialty is “teaching guys how to take a woman’s pleasure beyond anything she’s ever imagined possible… and open up her up to things she is too inhibited to do… but KNOWS she would LOVE to do”… 

 

1. Be The Man She Is Looking For 

David Deangelo’s friend David Shade has a tremendous amount of experience with women… and he KNOWS what they want.  He explained to me that many women are sexually frustrated… not because they don’t have a man… but because their guy just doesn’t know how to please a woman.  Deep down, a woman wants a man who has the ability to “sweep her away”. 

David Shade tells David DeAngelo that she wants to surrender to a man who is PASSIONATE and knows what he’s doing… so she can explore her sexuality in new and exciting ways that she would be too timid to explore otherwise.  If you can become the type of guy who has real a passion for pleasing women, and you learn how to please them in ways that other guys don’t, a woman will stay with you forever… because she knows unusual it is to find a guy like this. 

 

2. Be Passionate, Not Obsessive 

There’s a big difference, David Shade says, between being passionate and obsessive, and luckily for you most guys have no idea what that is… If you look at a woman and think, “I must have sex with her” you are actually GIVING UP YOUR POWER before you even meet! 

This “adolescent” attitude actually scares women away… and I recommend you make a conscious effort to avoid it.  David Shade recommends a far different—and far more effective—approach. When you see an attractive woman you’d like to meet, instead of thinking about what she can do for you, start thinking about the fact that you know how to make her feel incredibly good… and how CRAZY she would be to pass up this opportunity. 

David Shade tells David DeAngelo that you must KNOW that YOU can give her more pleasure that any other man can… and probably more than she could even handle.  When you believe that YOU have the power, you can help a woman explore her own sexuality in ways she didn’t even know existed. 

Women will instantly pick up on this powerful attitude, and it will come across in everything you do. 

 

3. Know What She Wants 

David Shade shared some fantastic information on the 4 things a woman needs to feel in a relationship in order to be satisfied. 

1. She needs to feel appreciated for the unique individual she is… and that her man supports her in all she does

2. She needs to feel a deep, emotional, intimate connection

3. She needs to feel like a sexy, beautiful, feminine woman

4. She needs hot, passionate sex… which includes being seduced, teased and satisfied over and over again… and exploring new roles and fantasies. 

Give her these four things and she’ll be yours for as long as you like. 

 

4. Be Supportive Without Being Needy 

It’s ok to let a woman know how much you appreciate her, so long as you don’t come from a position of NEEDINESS.  Needy guys (David Deangelo calls them Wussies) pour it on too thick.  They put women on pedestals.  And, as you know… nothing drives a woman away faster.  A woman wants to be with a man who is strong, has his own life, and doesn’t NEED her.  

If you come from a position of STRENGTH, compliments and appreciation will light up a woman’s life… because you will be giving them in a way that makes her feel MORE attracted to you.  So remember… she wants to be APPRECIATED… but not NEEDED. 

 

5. Get Her Aroused Over The Phone 

Listen up – David Shade shared an amazing strategy he uses to drive women wild OVER THE PHONE. Here’s how he does it: 

1. He gets into a deep conversation about relationships and emotions, which gets a woman in a highly emotional state

2. He then asks her about what she wants to feel in a relationship… which gets her even more involved

3. He then talks about being alone… he asks he if she feels alone and explains to her how he feels the same way

4. He then asks her to think about how it would feel to be the OPPOSITE of alone… and tells her how he wishes he was holding her close right then and there

5. He then describes in intimate detail exactly what he would do if they were together…  

And the rest is history.  The best thing about getting a woman turned on over the phone is that it gets her to imagine the two of you being intimate before it actually happens… 

This paves the way for the REAL intimacy later on, according to David Shade.  When she sees you in person afterwards, there’s only ONE thing she’ll be able to think about… don’t be surprised if she wants to skip the “date” part of your date and head straight to the bedroom. I’m serious here… this will be the case more often than not. 

Listen to this section of the interview a few times until you have it down… then give it a shot next time you are talking with a woman who is receptive towards you.  Take it slow and easy… and you just might be surprised at how well it works.

 

6. Try New Ways Of Giving Her Pleasure 

David Shade says women love VARIETY in the bedroom.  And one of the biggest complaints women have about men is that they do the “same old” every time.  Most men have a sexual “routine” they are used to. They are comfortable using a certain set of moves and steps because it’s the same thing they have always done and it seems to work for them. 

If you’re REALLY looking to please a woman over and over again, the “same old routine” has got to go.  Repeating the same moves in the same order night after night might work fine for YOU, but remember… women are “wired” differently… and they need different kinds of experiences to continue to be turned on and excited. 

Fortunately for us women prefer to have these different kinds of experiences with THE SAME GUY… but if you don’t give them to her, she very well may look elsewhere.  On the other hand, if you do keep things exciting in the bedroom by mixing it up so she never knows what to expect, chances are she’ll NEVER leave… because you’ll be EXACTLY what she’s looking for. 

So be sure to ALWAYS be unpredictable in the bedroom.  Don’t be afraid to experiment and try out new things. I’m sure you can think of a few…

 

7. Learn Some New Moves 

An easy way to give a woman the sexual variety she wants is to learn some great techniques… especially some that she has never seen before.  In our interview David Shade shared some VERY interesting physical techniques he uses to drive a woman wild, and I highly recommend you try them out. 

Make sure you listen to the later part of our interview a few times, and take some notes. There’s some great stuff in there that isn’t published anywhere else.  That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t get your hands on other material that out there and study it for all it’s worth. Walk into any bookstore and you’ll find a TON of great books on how to please women… many with their own unique spin.  The small time investment you make will have HUGE rewards… of the best kind!  Fortunately for us, not many men take the time to actually do this… so those who DO have a massive advantage. 

Women love it when you pull a new trick out… and when you have an ARSENAL of moves at your disposal… that you can pull out night after night to give her a brand new exciting experience.

 

8. Guide Her Through The Experience 

Women want a leader INSIDE of the bedroom just as much as they want one outside of the bedroom.  Simply put: If you’re letting her do all of the work—or even a quarter of it—you’re doing something wrong.  As a man, you need to take charge when you’re between the sheets. 

Don’t be afraid to put her into different positions, stand her up to kiss her then lay her back down, or start and stop the action (remember… 2 steps forward, 1 step back!).  David Shade made the important point that you also need to guide her through the experience with your VOICE. 

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Accfording to David Shade, men must remember… women like to be stimulated differently than us men… and when you talk to her in a soothing and sexual way it increases her pleasure more than you could ever imagine.  Here are a few great examples David Shade shared that you can start using right away:

 

• Encourage Her To RELAX – Telling a woman to relax and feel totally comfortable while you are giving her pleasure will cause her to enjoy her experience with you a whole lot more.  This tells her that you are in control and you care about her needs… and lets her know that she can just kick back and enjoy the ride. 

• Talk About What She’s Feeling – Say things like, “That feels good, doesn’t it?”, and “I know you like that right there” to bring the experience alive in her mind and add the powerful element of verbal stimulation to your physical actions.  David Shade stresses that this is a HUGE turn on to women. 

• Encourage Her Orgasms – When you feel she’s close to having an orgasm, encourage her along.  This will often be the thing that puts her over the edge. 

David Shade was something else, wasn’t he? 

There’s no denying he knows his stuff.  He’s spent a long time figuring all of these things out… and if you take his techniques and run with them you’ll be LIGHT YEARS ahead of any man your woman has ever experienced before… or will again. 

Your Friend, 

 David D. 

DATING TIPS MAILBAG: Cocky Comedy, Getting Numbers and More

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By David DeAngelo

Hey David Deangelo!

I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on what you’ve gained from writing and responding to online personal ads. I’m not having a great deal of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:

1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself and/or your ideal catch be? I’ve heard it said that “brevity is the soul of wit”, but you also want to be memorable, right?

2. When writing profiles, should you stick with Cocky Comedy techniques? I’ve noticed that humor often doesn’t translate well in written form, so I wasn’t sure how to go about all that.

3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that you recommend not posting a picture. At the same time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to having one too many blind dates which ended with me throwing a stick and shouting “fetch!” in order to distract her long enough to get away. Don’t you think that by committing a picture on your ad, women might pass you up for the same reason? Or am I mistaken?

An apprentice,
J.

>>>David Deangelo’s COMMENTS:

You’ve asked some questions that really require more of an in-depth treatment… but here are a few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure out:

1) You’ll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed by women than you will by placing your own ad (Unless you’re a master of writing profiles).

2) If you’re going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed daily, and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive single women typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal ads, and it’s very easy to get overwhelmed. You’ll notice that a lot of women take their ads down after just a few days… this is why.

3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and funny – using my Cocky Comedy techniques) in your replies (or in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like “I was looking through all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself “Look at all the poor, desperate, lonely women…” and then I saw your ad and thought to myself “Hey, here’s a poor, desperate, lonely woman that’s actually CUTE…” so I thought I’d write and see if you’re as interesting on the inside as you are in this picture…”

4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I got an email from a guy who had his picture taken with some dolphins… and that he’s getting tons of responses from that. I’ve never done it myself, but it sounds like a great idea!

***QUESTION to DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave, love your book. I have learned more about women in the last two months than I knew in my lifetime. The teasing and using COCKY COMEDY really turns them on. I have known this girl for some time and we were mostly friends. Just lately she said to me “I love you R,” Is it ok for me to tell her I love her too or is it better to say nothing and just smile which I did so far.

R.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Take a cue from Han Solo…Say “I know”.

You might throw in a sly half-smile to let her know that you’re having fun after you say it.
As far as your question of “Is it OK to tell her that I love her too?” I can’t answer that. You’re at a stage that is past our topic here.

I think that love and relationships are great, but since this isn’t the area that I choose to talk about, you’re going to have to decide for yourself.  Just don’t turn into a wussy… that’s bad no matter what.

***COMMENT TO DAVID DEANGELO FROM A WOMAN***

I just wanted to say thank you, from all the women out here in single land, for the creation of Double Your Dating. Out of curiosity, I clicked on a link from (another website) to see what all this great advice was about. just from reading about your “kiss test” I knew you had figured it out. I like being hit on by a confident assertive man. I also like a man who can figure it out that I’m not interested. Honestly, I will fall over and spread my legs for any man that does the right things whether he’s extremely attractive or not. I would never tell him how to do it. I guess that’s your job. Anyway, like I said, I just wanted to thank you. I personally hope I get hit on in the grocery store by someone who has read your book!

Thanks,

K.H.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, thank you for your letter. I truly appreciate your honesty and directness. Most men can’t believe that what you’re saying could actually be true, but as we both know, it quite often is.  The interesting thing you say (which I agree with) is:

“I would never tell him how to do it.”

In other words, A WOMAN WILL NEVER TEACH A WUSSY BOY WHO DOESN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO THE SECRETS OF GETTING HER. Translation for guys: If you don’t know what you’re doing when it comes to women, LEARN.

***QUESTION***
Hi Dave:

I have been reading your material for a few months now. One of the best things I learned about your work is how to get e-mail addresses and phone numbers from women. I have great success at this point. This has also helped my business. I need help in two areas that involve taking it to the next level. I want to meet a nice girl and settle down. Firstly, how can I figure out which one of these girls is the BEST for me in terms of personality and chemistry. My last relationship lasted a year and a half and did not work because we were always busting each others chops. Secondly, I think there is a point when we just need to stop playing games and be nice to these women… What do you think?

B. NYC

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Well, I’m not the relationship expert, so I’m not going to address how you should choose a woman to settle down with…

But I will comment on your question of whether or not there is a point when you should stop “playing games” and “be nice to these women”. The mind set and techniques that I teach are not my idea of a “short term technique to get laid”. Once you start using the methods, you’ll find that women respond to them on an ONGOING basis. In other words, if you can keep up the charming, Cocky and Funny attitude, it will keep a woman feeling attracted to you FOREVER.

“Nice” is not a word that you want associated with yourself, in my opinion. Women aren’t ATTRACTED to guys who are “nice”.  Be interesting, unpredictable… even thoughtful and original.  But don’t be NICE. Use Cocky Comedy.

Think about it.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Hello,

Your are the man. I have been using your cocky funny method on girls I already know and see the difference in the way they act towards me; they seem to definitely be more interested. My dilemma is that I run out of cocky comedy comments and little jokes. For example I went to the coffee shop yesterday with one of my buddies and there were two cute girls in front of us who smiled at us when we where in line and I looked back and smiled but I had no idea what to say to them or what to make fun of and they got what they wanted and left. I simply had no idea what funny comment to make.

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Here’s the answer…

List the 10 most common situations that you’d find yourself meeting women… and list 10 cocky and funny things to say in each situation.  Next, mentally rehearse each of the comments so you have them ready!  If you are at the stage where Cocky Comedy doesn’t come “naturally”, then you’re going to have to PRACTICE.

Why do Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods make their sports look EASY? Why do they TOTALLY dominate all of the other players around them?  Practice, of course.

Stop trying to create magic from nothing, and start practicing. Practice makes magic.

***QUESTION for DAVID DEANGELO***

Dave,

Because of my job, I am on the road a lot, where I love to listen to your interviews with dating gurus, by the way! Lots of times I like to drive with the windows down, music blasting and just taking in the sun. Many times I find myself waiting at a stop light with a good- looking girl waiting next to me. Some of these girls, we make eye contact, others just glance over. Sometimes I’ll drive for miles with the same girl to the side of me. The problem is I never really know what to do next. So I guess what I need are some great David Deangelo dating tips on:

1. How do I get her to roll down her window? 2. Once she does what should I tell her?

I drive an average car (VW Jetta) so I know they’re not looking at that, but I’m just uncertain how to get her attention.

Thanks for the help.

R. in So Cal

>>>DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Oh, you can have a lot of fun with this one.  I have a good friend who can’t drive up next to a woman without flirting. He likes to “waggle his eyebrows” at every woman he sees.  Next time you’re next to a cutie, waggle your brows and wave. When she smiles, make the old fashioned motion of rolling down your window to her, and roll down yours.

Finally, take out your cell phone, point to it, and say “What’s your number?”

I’ve done variations of this myself, and had some great fun success with it.

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Cocky Comedy, Approach and Anti-Wuss Material

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***SUCCESS STORY***

Hi Dave,

After reading your eBook, I put many of your tactics into action.  I work in a casino, so I get to meet a lot of beautiful young women.  Once I got over the initial reluctance to ask them for their email/phone number, I started getting quite a few numbers in a night.

The other night there was a woman who was so gorgeous, it hurt.  I walked over and chatted with her for a few minutes, then asked if she had email.  She said “Sure, I do!  Let me write it down for you.”  Without asking she put down her phone number as well.  The younger guys who work for me now call me a “God”.  They have no idea how I can do it.  Better looking guys are complaining that I get more phone numbers and emails in one night than they’ve got their whole lives.  One of the women was classic.

She looked like Sheryl Crow and Jennifer Aniston combined.  She complained she wasn’t winning on the machine and asked me what the secret was.  I said, “I don’t know the secret today, but if I figure it out, I’ll email it to you.  All I need now is your email address and your phone number in case email is down.”  She was taken aback, but asked for my pen and wrote it down.  Now instead of being alone on my days off, I have a lot of options which are all great ones.  Thanks for your advice and changing me out of wuss mode.

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DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

Options are great, aren’t they?  And isn’t it amazing how a woman will give out her email and number if you just talk for a few minutes and then ask for it?  I can remember when I first started learning this stuff…  it seemed to me that no woman in her right mind would just give out her phone number to a complete stranger…

But then I discovered that no woman is actually IN her right mind!  (Or at least this is my logical deduction, because they all seem to give out their phone numbers and email addresses so readily!)  But to get back to the concept of “options”…

When you, as a guy, have options, it changes EVERYTHING.  When you have a great date that evening plus three women to email or call, things are TOTALLY DIFFERENT than when you have nothing going on.

You feel different, you talk different, and you communicate in a different way.  I believe that one of the reasons that attractive women come across so powerfully is because they KNOW that they have options.  And one of the benefits of learning how to be more successful with women and dating is that you learn to CREATE YOUR OWN OPTIONS.  When you know that you can walk out the door anytime you want and meet women, it frees up a lot of mental energy that was previously focused on other things.

Energy you can use to improve other areas of your life…

***COMMENT***

Dave my man,

I’ve been reading your advice for a while now and I have to laugh because I discovered several years ago cocky and funny really work.  I am naturally cocky and a smartass to boot, so it usually worked, but not always.  Then, my buddy told me something that drives ’em wild.  The dude is 6’3” and 300 lbs, and he always had a good looking woman on his arm.  His advice: Show a little interest, then ignore them.  Of course I over simplified it, but you know what I mean.  How many men have said that you can’t pick up women in a topless bar?  I did all the time, and rarely spent any more money than on drinks for myself.  And you can do this anywhere!  It doesn’t have to be in a bar, it can be used in the office, online dating sites, at the park, whatever!

The other guys are feeding the girls dollar bills and getting no where.  I’m just an average looking guy, but the honeys went for it like mad.  You are on the mark and anyone that has problems meeting women should heed your advice.  PS: I love the way you bust on the chicks that write to you and say how wrong you are!

D.

DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

lol…  thanks!

Yes, women really love it when you show some interest, but then don’t hang on them.  Women, and especially attractive women, LOVE a good challenge.  It’s fun for them.  And yes, I do enjoy emails from women…  both positive and negative.  I just wish more women would write me!  (And I wish that when they did write that they’d send PICTURES!  I have gotten a few, but com’mon!)

***QUESTION***

Wasssup!!  I just have to tell ya that I think you’re a dating-guide god to all guys out there who have trouble with women, dating or relationships!  I’ve been reading your free me-mails for about two months now and I gotta tell ya, your a genius!!  I haven’t even purchased the book yet but everything you say makes perfect sense.  So I have decided to purchase Double Your Dating.  I can’t wait to see how it works out.  I have the hardest time meeting women and the bad thing about it is most girls think I’m good looking.  But they think I’m boring.

Here’s my question to you.  I’m not sure about the whole Cocky & Funny thing, how do I be cocky yet not come across as an asshole?  And I’ve really never been the funny type of guy I just don’t know how without saying or doing something that might make me look like a wussy.  Can you help a bro out PLEASE with some classic Deangelo Dating Tips?

DW-ks

 DAVID DEANGELO’S COMMENTS:

OK, here’s the basic formula for Cocky & Funny:

Take an arrogant comment, then add humor.  It’s a killer combination.  The key is that it HAS TO BE FUNNY.  It actually has to make others laugh.  You must make sure that you are Cocky enough, because if you’re only FUNNY, then you will come across as GOOFY, which isn’t what you want.

So, for instance, you might be at a bar, and you’re having a drink.  Let’s say your drink has too much alcohol in it, and you’re going to comment on it.  An arrogant comment might be:

“This bartender sucks.  There’s too much booze in my drink.”

Add a touch of humor, and it turns into:

“Whoa, this bartender either loves me or is trying to kill me.  This drink is pure alcohol.  Is there an AA meeting nearby?  Cuz I’m gonna need it when I’m done with this one.”

You feel me?  Cocky & Funny = Great Pick Up Lines and Conversation Starters.

It’s the COMBINATION that makes Cocky & Funny work like magic.  Too little or too much of either and you will come off as an idiot.  And remember, have fun.  Practice is what will help you improve.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

Man, life has changed over the last 4 months since grabbing your book and applying Cocky Comedy!  My friends are amazed at how many women I am dating and life is great!  One of the most important points I have followed from you is breaking down the whole pickup/dating/score routine and approaching each part as a skill I must learn.  Got past the email/phone number part, past the first date and first kiss part, and finally the step towards intimacy.  But alas, I’m down to the one skill that I have problems with and that I’ve never seen you really address: The graceful exit skill…

Let me explain…OK, I meet a girl, we go out, maybe we end up in each other’s arms, maybe not, but there comes a point when I just want to end it and move on to another girl.  I always get nervous with the “Well, it’s been fun, but we this isn’t going to work out so have a good life…”  Do I call and leave a voice mail?  Do I phone her?  Do I break it off face-to-face?  What’s the confident, C&F way to leave a girl and not have PLAYER stamped onto my forehead because of it?

Loving life,

S.R.

 DAVID DEANGELO’s COMMENTS:

You’re a very, very, very bad man.  In the best way possible, of course.  I think the key to dating more than one woman, or to not seeing a woman more than once or twice is to NOT ACT LIKE YOU’RE HER BOYFRIEND FROM THE BEGINNING.

Women will only resent you if you mislead them.  So don’t.  It’s not necessary.  Just have fun, be straight up, and enjoy yourself.  You don’t have to break something off if it never was “something” to begin with.  Are you with me?  The big mistake is to call twice a day, see her five times a week, act like her long lost love, and then drop her without explanation.

I think you get what I’m saying.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

I have been subscribing to the newsletter for about 6 or 8 months and have purchased your Double Your Dating eBook a couple after subscribing.  Your information has been invaluable and well worth the price.  It has completely changed the way I look at women, I never pine over them anymore and wonder “what’s wrong with me”.  Now I know what was wrong with me, I was a wuss!  But that’s all changed now and have become the Jedi Master.  I’ve even come up with some Jedi Techniques of my own.

At any rate, I met this one girl at a party one night who I knew came with a few acquaintances of mine who I told about the party.  I got to talking to her and we talked for a few minutes and poured on the Cocky & Funny, but I never got her info.  I know, I know, the 3 minute technique, but I knew I could obtain it from her friends, and the way she interacted with me, I knew she wouldn’t have minded at all (Important Note: this is my success story, I wouldn’t recommend doing things like this unless you have developed the confidence that your book helps teach).  Well, I never had to even asked her friends because two days later, she ended up looking me up in the University’s online student directory and then she looked up my IM name and IMed me with a “mysterious person” message.  I immediately figured out it was her and then accused her of stalking me and told her that’s pretty illegal.  She almost thought I was mad at her!  It was great!

Anyways, she is a real quality girl (not to mention about a 9, not perfect, but gorgeous nonetheless) and we set something up to go play pool at a local bar where I again poured it on thick.  Now mind you, I hadn’t made any big advances or anything but as she dropped me off back home, she came in to use the bathroom.  After she came out, she wrapped her arms around me and let me have a little taste.  I said goodnight to her and that was that night.  A few nights later, I told her I was going to be cooking and that she should come over which leads me to…

***Tip 1*** One of the best techniques is to invite a girl over for dinner at your place, especially if you know how to cook.  I find that many women don’t know how to cook or only “cook” stuff like Mac and Cheese and other junk.  The best part about this is they get to see your skill, which is pretty attractive to women when you can make a good meal, and you have the most control because it is your own place.  The other part, is make sure you don’t start making dinner until she is already at your place, she’s not getting an entirely free meal!

Make her help.  If she refuses, use the Cocky  & Funny techniques and have her do something.  Put her on a task that’s not too difficult so she can’t mess it up.  For example, if you’re making lasagna, make her grate cheese or something (making her wash dishes is rather insulting unless you’re doing most of them and she wants to help, which she just might).  And when you’re all done with dinner, take it to the couch and turn on the TV or watch a movie or something.  Which brings me to…

***Tip 2***    If you’re sitting down next to a girl that you’re talking to in a private setting and you get a little of that silence, not the awkward kind, but the kind where you just kind of look at each other.  If you’re thinking to yourself “should I be kissing her?”.  The answer is a screaming “YES”.  This can be preceded by the “kiss Test” as well, but I know a lot of single guys will still have insecurities about this kind of thing.

Think about it this way.  If you don’t kiss her, then she’ll probably think you’re a wuss because you don’t have the balls to do something she probably wants you to anyways.  After talking with a number of my girl-friends, I’ve found out that if a guy tries to kiss a girl, unless there is an obvious lack of attraction, she will most likely go with the kiss.  At any rate, in this day and age, she’s not going to slap you and walk out the door.  It’s not like you grabbed her crotch or something.

***Tip 3***    MC from the Mediterranean asked a question about calling the next day.  I just wanted to point out you have already answered this question in some form and you know what to do!  You can generally sense if a girl is sensitive about something like that.  If not, send her some sort of message that next day, preferably email, but if you’re on the phone, have something you’re on the way to or busy with.  Call, say “hi” and that you had a great time, don’t ask how she’s doing or what she thinks about what or if she had a good time, but find some way to use C&F to make a light conversation that will keep her wondering and even thinking about you.  Don’t bring up the sex unless she does so in a favorable manner.

***Tip 4*** Not so much a getting single girls technique, but rather something you need to do alone.  In your spare time or even when doing mindless tasks, go over your past failed attempts when you have a clear head about them and think about what happened.

You’d be surprised at how easy it is to find the things that went wrong.  You’ll also be surprised to find out that these are probably mistakes you make all the time!  This is the best way to recognize the problem and rectify it so that its not repeated. Your techniques are nearly priceless and have stroked the confidence of guys everywhere.  I’ve even recommended it to friends that have some serious wuss problems.  I have yet to see if they’ve taken it to heart or even subscribed, but I’ll help them yet!  Things are going great with that girl and I know it wouldn’t have happened if it weren’t for your eBook.  Its now become second nature, and you get all the credit.

Thanks again Dave

Your once Jedi Apprentice, now Master, D.M.

 DAVID DEANGELO’S COMMENTS:

Great ideas…  great.

Nothing else needs to be said…

Except that you stole those ideas from me, loser.

Cocky Comedy – Approaching Women

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Here are some fabulous excerpts from David DeAngelo’s newsletters regarding his Cocky Comedy techniques and how to use them to approach women.

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WOW! Yeah, that’s the best word I can describe your techniques with. I’ve been in situations where I can’t help but smile, or even burst out laughing when I see the magic work… keeping a straight face can be hard just because I never thought it would work so well. Anyway, to the point: I’ve been using the ‘Cocky Comedy you can’t get what you want’ on this girl. Well it was working well, but one instance she was discouraged, and I wasn’t sure what to do. I felt bad, like I broke her or something… I was hoping you could help me with a funny line that would give her, or any other girl alike, a good feeling after they turn around and feel bad. I wanted to make sure and not turn into ‘PUSSYMAN’ to make her feel better. Rather, something to encourage her to pursue me, and give her the ‘it’ll be worth your while impression.’ Your advice seems to have covered everything but this, or I just missed something. Help make it clear. I appreciate the time you put into saving our lives. I think I was on the verge of wasting a lifetime before I was introduced to your work.

F. F. Toronto

>>>David DeAngelo’s response in the Double Your Dating – How To Be Successful With Women

One of the things you need to watch for when you’re learning to be cocky & funny and using Cocky Comedy is GOING TOO FAR.

I’ve seen guys get a little too cocky, while forgetting that FUNNY is a key component of the formula… and then winding up turning a woman off instead of making a woman laugh.

I’ve done it myself a few times…

Just remember, if you wind up coming across as arrogant and hurting a woman’s feelings, you need to change the frame of what’s going on.

Try saying:

“Lighten up… what, you don’t have a sense of humor?”

This tells the woman you’re talking to that it was a joke without you turning into a wussy in her eyes.

Then add more humor.

Women are very adaptable, and if you take things too far, just remember to diffuse the situation quickly and learn from it. Once she sees that you were just busting on her, she’ll most likely bounce right back.

Unfortunately, too many guys will turn into insta-wuss and start apologizing. Don’t do that!

***SUCCESS STORY***

Dave,

You are more than just the man; you’re the man’s man. I don’t know how the hell you did it, but you’ve done what Freud couldn’t–figure out what a woman wants. Buy the BOOK!!!! There’s so much more to learn from it, including BRIDGES and SEX SECRETS. In Sex Secrets, Dave even teaches you how to transition into the position that woman hate, but men love…DOGGY-style!!!! You can’t beat this. You had better believe I’ve got a SUCCESS STORY.

My cousin (he has a long-term girlfriend) and I wanted to work on our Cocky Comedy routines, so we decided to go to Barnes and Noble…like you said normal places.

NOTE: he went to work on his Cocky Funny, but not to meet women. Anyways, I tell you what: its nerve racking as hell approaching a girl, but each time I went and talked to girl I became more and more confident. I RECOMMEND this to anyone: find a friend who has some balls and go with him…it was good having the support, and we had an awesome time. In the end, my cousin got this hot ass model chic’s e-mail, along with the usually “you’re kind of rude.” (He accused her of faking a cell-phone call …LOL) But whatever, it worked. Anyways, later we met this chic…I didn’t have anything to lose, so I went balls to the wall with the Cocky Comedy. She completely dug it, she was hinting at sex and all that.

PROBLEM: I eventually found out she was married, and like you say, there’s too many women out there to ruin relationships. The point is THAT A MARRIED WOMEN WANTED TO RISK HER MARRIAGE TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO SHE FOUND ATTRACTIVE!!!!!!!!! My question is this:

We sometimes found that our jokes didn’t always catch. For example, my cousin walked into Ravegirl and accused the waitress of stealing. LOL. She didn’t quite take the joke, and she got all pissy (Don’t worry he didn’t apologize). How do you hint that what your saying is supposed to be a joke? Should you smile (I know you say to avoid this)? Also, what books other than Comedy Writing Secrets do you recommend? Also, we’re both attractive (I’m getting a 9 at HotorNot.com), thus we have to work on the FUNNY part of Cocky and Funny because chicks assume the cocky part.

PS. Don’t forget to keep us posted on the videos or audio tapes of the seminar. I couldn’t make it.

PPS. Even when we failed, we laughed our asses off. It was great. Just make sure that your partner pushes you to go by YOURSELF to talk to the chic.

–Student in NY, 21 years old

>>>David Deangelo’s Comments in the Double Your Dating Newsletter:

You have some great points here… and I think that you’re going to find your balance very soon.  A quick distinction that I’ll point out to you:

When you’re first meeting a woman, I think it’s better to just get the email/number and leave.

Then, when you email, talk on the phone, and meet up later start being more cocky and funny…

This will probably help you out A LOT.

As for married women… I don’t recommend going there.

A final note: If you’re a pretty good looking guy, you might turn down the cocky, and turn up the funny.

Women perceive good looking guys who act cocky as MAJOR PLAYERS, and too much cocky too soon can backfire on you. Learn the art of the “sly smile”… squint a bit and smile just barely. This says “I just teased you but you didn’t get it…”

It’s great…

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Using Humor To Attract Women

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While there is no “magic bullet” out there that will turn you from dud to stud with women overnight, if there is something that comes close, it would have to be the skill of COCKY COMEDY.

It’s no coincidence that almost every guy who is a “natural” at meeting women is a MASTER of Cocky Comedy (whether he knows it by name, calls it Cocky Funny, Humor or whatever).

There’s just something magical about communicating in this way… it says all of the right things about you… and lets a woman know INSTANTLY that you are funny, confident… and a “catch”.

The best part?

It’s the one skill that any guy can start using IMMEDIATELY to increase his success with women…even if he’s never been great with women in the past… and… even if he isn’t all that great at Cocky Comedy itself.

Huh?

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Let me explain…

On the previous page, I gave you quite a few examples of what is in David DeAngelo’s Cocky Comedy program. But what you didn’t experience (and won’t unless you do buy the program) is the huge boost in confidence that KNOWING how to interact with women will give you.

The point is, what’s in it for me, right?  Seriously.  I get that.  And what you will get is HUGE – its the ability to meet and talk to women, anywhere, anytime, with confidence and without fear of rejection.  That is what you are here looking for, correct?  And how much is that worth to you?  I bet quite a bit, if you are anything like me.  And I didn’t want to be a pick-up artist.  All I wanted was to be able to meet enough women to meet THE ONE woman that I was looking for.

Here is a little more about what you are going to learn in t he program…

-The big mistake guys make when using Cocky Comedy that forces them to FAIL no matter how good the “line” they say is (If you’ve tried out Cocky Comedy but have had less than stellar results, I can practically GUARANTEE that you are making this deadly mistake)

-How to “ease into” Cocky and Funny – Use this simple fix if you are experiencing the problem of coming off as too much of a “jerk” to women

-How you MUST use Cocky Comedy DIFFERENTLY when dealing with different types of women (From the girl next door to the girl that can’t walk out of her door without getting swarmed by men… my friend explains it ALL…)

-An AWESOME line to use on a waitress that will spark a fun, flirty conversation with even the most stand-offish of women (This one is so good you’ll use it every time you are in a restaurant. Hint: It works especially well with those HOT bartenders that get hit on all the time)

-A great Cocky & Funny line to use at an “awkward” point in a conversation to get things back on track that will make any woman laugh

-A way to strike up a conversation with a woman who is in line that works every time (You’re going to want to hit the mall immediately after you hear this one)

-ANOTHER great way to make fun of a woman’s clothing (Even funnier than the one I shared with you earlier!)

-A hilarious way to tease her about her MUSIC

-How to use Cocky Comedy to meet tons of women ONLINE (how to “break through” to the women who are getting hundreds of emails a day and stand out as the ONLY one she wants to talk to.